Nikba

I live in NYC and hire mostly guys offering sensual/erotic massages.  There is a core group of 3 guys whom I hire repeatedly.  I am very happy with them.  It is rare for me to hire someone who is escort only.  I pay on average $300 per incall session and hire 3-4 times per month.  Per year that amounts to $12-15k.

My biggest chance of success on the apps are when I travel to a new city.  I've learned that I'm going to get most opportunities for hookups within the first 24 hours of turning on my apps in a new city... because I'm "fresh meat" and the only new guy on these guy's screens.  I make sure my schedule is clear for the day, hotel room is ready, and I'm ready to play before turning on my location and opening the apps in a new city.
What's nice is that I've developed a "little black book" of app followers in most cities to which I travel, so when I arrive there are already men who know I'm fun and reach out right away to cum play with me during my limited engagement in that city.

If they look my number up on MrNumber, they’ll be able to find out a whole lot without me saying anything 

With good communication and reasoning, all providers comply with the request. After the second, third or fourth clients of the day is tough for provider to keep it fresh. Discussing my reasoning and the solution to keep it fresh without using deodorant they were delighted to try. I love young fresh smell armpits and more. 

With good communication and reasoning, all providers comply with the request. After the second, third or fourth clients of the day is tough for provider to keep it fresh. Discussing my reasoning and the solution to keep it fresh without using deodorant they were delighted to try. I love young fresh smell armpits and more. 

The real person is a kick boxer and a Muay Thai professional called Superball. 
 

The regular comes with expectation, familiarity, comfortable and reliable. After a few sessions with new faces, in most cases the providers open up more options with flexible rules. Certainly, happened with me in the past 10 years, and always looking for new challenges from new provider. 

All depends on location, European, SouthAmerica and Asia:  Grindr & Hornet sites also an options, indicated what you need and welcoming provider. 

The regular comes with expectation, familiarity, comfortable and reliable. After a few sessions with new faces, in most cases the providers open up more options with flexible rules. Certainly, happened with me in the past 10 years, and always looking for new challenges from new provider. 

Just had a rouge storm come thru yesterday in my area that left about 2-3 inches of snow. I had a same day booking request that I was considering to take, but by the time I got the needed details and was about to schedule: the snow started coming down. I checked Google maps and even though the roads in my area were okay, closer to Kansas City I noticed a backup in both directions and an accident.  KC seems to always get more snow (and worse drivers 🤢) so I ended up telling him I wouldn’t be able to meet due to the conditions. And it’s not just going there, it’s coming back too. 
 
I think if anything: people seem to reach out MORE for outcalls, when it’s snowing. It’s like, no. I’m not 911 or Superman. I know it seems warm and cozy but…it’s not fun being stressed on the way to/from a booking. Same thing with summer thunderstorms. I was on my way to a client last year, the highway turned into a river and a few cars stalled out. He’s blowing up my phone texting like, are you here? Are you close? Are you on your way still???
I didn’t even bother reading his message’s until I pulled up in the driveway. It’s like dude, you see the weather. Fucking chill out and be patient. I don’t like being rushed when the weather is already bad.
If a client does want to meet in bad weather: expect to wait an additional 2 to 4 hours, and try to avoid same day booking requests. If the weather is going to bad, planning a day in advance will at least give me a chance to coordinate my timing around it.

I personally NEVER bring an escort to my home. I always hire when out of town and meet him usually somewhere and bring him to my hotel. If he's a repeat, then he can just come directly to my room at the hotel. On very few occasions a very well reviewed escort has been given hotel addresses and room numbers without knowing them prior. I know these rules don't work for everybody, but those are the rules I play by and have worked for me. I rather rent a room and be safe than give my home address and any personal info like work locations or company to avoid problems or any personal phone numbers. Only an email address to contact me for future communication if the meeting went well and I'm interested in future possible meetings. I've only had one problem with an escort who turned out to be a hustler and stole from me. The hotel dealt with him by banning him from the property and not passing calls to my room. (That was the benefit of staying at a small boutique hotel where I was a regular client and known by most of the staff whom half were gay men themselves). 

