Dave

I'm going to be the conservative on this one. I don't know that anyone knows what Bill's age verification process was. Other example of blowups that have happened before is somebody writes what the escort says is a fake review. But the one that could be a fatal error is something relating to age. After the blowback on the first Rentboy complaint they reframed it, weakly I thought, to make it sounds like Rentboy was promoting underage escorts.
 
Now that the review site is up, here's an interesting flashback to 2017 and Bill's thoughts about the defensive environment framed by FOSTA/SESTA. I've just been doing homework and research. So here's an interesting factoid. One thing you see everywhere on Rentmen you don't see on Daddy's is cocks, cocks, and more cocks. But escorts who advertise on Rentmen are telling me one thing you don't see there and can't talk about at all is rates. On Daddy's some escorts post rates and some don't. My strong hunch - not a fact - is that Rentmen has better lawyers than Bill did. They probably said cocks are everywhere on the internet. Having a cock is not prostitution. But once you say anything about rates, it gets dicey.
 
My big picture point is that I think the situation warrants a big and gradual rethink. Mostly, I think we want to think about how to move from defense, circa 2017, to offense and moving the ball forward. I think that's mostly a discussion for another day. The energy now is on this site, and it's all good energy. This approach that we'll make small changes now and big changes later generally makes sense to me.
 
Does anybody really believe that now that both sites are up and running we would actually pull the plug on either if we get news we don't like out of probate? I don't. I don't think this community wants to die. Or that it will commit suicide, technological or otherwise. Hopefully this is a non-issue as probate plays out. But I'm very glad we are acting like this is a community with a future. I think we can use this time to plan and organize.

I understand how hard it is to get to truth. And understandably, many Balinese don't really know the details of foreigners getting in, as immigration is not something they directly work with...
 
Here are the facts. The reason I can state them with certainty, is that my all-male naked sailing company Everything To Sea is working directly with this stuff:
 
Australia's borders are closed. So yes, it is very hard for people from Oz to get out - anywhere. Although I think there are plans - and not sure yet if implemented - for a travel bubble between NZ and AUS.
 
Bali (and all of Indonesia) is open for tourism. Domestic tourism, yes - and actively encouraged. International tourism, not directly - although international visitors can come to the country on a sponsored visa. It costs a couple hundred dollars (not free, like in pre-covid days), but the traveler can be in the country for 60 days - and it's relatively cheap and easy to extend it, up to 6 months. We have already brought guys in with this visa, for our trips running this past September and October, and now November too.
 
I hope that helps. WesternSyd, I'm sorry you've had to cancel your plans twice. You can reach out to me directly when Oz opens up - maybe there's some way I can help you get back into the Island of the Gods...

Hi WesternSyd, good to see you're still active on the forum!
I'm gonna guess you're in Sydney now. As you may recall, I live in Bali - and cannot agree with what you wrote. Unfortunately, there is a lot of negative press in Oz about COVID in Bali - and has been since the start of the pandemic. Rates here are not "very high". They're not even close to being "high", in comparison with so many places in the world. There are less than 10,000 COVID cases in Bali, and the island has over 4 million people. Now, within Indonesia, the COVID rates have been and continue to be high in Jakarta (about 85,000 cases) - but that is 1200km from Bali. Cheers -

Hi WesternSyd, good to see you're still active on the forum!
I'm gonna guess you're in Sydney now. As you may recall, I live in Bali - and cannot agree with what you wrote. Unfortunately, there is a lot of negative press in Oz about COVID in Bali - and has been since the start of the pandemic. Rates here are not "very high". They're not even close to being "high", in comparison with so many places in the world. There are less than 10,000 COVID cases in Bali, and the island has over 4 million people. Now, within Indonesia, the COVID rates have been and continue to be high in Jakarta (about 85,000 cases) - but that is 1200km from Bali. Cheers -

Holy cow, this is helpful. Thank you, Danny, for sharing!
Like most escorts, sometimes I'll suddenly realize a client had used before our appointment. This guide will be particularly useful to me for those situations.
 
