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I have known Tristan for 15 years.  I make arrangements with him regularly.  You need to have some patience with him as he has a very complicated existence with his various interests and assorted travels and jobs.  He is well worth the trouble and you will never be dissatisfied with a visit from him.  However, just beware, that last minute changes in plans are frequent.  On the other hand, he gives undivided attention.  He is not a clock watcher.  He has a strong masculine aura and he has alpha qualities that are great but you may also find him willing to take a less dominant role, if you are inclined to want to alpha out.  He is generous with his attention.  He will leave you breathless and well satisfied in a way few others are able to do.  He is without doubt as sexy and sensual man as you will ever meet.  He will be passing by my area on his way back from his latest trek and I am hoping he will stop for spell here.  

I have known Tristan for 15 years.  I make arrangements with him regularly.  You need to have some patience with him as he has a very complicated existence with his various interests and assorted travels and jobs.  He is well worth the trouble and you will never be dissatisfied with a visit from him.  However, just beware, that last minute changes in plans are frequent.  On the other hand, he gives undivided attention.  He is not a clock watcher.  He has a strong masculine aura and he has alpha qualities that are great but you may also find him willing to take a less dominant role, if you are inclined to want to alpha out.  He is generous with his attention.  He will leave you breathless and well satisfied in a way few others are able to do.  He is without doubt as sexy and sensual man as you will ever meet.  He will be passing by my area on his way back from his latest trek and I am hoping he will stop for spell here.  

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

I have known Tristan for 15 years.  I make arrangements with him regularly.  You need to have some patience with him as he has a very complicated existence with his various interests and assorted travels and jobs.  He is well worth the trouble and you will never be dissatisfied with a visit from him.  However, just beware, that last minute changes in plans are frequent.  On the other hand, he gives undivided attention.  He is not a clock watcher.  He has a strong masculine aura and he has alpha qualities that are great but you may also find him willing to take a less dominant role, if you are inclined to want to alpha out.  He is generous with his attention.  He will leave you breathless and well satisfied in a way few others are able to do.  He is without doubt as sexy and sensual man as you will ever meet.  He will be passing by my area on his way back from his latest trek and I am hoping he will stop for spell here.  

I have known Tristan for 15 years.  I make arrangements with him regularly.  You need to have some patience with him as he has a very complicated existence with his various interests and assorted travels and jobs.  He is well worth the trouble and you will never be dissatisfied with a visit from him.  However, just beware, that last minute changes in plans are frequent.  On the other hand, he gives undivided attention.  He is not a clock watcher.  He has a strong masculine aura and he has alpha qualities that are great but you may also find him willing to take a less dominant role, if you are inclined to want to alpha out.  He is generous with his attention.  He will leave you breathless and well satisfied in a way few others are able to do.  He is without doubt as sexy and sensual man as you will ever meet.  He will be passing by my area on his way back from his latest trek and I am hoping he will stop for spell here.  

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

It's good you specified that you're talking about pizza
 

As I recall, in previous years there was some muss.  Most of us are not looking for a muss free Time.  So do we need to bring our own muss?   

As I recall, in previous years there was some muss.  Most of us are not looking for a muss free Time.  So do we need to bring our own muss?   

As I recall, in previous years there was some muss.  Most of us are not looking for a muss free Time.  So do we need to bring our own muss?   

Second on the left for me.   

I ;do not fear a text trail but I do prefer to hear someone's voice and I think phone conversations go more naturally than texts do, so I might ask for a brief call to clarify the details and to hear the voice.  A sexy Depp baritone or base makes the idea of the encounter more enticing. 

Agree that the first episode was a good one.  This show could be much better on basic cable or other service.

I had a job interview to be the director of a nursing facility.  That day, I had an early morning veterinarian appointment for my three dogs.  The vet ran late and the visit took longer than expected so I called the facility to see about pushing the appointment back or changing it to another day.  They said that if I could get there on time with the dogs, that they would let the dogs come into the interview.  
I sat at a long conference table and all three dogs laid down around my chair under the table.  The interview went on and they were perfect gentle dogs.  As I went to leave, each of the dogs sought out residents, who greeted them as though they were long lost friends.  The dogs loved the attention, and I spent quite a bit of time having the dogs visit.  They were not certified therapy dogs so I could not make this a regular practice, but the dogs took to the residents immediately and the residents took to the dogs lovingly.  
BTW, I did not get the job.   But subsequently, I was the director of a PACE facility for elderly and physically challenged adults.  I would bring my yellow lab Bonehead into the office on occasion, and he took to the role of canine ambassador immediately.  
Dogs, children and the elderly,  a triad of love for the most part.  

If the bottom is not hard and is into humiliation, I find that a good opportunity to make fun of him not having an erection. You have to know your partner and know his turn ons.  I have had one partner in particular who only got hard when bottoming when he was humiliated verbally alomg  with physical humiliation such as teasing slaps across the face.   He would answer back when he was hard, with things like "see I am a man" or "your cock made a man of me". "or no one else gets me hard like that" The exact words did not really matter so much as his realizing that his pleasurable erection was directly due to my control over him.  Now that I think about it, not sure who was controlling whom but it was fun and very hot.