Common issue among mature men, those beautiful eyes, lovely face, adorable smooth butt and sweet juicy labios. I focus on an enjoyment, the fun of being with the guy half my age and it couldn't be possible without the provider instead of intimacy. Not an easy thing and we all fell for those beautiful faces and an intimacy settled in one's head, when that happened I shifted to New Provider to diverted my interests and it worked for me. New face once or twice a month. Of course, I have my regular and again for fun and only fun. If one focus on fun, you can drill and be drilled longer. 

The regular comes with expectation, familiarity, comfortable and reliable. After a few sessions with new faces, in most cases the providers open up more options with flexible rules. Certainly, happened with me in the past 10 years, and always looking for new challenges from new provider. 

The regular comes with expectation, familiarity, comfortable and reliable. After a few sessions with new faces, in most cases the providers open up more options with flexible rules. Certainly, happened with me in the past 10 years, and always looking for new challenges from new provider. 

Met him tonight. Face pics are outdated by about 10 years but still super cute and very smooth; the rear pic is definitely accurate and some decent kissing. However would not repeat and would warn anyone else that despite being very friendly and flirty in texting he's very down-to-business and perfunctory. It was a short and not all that enjoyable.

Gentlemen, I do not get into specifics on the public forum since chemistry is important to each individual experience…plus all my engagements are weekends or longer so I have to be very picky.  PM me if you have specific questions  
This has been a year for me of narrowing down to the best matches for me.  My three primary criteria are
1) maturity - Sam is smooth like a younger version of James Bond
2) education - Sam is educated as an engineer and an absolute pleasure to spend time with and talk to
3) sober - Sam has no addictions and seems grounded in every way
After those things, the other important things can flourish.   He is kind, affectionate, chill, sexy as hell (that man meat in his pics is 100% legit and his face and eyes are beautiful), and takes BFE to another level.
We have at least two trips scheduled in the first half of the year including a week long trip to the Virgin Islands with CuteBlondeBoy, and an exploration of Austin (I’ve never been because who needs to visit a knock off of Nashville 😅🤣 EXCEPT to see Sam) in January.
Sam is a keeper and among a short list that I’m focusing on in 2026.  

Beautiful lean, tone body with lovely compact culo. Not speaking English never been a problem. The body language, ability to follow direction "gesture & gentle touch" and anticipation to please are the keys. I lived in BA for 2 years without speaking Spanish....

PM me and I will share some details…

Greetings,
 
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Is that based on personal experience? If yes, can you provide any non-intimate details of your encounter?
And "doesn't speak English" means he speaks none or next to none? If so, how did you two communicate with each other?
BTC
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The real person is a kick boxer and a Muay Thai professional called Superball. 
 

Hello there I would like to share something based on what you said. This is what I have learned and I know this now to be true. From this happening quite often I have discovered that when these guys travel even if they don't travel together they all know each other. They have message boards the way we do here where they review the clients. Another aspect in older communications are that they refer one another to the best places to stay with the best rates so if you ever are given the same address again in the future it could be or might not be the same guy. So if in fact you have this experience again where you're wondering who may be at the address please keep in mind it could be someone different however based on the response it may have been the same guy. For example Ryan Gosling may fuck my brains out. And not only in my dreams. And then the following week I hope to be fucked by Ryan again but it's gone. So I reach out to somebody else who gives me the address that Ryan was at. I decide well why not and I show up and it turns out this time it's Ryan Reynolds. See what I mean? LOL
By the way if there ever both in town at the same time they're coming to my house for an overnight and for me that means from Friday to tuesday.

Was planning on visiting Denver, and was wondering if anyone has come across this guy 
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He looks super attractive and fit, and was wondering if anyone has had any experiences with him. I didn’t find any when looking. 
 
Good massage? Any extras? At least HE? Is he nude?
 
He does making it pretty clear on his profile that it probably won’t lead to straight up intercourse (fair enough, also can’t blame anyone for asking though), but he does list erotic so some sort of extras seem to be on the table, maybe? 

For those already experienced with group sessions in a private party or sauna, it comes easy and only needed to agree with rules and roles. Not so easy task for the first timer, I had it years ago with lot of excitement and expectations. The first time was horrible with miscommunication and engagement. The second time, a year later, I asked the provider (I hired a few times) to pick the third one, that might be best suited the situation. It turned out fantastic and beyond my imagination.  Since then, I regularly held 3some every 3 or 4 months depending on the vibe and budget. Top/versatile and completely versatile are best choices on most cases.