Come to Bali sometime, Danny - we can hang out on a beach and read the guide together, haha. Bali's a place where drugs are not only illegal but highly punishable (even death sentence for trafficking), homosexuality's NOT illegal, and healthy living and eating is easy to do

thanks, Smurof - I was actually hoping that someone who hires might find what I wrote helpful - so as not to waste other working guys' time.

FORUM READERS: This is PART TWO of a two-part post. The first post can be found at “Sorry to have disturbed you” - PART ONE
______________________________________
 
Hmmmm... SHappiness... SHappiness... I thought I recognized that, so I searched in my own email log for SHappiness. Sure enough, I found this exchange - from two years ago! That’s right, in 2017, I had this email exchange:

jan 15, 2017: Hello Dave, I see from your travel calendar that you will be in DC the first week of February. I would like to book a session with you on the 6th or 7th. Looking forward to hearing from you!
D, jan 16, 2017: thanks for contacting me! I'd love to see you. how much time do you want to spend together? and what're the earliest and latest times you could start on both days/ also- are you looking to come to me, or have me come to you? thanks, Dave
jan 16, 2017: I would like to do 2 hours with you. I can meet any time with you up until 7pm on either of those days, and I would like to come to you.
D, jan 16, 2017: great. I'll call you - we can chat for a few minutes, and I'll get you on my calendar. what is your number? also, please let me know if there are certain times that I can call / shouldn't call. fyi: http://thelegendarydave.com/why/discretion
jan 17, 2017: Never mind. Sorry to have disturbed you.
D, jan 17, 2017: ?? What happened? Were you hoping to have an appointment without having a phone call first?
jan 18, 2017: No. Just having second thoughts that you might not be what I am looking for.
D, jan 18, 2017: ok - no problem. let me know if you change your mind.

______________________________________
 
My note to SheerHappiness continued:
Four years later, you’re still making posts seeking advice on hiring esccrts. It seems that after all these years, you are still struggling how to do so. Now, I know that some people suffer from social situations, and others have learning disabilities that make tasks like this hard. Still others have memory challenges that result in the need to ask things several times. While I’m not putting you down if you should have anything like that, I am requesting now that you not contact me again, for an appointment.
 
The problem with all of this is twofold.
- One, it seems that you are not really booking appointments. And esccrts - no matter how gold their heart is - are working. Our work starts with appointments.
- Two, your requests for information or advice seem as if that’s not really your goal - but rather, to mentally masturbate/engage esccrts to give you attention. Remember this - and I bet you’ve heard it before: We are paid for our time. Giving time to a person to help him or her get to a place of hiring, is good. Giving time to a person who implies that he or she wants an appointment when they really don’t, is bad.
 
I have been nothing but encouraging about setting up an appointment with you, so I’m afraid that even though you’ve already written something negative about me publicly several years ago - which I feel is bogus, actually - you will not be able to do so again, in this most recent exchange. I am proud of the reputation I’ve earned, as a quality esccrt in the field - and that includes how I handle written inquiries and requests for appointments. Now, by posting this on the Forum, I’m choosing to take charge of how a person like you works this sort of thing. I suspect you have done similar negative behavior to my brothers, and after being difficult (the way you’ve been with me in our most recent message exchange, above) you then would post about how they have “wronged” you. I don’t know what your game is... I don’t know what gets you off about being so unkind to working guys who are just trying to do their jobs... but something just doesn’t smell right. Why would so many guys cancel appointments on you? Especially when what esccrts want is... appointments?
 
If I don't hear from you - by 7AM tomorrow - I will join the group of men who will not see you - and will request that you not contact me again for an appointment.
__________________________________________
 
his reply: I’m sorry. I will stop.
 
D: That’s not an explanation- which I was clearly asking for. As such, I’ll be posting this on the Forum, to help other escorts and clients understand the darker side of setting up appointments.
 
SH: It is all part of the foreplay for me. I like the passive aggressive stuff and playing the games. I always follow up with a paid session, but I use my real name so the connection is never made.
 
D: Foreplay? Interesting that you have never seen me and yet your foreplay’s been going on for over four years. I’m glad that’s exciting for you, but you ought to learn how to respect an esccrt’s time.
 
SH: How do you know you have not seen me?
 
