Couldn’t read through six pages of comments, so forgive me if this has been said:
You do not pay an escort for sex. You pay an escort to leave after sex. Truth.
Advice: That masseur who made you melt? Ask him out on a date. Not for an appointment, but for a date. At the end of the date, do not have sex, but ask him for a second date in a few days. And kiss him goodbye.