If the bottom is not hard and is into humiliation, I find that a good opportunity to make fun of him not having an erection. You have to know your partner and know his turn ons.  I have had one partner in particular who only got hard when bottoming when he was humiliated verbally alomg  with physical humiliation such as teasing slaps across the face.   He would answer back when he was hard, with things like "see I am a man" or "your cock made a man of me". "or no one else gets me hard like that" The exact words did not really matter so much as his realizing that his pleasurable erection was directly due to my control over him.  Now that I think about it, not sure who was controlling whom but it was fun and very hot.

Advice is usually free and frequently untaken.  Once cash comes into play, most people begin to see the end game.  No harm in warning people about scams but as long as all they are asking for I advice, I don't mind participating.  Curious bye nature, sorry if I mistook your post as advising him to be absolutely sure.  

I do not play a doctor on TV but I am one in real life..   If you want to be totally safe, continue to be abstinent.  If you want to be as safe as you can reasonably expect to be, start Prep for at least two weeks and be faithful about taking it.  Do not start it until you are sure you are going to proceed as there is no reason to subject yourself to potential side effects if you are not committed.  
As to finding a man, go to RentMen and go to the listings for your area or the largest area within a reasonable travel for a weekend.  Look at each of the photos and read the comments.  Once you have narrowed down the field, come here with a list and ask for recommendation.  I suggest looking at all the ads as you never know what might strike your fancy and if you use the checklist, that man may have been passed over. 
As to the event itself, the first time I met with a man, my story was very similar to yours.  It is not a unique tale, n fact, it is common enough to be considered mundane.  So once, I got to the hotel and the escort arrived,. it took a bit of encouragement to start to do anything and once I got started it took all the willpower I had to stop.  Did not get to anal on my first encounter, nor my second encounter, which took place the next night nor my third encounter, which came two days later.  I then arranged an overnight while I was away on a trip and I finally had the time and was relaxed enough to try anal, as a top.   Many many men later, I decided to try bottoming and found it was not for me.  It took about 5 encounters to even get to the point where I was actually entered.  Word to the wise, do not become inpatient and just blurt out "just push the fucking thing in". I got what I requested but not what I wanted when I did that.      
You may have very specific requirements for the men you want to see at this time, but that will change and broaden as time goes by.  So consider being a bit less specific about what the man looks like and more about what kind of person he is.  For most of us here, the intellectual connection more than compensates for any perceive physical traits that the person may be missing from you checklist.  
My best advice, as opposed to Curious ByNature, do not wait for the perfect man and the perfect time or you may find that there is no perfect man nor perfect time.  But once you start to appreciate and accept your desires, almost any time can be the perfect time and you just need to allow your partner to be the perfect man.  If not, move on to the next one.  

I saw the play in Previews and in its short Broadway run.  They completely rewrote the ending in the interim.  I did enjoy some of the music, Madame Guillotine was fun as I recall.  

They seek him here, they seek him there. Those Frenchies seek him everywhere / Is he in heaven, or is he in hell?/ That damned, elusive, pimpernel 😂😂😂😂

Thanks all.  I am still looking but I am checking out all of your suggestions.  
 

Good Evening with Dudley Moore and Peter Cook

I do not play a doctor on TV but I am one in real life..   If you want to be totally safe, continue to be abstinent.  If you want to be as safe as you can reasonably expect to be, start Prep for at least two weeks and be faithful about taking it.  Do not start it until you are sure you are going to proceed as there is no reason to subject yourself to potential side effects if you are not committed.  
As to finding a man, go to RentMen and go to the listings for your area or the largest area within a reasonable travel for a weekend.  Look at each of the photos and read the comments.  Once you have narrowed down the field, come here with a list and ask for recommendation.  I suggest looking at all the ads as you never know what might strike your fancy and if you use the checklist, that man may have been passed over. 
As to the event itself, the first time I met with a man, my story was very similar to yours.  It is not a unique tale, n fact, it is common enough to be considered mundane.  So once, I got to the hotel and the escort arrived,. it took a bit of encouragement to start to do anything and once I got started it took all the willpower I had to stop.  Did not get to anal on my first encounter, nor my second encounter, which took place the next night nor my third encounter, which came two days later.  I then arranged an overnight while I was away on a trip and I finally had the time and was relaxed enough to try anal, as a top.   Many many men later, I decided to try bottoming and found it was not for me.  It took about 5 encounters to even get to the point where I was actually entered.  Word to the wise, do not become inpatient and just blurt out "just push the fucking thing in". I got what I requested but not what I wanted when I did that.      
You may have very specific requirements for the men you want to see at this time, but that will change and broaden as time goes by.  So consider being a bit less specific about what the man looks like and more about what kind of person he is.  For most of us here, the intellectual connection more than compensates for any perceive physical traits that the person may be missing from you checklist.  
My best advice, as opposed to Curious ByNature, do not wait for the perfect man and the perfect time or you may find that there is no perfect man nor perfect time.  But once you start to appreciate and accept your desires, almost any time can be the perfect time and you just need to allow your partner to be the perfect man.  If not, move on to the next one.