D: You are playing games with esccrts. I guess this is fun for you, but this work is real work. Holding back your phone number and taking up esccrt’s time is rude and disrespectful behavior. Please do not contact me again. Ironically, I now join the group of men who will not see you. I rarely say this to a person, but - I am no longer interested in setting up an appointment to be with you.
 
I have removed both email addresses from my mailing list. I’m referring to the “SHappiness” email and the “SheerHappiness” email. You probably know from my past emails that I send out a message once or twice a year, which usually includes some educational info about sex, as well as my whereabouts, plus a bit about what’s been going on in my life over the previous year. I suspect that may be the reason why you’ve been contacting me so many times.
 
I hope, with all sincerity, you find what you are looking for - but can do so in the future without being the “victim”, and simultaneously, without wasting the time of good working men throughout the world. Let esccrts focus on people who really want to spend time face to face.
______________________________________
 
In closing - SheerHappiness and SHappiness:
As you wrote back in January of 2017, “Sorry to have disturbed you.”
Yes, you have disturbed me. And now, I will accept your apology - even though I know you don’t mean it in the way it should have been said.
 
Finally, a note to my esccrt brothers:
I really hope this post helps you in identifying this person - if you, like me - conclude he is a time drain.
 
And now, I’ve got to go. Have an appointment with a client in 30 minutes. Yep - a real, materializing, honest client.

FORUM READERS: This is PART TWO of a two-part post. The first post can be found at “Sorry to have disturbed you” - PART ONE
______________________________________
 
Hmmmm... SHappiness... SHappiness... I thought I recognized that, so I searched in my own email log for SHappiness. Sure enough, I found this exchange - from two years ago! That’s right, in 2017, I had this email exchange:

jan 15, 2017: Hello Dave, I see from your travel calendar that you will be in DC the first week of February. I would like to book a session with you on the 6th or 7th. Looking forward to hearing from you!
D, jan 16, 2017: thanks for contacting me! I'd love to see you. how much time do you want to spend together? and what're the earliest and latest times you could start on both days/ also- are you looking to come to me, or have me come to you? thanks, Dave
jan 16, 2017: I would like to do 2 hours with you. I can meet any time with you up until 7pm on either of those days, and I would like to come to you.
D, jan 16, 2017: great. I'll call you - we can chat for a few minutes, and I'll get you on my calendar. what is your number? also, please let me know if there are certain times that I can call / shouldn't call. fyi: http://thelegendarydave.com/why/discretion
jan 17, 2017: Never mind. Sorry to have disturbed you.
D, jan 17, 2017: ?? What happened? Were you hoping to have an appointment without having a phone call first?
jan 18, 2017: No. Just having second thoughts that you might not be what I am looking for.
D, jan 18, 2017: ok - no problem. let me know if you change your mind.

______________________________________
 
My note to SheerHappiness continued:
Four years later, you’re still making posts seeking advice on hiring esccrts. It seems that after all these years, you are still struggling how to do so. Now, I know that some people suffer from social situations, and others have learning disabilities that make tasks like this hard. Still others have memory challenges that result in the need to ask things several times. While I’m not putting you down if you should have anything like that, I am requesting now that you not contact me again, for an appointment.
 
The problem with all of this is twofold.
- One, it seems that you are not really booking appointments. And esccrts - no matter how gold their heart is - are working. Our work starts with appointments.
- Two, your requests for information or advice seem as if that’s not really your goal - but rather, to mentally masturbate/engage esccrts to give you attention. Remember this - and I bet you’ve heard it before: We are paid for our time. Giving time to a person to help him or her get to a place of hiring, is good. Giving time to a person who implies that he or she wants an appointment when they really don’t, is bad.
 
I have been nothing but encouraging about setting up an appointment with you, so I’m afraid that even though you’ve already written something negative about me publicly several years ago - which I feel is bogus, actually - you will not be able to do so again, in this most recent exchange. I am proud of the reputation I’ve earned, as a quality esccrt in the field - and that includes how I handle written inquiries and requests for appointments. Now, by posting this on the Forum, I’m choosing to take charge of how a person like you works this sort of thing. I suspect you have done similar negative behavior to my brothers, and after being difficult (the way you’ve been with me in our most recent message exchange, above) you then would post about how they have “wronged” you. I don’t know what your game is... I don’t know what gets you off about being so unkind to working guys who are just trying to do their jobs... but something just doesn’t smell right. Why would so many guys cancel appointments on you? Especially when what esccrts want is... appointments?
 
