Tactile Daddy

The reviewer that have him $900 is a fucking idiot. 

Agreed. I really do not think it’s about getting a bigger tip.  Maybe the guy is just aroused . Or yes maybe he is acting out of habit and it’s his usual process. If you like the guy and feel comfortable, then go with the flow. Don’t overthink it!   If you truly have  strong boundaries for some reason ( like loyalty to a partner) then yes just be clear up front as you have been and hope he respects that.  He should!  

This may just be a difference in massage culture but UK masseurs mostly put ask on their profile so its never bothered me really. 
They tend to have different price points for each massage type and give you the detail of what each massage entails so I guess it makes more sense to put ask as it does depend on what type you choose. 
There's very little up selling during a massage here. 

His private gallery has 2 nice pix of his butt! 😋 Does Nuru include eating cakes?😜

Kudos to you for living your life the way you chose and for not letting others stopping you from embracing  it proudly. In the end it’s all about our capacity to freely CHOOSE our sexuality and how to go on with our lives. Of course, our choices are indeed conditioned by the complex, sometimes unfathomable dynamics between nature and nurture, as you wrote earlier. 

Finally met Patrick.  GREAT experience from start to finish.   Actually genuinely good massage and last 30 mins if 90 was particularly nice and not rushed.  I can't recommend him enough.

Just guard yourself from having any feelings towards said masseur (been there, done that - never again). I have a few of the masseurs in my social media - I asked and told them directy I’ll add them and they said yes.  Most are just that - an acquaintance on social media. 

I see no harm in a short, casual email or text about it. They're human too and live lives beyond just their role as a massage therapist. I would say relay it as briefly as possible unless they engage back and appear to want to continue the conversation.

Since the rate paid is reported by the client, what the client considers to be the rate paid may or may not include a tip.   I haven't posted any reviews, but if I did, I probably would not inlude the tip because it is discretionary.

One of my massage therapists loves to shower at length with me.  I also love getting boinked in the shower.

I'd recommend. Good/great massage. He's trained and trains others at his job - he has some great skills. All around balanced massage with a sensual edge and great ending. Very down to earth - for me he was a little to chatty in the beginning but I get he was trying to get to know me and what I wanted/needed. 

They must rely on word of mouth.
I mean “word of skilled and caring hands”

They have no website.
Their Facebook page was created in June 2017 and hasn't been used since December 2017.
Their Instagram account was apparently created in 2018 but was quickly hacked and never used since.
Seems like they don't care much for advertising or communicating. 

I went once, was woefully underwhelmed and haven’t returned. It’s been awhile though… 

Possible he could have had a penile implant after radical surgery for prostate cancer. There's a masseur I've been to that I believe has had that very same issue. 
 

Except the private pics don't add up to the main photo 📸 
Unless they were taken a number of years apart and he got a nose job. 

Yeah this isn’t him, unfortunately!

Been racking my brain again for what his actual last name was.  It was very French-Canadian sounding, as I recall.  Russell was a stage name of sorts.
I've been trying to find him again for more than a few years now.
This is him (below) for all you internet sleuths out there.  But the info is outdated by 10 years or more.  He could be back in Canada.
But OH MY GOD that cock and body and personality were fun!
https://www.yelp.com/biz/jesse-russell-private-yoga-los-angeles

I don’t think this is the same Jesse Russell. If you search his name/photo, the LA Jesse now has tattoos and sleeve with a buzzed haircut. 

And there are times like today, where I had a great experience in the sleep room with 3 other guys... 
For me the key has been to go to enjoy the spa, get my sweat and cold plunge on, anything else is bonus. I've been going for more than 2 years, and there has been plenty of bonus. 😈

He was one weird motherfucka. 

James moved away several years ago, ostensibly to Central America , if his odd ramblings on Instagram were correct 

So I decided to go to this spa again  today and another lucky day for me because this same actor showed up.
So we chat again and he stated he is visiting his friend nearby. But lot of people in the spa so it’s hard to do what we wanted to do lol 
in the steam room when we had the chance little bit of kissing and caressing. Then He whispered “you wanna go to the bathroom?” I can fuck you there “ 
And we did go but since he did not bring a condom I declined. We just did some body contact, he Rim me and we reached the climax.
he exploded on my chest and I tasted the cum and he kissed me…
this is maybe another lucky day for me…

Apologies for jumping in a thousand years later, however I do believe you’re mistaking this guy with James who used to live in Reseda and was quite the gross creepy scuzzoid. 
 
I could not find him on any massage so the s anymore but found this:
https://www.instagram.com/jameslamassage
they do look maybe kind of similar
therw are threads about James on here 
 

Damn!