Peter Eater

What happens when he grows?

"Young boy who will disconnect you from reality..."
No thanks. I prefer just the opposite.

What happens when he grows?

The search function (upper right hand corner) is your friend.
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/137981-eurasianbook-in-la/

Isn’t the male version of that hair color “blond”?

Nice that he cuts to the chase.

Wdym “real”? I’ve had several experiences with amateur massage providers on grindr as have others on this thread. Yea, they’re not licensed or professional but if you’re looking for body contact, not everyone is a fraud and you can root out the fake guys with some diligence. How did that hat taste?

I’ll recommend this article "What Cisgender Men Should Know Before Hooking Up With Transgender Men and Transmasculine Folks - Nov 11, 2019 By JD Davids”.
I’ve met a few FTM escorts and dated a non-escort FTM guy several years ago.  They tend to be very brave and tough people.  It’s worth asking something like, “is there anything I can do or avoid doing to not make you feel bad, like using wrong terminology or focusing on body parts that make you uncomfortable?”   
A guy I was with was wearing a thick chest binder (think of an extra-heavy-duty sports bra) under a leather bulldog harness when we met.  I didn’t think anything of it.  During play, I reached and touched his chest without thinking about it (he had photos of himself topless in his profile and his chest looked great in those, so I thought it’d be okay.) When I cupped his chest, he winced and I immediately knew I’d touched off a dysphoria trigger.  It didn’t create much of an issue and the rest of the date went fine, but I wished I’d known the trigger before I bumbled into doing that.
 
 
 

What? No.

Not sure what you’re hinting at, but I’ll respectfully ask any FTM I meet if “vaginal intercourse” is allowed. 

I think there are a lot of young guys who are in your Kiwi's pre-employment situation.  NYC is expensive and a lot of young people (even many with full-time employment) either can't or can barely make ends meet.  I'm sure a lot of them wouldn't mind a little side gig with an older guy.  I think that's true with both gays and straights. 
Young people today have a very different view of homosexuality than they did when we were growing up.  They all have and hang out with gay friends, and (so I'm told) many so-called straights have had experiences with and sometimes sexual relationships with those friends.   So they're not afraid of or offended by gay sex, and with enough interest (and monetary incentive) some would be willing to consider providing that service regularly to one or two carefully chosen clients.  I hesitate to use the term 'escorting' for this because it's not what we think of as offering a wide range of services to the public to earn a living, which I think describes most of the guys on RM.
The problem is how (if you're one of these young people) to find a potential client.  Going on RM or Seeking is WAY too public and is expensive and inefficient for finding one regular client.  The apps police against it (and there's lots of noise and scammers on them) and sitting in a bar/public place and trolling for clients is dangerous from a safety and legal perspective.  It might happen randomly (e.g., a diner soliciting a waiter as we were leaving the restaurant - I've seen friends be successful in this), but that's a very inefficient way to find a client.  So, even those guys who are interested are frustrated in finding a client in a discreet manner.  
Oh, for the days of Craigslist, when it was easy to find these guys without too much noise or too many scammers.  

Oh, honey. Everyone needs someone to look down on. 

In my experience, it's niche even within liberal bubbles. Most of the anti-sex work laws that have been passed has broad liberal support because they were presented as "anti-trafficking." The don't really address trafficking so much as drive sex work further underground, which makes people trapped in it less likely to access help. And it criminalizes those who genuinely want to do it. 
The US is a uniquely sex-negative, puritanical country. But only for the regular folks. We see how the elites engage in the most immoral and often illegal behavior without consequence, while someone engaged in sex work for survival can be arrested and jailed. 

Very good looking guys USUALLY do reasonably well for themselves without escorting in part because goodlooking people get treated well in general...more likely to get the job, make friends/contacts, etc. And having sex work on your resume kind of puts the other stuff at risk 

Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work. 
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality. 
 

I understand the fantasy of wanting to have some sort of sex with hot men one sees in public.  I went to Oakland's Pride Festival yesterday and there was a very hot man near the Latin stage that I could barely take my eyes off.  Where this thread veers into silly territory for me is actually thinking that a significant portion of hot men would choose to do sex work.  It doesn't matter the circumstance -- a lot of men (gay, straight or bi) simply aren't motivated to do sex work, even if it just involves being "serviced."

I didn’t do that. I explained why it doesn’t appeal to me specifically, not as a universal truth or in judgement of his desires. I even said I was in the minority of gay men, most of whom fantasize about straight men. You should keep your debates to 18 year olds and stop trying to gaslight adults. 

That’s the second time in a few days that you’ve said that and then did exactly THAT 😉
Not to yuck your yum, but ewwwwww!
 
Personally, I don’t think that’s a problem…but doing it for money takes it to a different level.   Then they start thinking “what will granny say if they hear I was doing it for money with a xxx.
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If they did, the world will be a much better place 😁

I’d be more than happy to suck off such hotties, or rim them if they’re amenable.

He requires a $69 reservation fee via PayPal, and then $99 for an hour. Too good to be true. Definite scam.

Gotta love the name

He has terrible taste in Speedos, and he doesn’t seem to know what “dark blonde” is. Other than that, I want him.