If I don't hear from you - by 7AM tomorrow - I will join the group of men who will not see you - and will request that you not contact me again for an appointment.
__________________________________________
 
his reply: I’m sorry. I will stop.
 
D: That’s not an explanation- which I was clearly asking for. As such, I’ll be posting this on the Forum, to help other escorts and clients understand the darker side of setting up appointments.
 
SH: It is all part of the foreplay for me. I like the passive aggressive stuff and playing the games. I always follow up with a paid session, but I use my real name so the connection is never made.
 
D: Foreplay? Interesting that you have never seen me and yet your foreplay’s been going on for over four years. I’m glad that’s exciting for you, but you ought to learn how to respect an esccrt’s time.
 
SH: How do you know you have not seen me?
 
D: You are playing games with esccrts. I guess this is fun for you, but this work is real work. Holding back your phone number and taking up esccrt’s time is rude and disrespectful behavior. Please do not contact me again. Ironically, I now join the group of men who will not see you. I rarely say this to a person, but - I am no longer interested in setting up an appointment to be with you.
 
I have removed both email addresses from my mailing list. I’m referring to the “SHappiness” email and the “SheerHappiness” email. You probably know from my past emails that I send out a message once or twice a year, which usually includes some educational info about sex, as well as my whereabouts, plus a bit about what’s been going on in my life over the previous year. I suspect that may be the reason why you’ve been contacting me so many times.
 
I hope, with all sincerity, you find what you are looking for - but can do so in the future without being the “victim”, and simultaneously, without wasting the time of good working men throughout the world. Let esccrts focus on people who really want to spend time face to face.
______________________________________
 
In closing - SheerHappiness and SHappiness:
As you wrote back in January of 2017, “Sorry to have disturbed you.”
Yes, you have disturbed me. And now, I will accept your apology - even though I know you don’t mean it in the way it should have been said.
 
Finally, a note to my esccrt brothers:
I really hope this post helps you in identifying this person - if you, like me - conclude he is a time drain.
 
And now, I’ve got to go. Have an appointment with a client in 30 minutes. Yep - a real, materializing, honest client.

FORUM READERS: This is PART TWO of a two-part post. The first post can be found at “Sorry to have disturbed you” - PART ONE
______________________________________
 
Hmmmm... SHappiness... SHappiness... I thought I recognized that, so I searched in my own email log for SHappiness. Sure enough, I found this exchange - from two years ago! That’s right, in 2017, I had this email exchange:

jan 15, 2017: Hello Dave, I see from your travel calendar that you will be in DC the first week of February. I would like to book a session with you on the 6th or 7th. Looking forward to hearing from you!
D, jan 16, 2017: thanks for contacting me! I'd love to see you. how much time do you want to spend together? and what're the earliest and latest times you could start on both days/ also- are you looking to come to me, or have me come to you? thanks, Dave
jan 16, 2017: I would like to do 2 hours with you. I can meet any time with you up until 7pm on either of those days, and I would like to come to you.
D, jan 16, 2017: great. I'll call you - we can chat for a few minutes, and I'll get you on my calendar. what is your number? also, please let me know if there are certain times that I can call / shouldn't call. fyi: http://thelegendarydave.com/why/discretion
jan 17, 2017: Never mind. Sorry to have disturbed you.
D, jan 17, 2017: ?? What happened? Were you hoping to have an appointment without having a phone call first?
jan 18, 2017: No. Just having second thoughts that you might not be what I am looking for.
D, jan 18, 2017: ok - no problem. let me know if you change your mind.

______________________________________
 
My note to SheerHappiness continued:
Four years later, you’re still making posts seeking advice on hiring esccrts. It seems that after all these years, you are still struggling how to do so. Now, I know that some people suffer from social situations, and others have learning disabilities that make tasks like this hard. Still others have memory challenges that result in the need to ask things several times. While I’m not putting you down if you should have anything like that, I am requesting now that you not contact me again, for an appointment.
 
The problem with all of this is twofold.
- One, it seems that you are not really booking appointments. And esccrts - no matter how gold their heart is - are working. Our work starts with appointments.
- Two, your requests for information or advice seem as if that’s not really your goal - but rather, to mentally masturbate/engage esccrts to give you attention. Remember this - and I bet you’ve heard it before: We are paid for our time. Giving time to a person to help him or her get to a place of hiring, is good. Giving time to a person who implies that he or she wants an appointment when they really don’t, is bad.
 
I have been nothing but encouraging about setting up an appointment with you, so I’m afraid that even though you’ve already written something negative about me publicly several years ago - which I feel is bogus, actually - you will not be able to do so again, in this most recent exchange. I am proud of the reputation I’ve earned, as a quality esccrt in the field - and that includes how I handle written inquiries and requests for appointments. Now, by posting this on the Forum, I’m choosing to take charge of how a person like you works this sort of thing. I suspect you have done similar negative behavior to my brothers, and after being difficult (the way you’ve been with me in our most recent message exchange, above) you then would post about how they have “wronged” you. I don’t know what your game is... I don’t know what gets you off about being so unkind to working guys who are just trying to do their jobs... but something just doesn’t smell right. Why would so many guys cancel appointments on you? Especially when what esccrts want is... appointments?
 
If I don't hear from you - by 7AM tomorrow - I will join the group of men who will not see you - and will request that you not contact me again for an appointment.
__________________________________________
 
his reply: I’m sorry. I will stop.
 
D: That’s not an explanation- which I was clearly asking for. As such, I’ll be posting this on the Forum, to help other escorts and clients understand the darker side of setting up appointments.
 
SH: It is all part of the foreplay for me. I like the passive aggressive stuff and playing the games. I always follow up with a paid session, but I use my real name so the connection is never made.
 
D: Foreplay? Interesting that you have never seen me and yet your foreplay’s been going on for over four years. I’m glad that’s exciting for you, but you ought to learn how to respect an esccrt’s time.
 
SH: How do you know you have not seen me?
 
D: You are playing games with esccrts. I guess this is fun for you, but this work is real work. Holding back your phone number and taking up esccrt’s time is rude and disrespectful behavior. Please do not contact me again. Ironically, I now join the group of men who will not see you. I rarely say this to a person, but - I am no longer interested in setting up an appointment to be with you.
 
I have removed both email addresses from my mailing list. I’m referring to the “SHappiness” email and the “SheerHappiness” email. You probably know from my past emails that I send out a message once or twice a year, which usually includes some educational info about sex, as well as my whereabouts, plus a bit about what’s been going on in my life over the previous year. I suspect that may be the reason why you’ve been contacting me so many times.
 
I hope, with all sincerity, you find what you are looking for - but can do so in the future without being the “victim”, and simultaneously, without wasting the time of good working men throughout the world. Let esccrts focus on people who really want to spend time face to face.
______________________________________
 
In closing - SheerHappiness and SHappiness:
As you wrote back in January of 2017, “Sorry to have disturbed you.”
Yes, you have disturbed me. And now, I will accept your apology - even though I know you don’t mean it in the way it should have been said.
 
Finally, a note to my esccrt brothers:
I really hope this post helps you in identifying this person - if you, like me - conclude he is a time drain.
 
And now, I’ve got to go. Have an appointment with a client in 30 minutes. Yep - a real, materializing, honest client.

FORUM READERS: This is PART TWO of a two-part post. The first post can be found at “Sorry to have disturbed you” - PART ONE
______________________________________
 
Hmmmm... SHappiness... SHappiness... I thought I recognized that, so I searched in my own email log for SHappiness. Sure enough, I found this exchange - from two years ago! That’s right, in 2017, I had this email exchange:

jan 15, 2017: Hello Dave, I see from your travel calendar that you will be in DC the first week of February. I would like to book a session with you on the 6th or 7th. Looking forward to hearing from you!
D, jan 16, 2017: thanks for contacting me! I'd love to see you. how much time do you want to spend together? and what're the earliest and latest times you could start on both days/ also- are you looking to come to me, or have me come to you? thanks, Dave
jan 16, 2017: I would like to do 2 hours with you. I can meet any time with you up until 7pm on either of those days, and I would like to come to you.
D, jan 16, 2017: great. I'll call you - we can chat for a few minutes, and I'll get you on my calendar. what is your number? also, please let me know if there are certain times that I can call / shouldn't call. fyi: http://thelegendarydave.com/why/discretion
jan 17, 2017: Never mind. Sorry to have disturbed you.
D, jan 17, 2017: ?? What happened? Were you hoping to have an appointment without having a phone call first?
jan 18, 2017: No. Just having second thoughts that you might not be what I am looking for.
D, jan 18, 2017: ok - no problem. let me know if you change your mind.

______________________________________
 
My note to SheerHappiness continued:
Four years later, you’re still making posts seeking advice on hiring esccrts. It seems that after all these years, you are still struggling how to do so. Now, I know that some people suffer from social situations, and others have learning disabilities that make tasks like this hard. Still others have memory challenges that result in the need to ask things several times. While I’m not putting you down if you should have anything like that, I am requesting now that you not contact me again, for an appointment.
 
The problem with all of this is twofold.
- One, it seems that you are not really booking appointments. And esccrts - no matter how gold their heart is - are working. Our work starts with appointments.
- Two, your requests for information or advice seem as if that’s not really your goal - but rather, to mentally masturbate/engage esccrts to give you attention. Remember this - and I bet you’ve heard it before: We are paid for our time. Giving time to a person to help him or her get to a place of hiring, is good. Giving time to a person who implies that he or she wants an appointment when they really don’t, is bad.
 
I have been nothing but encouraging about setting up an appointment with you, so I’m afraid that even though you’ve already written something negative about me publicly several years ago - which I feel is bogus, actually - you will not be able to do so again, in this most recent exchange. I am proud of the reputation I’ve earned, as a quality esccrt in the field - and that includes how I handle written inquiries and requests for appointments. Now, by posting this on the Forum, I’m choosing to take charge of how a person like you works this sort of thing. I suspect you have done similar negative behavior to my brothers, and after being difficult (the way you’ve been with me in our most recent message exchange, above) you then would post about how they have “wronged” you. I don’t know what your game is... I don’t know what gets you off about being so unkind to working guys who are just trying to do their jobs... but something just doesn’t smell right. Why would so many guys cancel appointments on you? Especially when what esccrts want is... appointments?
 
If I don't hear from you - by 7AM tomorrow - I will join the group of men who will not see you - and will request that you not contact me again for an appointment.
__________________________________________
 
his reply: I’m sorry. I will stop.
 
D: That’s not an explanation- which I was clearly asking for. As such, I’ll be posting this on the Forum, to help other escorts and clients understand the darker side of setting up appointments.
 
SH: It is all part of the foreplay for me. I like the passive aggressive stuff and playing the games. I always follow up with a paid session, but I use my real name so the connection is never made.
 
D: Foreplay? Interesting that you have never seen me and yet your foreplay’s been going on for over four years. I’m glad that’s exciting for you, but you ought to learn how to respect an esccrt’s time.
 
SH: How do you know you have not seen me?
 
D: You are playing games with esccrts. I guess this is fun for you, but this work is real work. Holding back your phone number and taking up esccrt’s time is rude and disrespectful behavior. Please do not contact me again. Ironically, I now join the group of men who will not see you. I rarely say this to a person, but - I am no longer interested in setting up an appointment to be with you.
 
I have removed both email addresses from my mailing list. I’m referring to the “SHappiness” email and the “SheerHappiness” email. You probably know from my past emails that I send out a message once or twice a year, which usually includes some educational info about sex, as well as my whereabouts, plus a bit about what’s been going on in my life over the previous year. I suspect that may be the reason why you’ve been contacting me so many times.
 
I hope, with all sincerity, you find what you are looking for - but can do so in the future without being the “victim”, and simultaneously, without wasting the time of good working men throughout the world. Let esccrts focus on people who really want to spend time face to face.
______________________________________
 
In closing - SheerHappiness and SHappiness:
As you wrote back in January of 2017, “Sorry to have disturbed you.”
Yes, you have disturbed me. And now, I will accept your apology - even though I know you don’t mean it in the way it should have been said.
 
Finally, a note to my esccrt brothers:
I really hope this post helps you in identifying this person - if you, like me - conclude he is a time drain.
 
And now, I’ve got to go. Have an appointment with a client in 30 minutes. Yep - a real, materializing, honest client.

I feel powerful when I get a boner at work.
but wait - that IS my work.

Two of my favorite uni preparations, in the shell and accenting scrambled eggs

 

I feel powerful when I get a boner at work.
but wait - that IS my work.

I feel powerful when I get a boner at work.
but wait - that IS my work.

I feel powerful when I get a boner at work.
but wait - that IS my work.

I feel powerful when I get a boner at work.
but wait - that IS my work.

...and swallowing.

I think one of my clients has a kid.
 
Shit, I even have a kid! Two, actually.
 
Maybe that's why I know what Topinla means when he writes "I don’t want to bring it up but I know it will be at the back of my mind." It was for me, too.
 
Topinla, many of us are concerned with overpopulation on the planet. I can assure you - you're not alone. If you want to speak with someone about it and don't want to do so while topping him, know that you can always contact me. We can discuss birth control, depletion of precious resources, the reduced mortality rate, vasectomies, or whatever else you want to talk about.
 
And by the way... there's a good chance he's taking birth control with you, so don't worry about becoming a father while you fuck the hell out of that breeder.

I think one of my clients has a kid.
 
Shit, I even have a kid! Two, actually.
 
Maybe that's why I know what Topinla means when he writes "I don’t want to bring it up but I know it will be at the back of my mind." It was for me, too.
 
Topinla, many of us are concerned with overpopulation on the planet. I can assure you - you're not alone. If you want to speak with someone about it and don't want to do so while topping him, know that you can always contact me. We can discuss birth control, depletion of precious resources, the reduced mortality rate, vasectomies, or whatever else you want to talk about.
 
And by the way... there's a good chance he's taking birth control with you, so don't worry about becoming a father while you fuck the hell out of that breeder.

I think one of my clients has a kid.
 
Shit, I even have a kid! Two, actually.
 
Maybe that's why I know what Topinla means when he writes "I don’t want to bring it up but I know it will be at the back of my mind." It was for me, too.
 
Topinla, many of us are concerned with overpopulation on the planet. I can assure you - you're not alone. If you want to speak with someone about it and don't want to do so while topping him, know that you can always contact me. We can discuss birth control, depletion of precious resources, the reduced mortality rate, vasectomies, or whatever else you want to talk about.
 
And by the way... there's a good chance he's taking birth control with you, so don't worry about becoming a father while you fuck the hell out of that breeder.

OK, full disclosure: I'm on this forum right now because I just had a no show. And I'm traveling in Malaysia, so... well, I'm only here to work.
 
3pm appointment. I am flying in earlier than planned to make this work for this guy, a new guy I've not seen before. Airport to hotel is a bit of a rush, and up to room... check the aircon, set up the lighting, shower/shave/shit, brush teeth again, and pull the gear I think we'll need from my luggage. Suddenly, my son calls me to chat - from the USA - which we do for a bit, but I have to tell him, I gotta go, because I have an appointment soon. He understands (he knows what sort of work I do), but I think I hear a wistfulness in his voice as we say bye.
 
Back to my 3:00... I have exactly eight minutes left to get ready. I spend a few thinking about what I know about this guy. A few more getting my laptop and speaker set and some chill music going. Another minute to see that the bathroom looks ok... and that there's water for him... and a minute more to calm down and sit. I'm excited, it will be fun.
 
The time is 3:01. Phew, I made it.
The time is 3:01. Hmmm, where is he? I asked him to call me when five minutes from the hotel.
 
And now... i's 3:05. I ponder, when did I last hear from him? Two days ago? He was emailing after we spoke and - gee, I guess he first contacted me about five days ago... so I think he's serious and is gonna show. And now... it's 3:10. I call.
 
His phone rings, he answers, and he hangs up. Not a good sign.
 
A minute later a message comes in: "So sorry actually my boss this morning send me Ipoh to take his family to visit his auntie house who just pass away"
 
Ipoh, I google-map it, is a 2.5 hour drive away.
 
I am pissed. I don't even know if his explanation is real or not. And it doesn't matter. "this morning"??? Why the fuck didnt he write me, this morning? Or early this afternoon? Why did nothing come in to me at... 2pm?? Why did I have to contact him, to hear this excuse???????

Next message, a minute later: "I'm so sorry dear will get u back soon."
 
REALLY?!?!? Meanwhile, I had another client who wanted this time slot... but several days ago I told him I'm already booked then, can we figure another date? Alas, that was his only availability (in the past, some people have suggested I call clients back when that happens, but actually... I'm not that sort of escort).
 
So at the moment, I'm alone here in my hotel room. And I realize, I'm hungry. I never ate lunch. Didn't have time for it earlier.

where have I heard those words before?

I think one of my clients has a kid.
 
Shit, I even have a kid! Two, actually.
 
Maybe that's why I know what Topinla means when he writes "I don’t want to bring it up but I know it will be at the back of my mind." It was for me, too.
 
Topinla, many of us are concerned with overpopulation on the planet. I can assure you - you're not alone. If you want to speak with someone about it and don't want to do so while topping him, know that you can always contact me. We can discuss birth control, depletion of precious resources, the reduced mortality rate, vasectomies, or whatever else you want to talk about.
 
And by the way... there's a good chance he's taking birth control with you, so don't worry about becoming a father while you fuck the hell out of that breeder.

I think one of my clients has a kid.
 
Shit, I even have a kid! Two, actually.
 
Maybe that's why I know what Topinla means when he writes "I don’t want to bring it up but I know it will be at the back of my mind." It was for me, too.
 
Topinla, many of us are concerned with overpopulation on the planet. I can assure you - you're not alone. If you want to speak with someone about it and don't want to do so while topping him, know that you can always contact me. We can discuss birth control, depletion of precious resources, the reduced mortality rate, vasectomies, or whatever else you want to talk about.
 
And by the way... there's a good chance he's taking birth control with you, so don't worry about becoming a father while you fuck the hell out of that breeder.

OK, full disclosure: I'm on this forum right now because I just had a no show. And I'm traveling in Malaysia, so... well, I'm only here to work.
 
3pm appointment. I am flying in earlier than planned to make this work for this guy, a new guy I've not seen before. Airport to hotel is a bit of a rush, and up to room... check the aircon, set up the lighting, shower/shave/shit, brush teeth again, and pull the gear I think we'll need from my luggage. Suddenly, my son calls me to chat - from the USA - which we do for a bit, but I have to tell him, I gotta go, because I have an appointment soon. He understands (he knows what sort of work I do), but I think I hear a wistfulness in his voice as we say bye.
 
Back to my 3:00... I have exactly eight minutes left to get ready. I spend a few thinking about what I know about this guy. A few more getting my laptop and speaker set and some chill music going. Another minute to see that the bathroom looks ok... and that there's water for him... and a minute more to calm down and sit. I'm excited, it will be fun.
 
The time is 3:01. Phew, I made it.
The time is 3:01. Hmmm, where is he? I asked him to call me when five minutes from the hotel.
 
And now... i's 3:05. I ponder, when did I last hear from him? Two days ago? He was emailing after we spoke and - gee, I guess he first contacted me about five days ago... so I think he's serious and is gonna show. And now... it's 3:10. I call.
 
His phone rings, he answers, and he hangs up. Not a good sign.
 
A minute later a message comes in: "So sorry actually my boss this morning send me Ipoh to take his family to visit his auntie house who just pass away"
 
Ipoh, I google-map it, is a 2.5 hour drive away.
 
I am pissed. I don't even know if his explanation is real or not. And it doesn't matter. "this morning"??? Why the fuck didnt he write me, this morning? Or early this afternoon? Why did nothing come in to me at... 2pm?? Why did I have to contact him, to hear this excuse???????

Next message, a minute later: "I'm so sorry dear will get u back soon."
 
REALLY?!?!? Meanwhile, I had another client who wanted this time slot... but several days ago I told him I'm already booked then, can we figure another date? Alas, that was his only availability (in the past, some people have suggested I call clients back when that happens, but actually... I'm not that sort of escort).
 
So at the moment, I'm alone here in my hotel room. And I realize, I'm hungry. I never ate lunch. Didn't have time for it earlier.