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  1. I was performing an interview today and the person I was interviewing asked me: As I am 30 years old, what advice would you give to yourself at 30. A kind of flip the focus question and one that has been asked in general conversation but I do not seem to recall a discussion here. I said, that I would tell my 30 year old self to be bolder and more confident. I find what regrets I have, and regrets I have a few (and quite a few that I won't mention) are related to lacking self confidence and boldness. I have much less trouble with that now. So anyone care to say what you would tell your younger self. I dare say 30 but I know I will get quite a few answers related to them not being 30. So essentially what life lessons have you learned which you wish you learned sooner?
  2. But woman is right there in the word. Woman ce. It may be that it is not needed on a social level but the portmanteau is spot on.
  3. I was playing Words With Friends and played the word BROMANCE with no problem. That was months ago. In playing today. I was looking for a good word and tried WOMANCE which it was not an acceptable word. I figured that a bromance that women had would be a womance though I had never heard the word. So has anyone ever seen this word used? There is a wikipedia heading for it but it is very brief and there is an apparel company by that name. So anyone use this term?
  4. I agree in that the focus changed frequently not only from show to show but with the same show. I would consider going back and watching all 156 episodes. One episode I saw this weekend had interviews with real politicians including Jimmy Carter. Gerald Ford and Bill Clinton as well as DeeDee Myers, Henry Kissinger and others. Their statements, usually 15 to 30 seconds long then lead into an aspect of that weeks story. It was extremely well done and getting those people to speak candidly about life in the White House and as President was captivating.
  5. One of the basic cable stations locally ran a Thanksgiving Weekend West Wing Marathon. I watched about 12 different episodes. Most of them held up really well. Many of the topics discussed are topics we are discussing almost 20 years later, climate change, nuclear proliferation, Russian aggression, the Middle East, Rogue states. The show had a cerebral flow and a point of view but did not hesitate to show both sides of an argument though clearing leaning left. The drama was fast paced. The writing was witty and well crafted. I learned something in just about every episode. The acting was top notch. I would love to see something this good on TV now. I do not believe I was as big a fan when it first aired as I am now. Anyone else recall this show with fondness?
  6. I know of a bi escort who was pursued by an Asian woman to invest in crypto. Part of the deal was a site where he could try his hand at it with no money, just data. On that site, he had earned about 15000 on the 100000 of imaginary currency he had invested. After telling how talented he was at this, he was tempted to invest with her. Fortunately, he decided to go a different way and invested independently. He lost about 20000 dollar in real investment. He might have been better off with the Asian woman.
  7. I find myself too exhausted to pray after sex. So I pray before sex. I pray that I will be too exhausted afterward to pray.
  8. It is a trope on situation comedies that the teenage son needs to be told about the facts of life and the father is nervous and tongue tied and invariably does a bad job or at times, the father learns somethings from the son. I am wondering if these sit down and explain the facts of life talks actually happen. So did the male parent in your life have a special talk with you about the "birds and the bees"? In my case, the only sex talk I had with my father amounted to him telling me and I quote. "If you are going to go out in the rain, wear a raincoat." Certainly words to live and love by. So guy, did you have the big talk or have you given the big talk?
  9. There may be some men making huge money on Only Fans, but people get bored and move on. Todays hot sausage is tomorrows dog meat. To my mind, what keeps escorts doing well is the personal interactions and the relationship they build with a client. I may be naive about this, but as there is always someone hotter, younger, sexier, and more imaginative, OF stars will come and go. Whereas escorts can age gracefully with their clients. Escorts I saw ten years ago are still younger and hotter than I am and they know what I like and for me at this point that is a major plus. While there may be younger, hotter and sexier, it is not worth it to me to start teaching them what does it for me.
  10. Yes but she was a bit on the crazy side. But thank you for making me laugh at the memory of that. I must admit I found it disturbing at the time but now it is just funny.
  11. First, rejection is all part of life. Chance are, that the guy you are worrying about rejecting you was rejected by someone else in the recent past. So, go up, talk to him. Offer to buy him a drink. Say something that might be interesting to him and go from there. There are many possible reactions from "Get lost kid you bother me". to "Want to give me a blow job in the alley?" See what he says and go from there. Chances are his answer will be somewhere between those two and then it is a matter of showing yourself off as your best possible self. Remember, he is a stranger to you and likely out there looking to meet someone just as you are. If things go well fuck him. If things go poorly, fuck HIM.
  12. Canyon Club has reopened, you might try there. Reports are that it is still a sleazy dump, but that is part of its charm.
  13. If you are not here on a work Visa, and you earn money here, you are breaking the law. I think sex workers are probably a target more so as to the nature of their work but any work would be subject to this. Probably best to advertise with a face picture, to only give out set travel plans to those with whom you have an appointment and then advertise with a burner phone in the cities where you are traveling once you are here in the US.
  14. I believe any kind of monetary reward would seem paltry compared to the amount of the check. And while the company was not likely to lose any money as a result of the lost check, it probably saved them a lot of time with record keeping. My suggestion, the company should have made a reasonable charitable donation in the finder's name and given a token amount to him. For the company it is would likely cost less than one of their horrible commercials in which adults speak as though they are cildren. Good publicity, a time saving return of the check, a reward for the finder. That sounds like a win all around to me.
  15. He was great as Victor. He had just the right amount of ooze and venom with a sparkle in his eye and even in his 80s, was quite a handsome man.
  16. First viagra is now most commonly sold as Sildenafil, the generic. It is available in 20 mg 50 mg and 100 mg. If you are using it to just boost an erection from moderately hard to rick hard, I would start with the 20 mg and then work up as tolerated. If you have eaten, especially a greasy meal, the absorption is delayed. So it is best taken on an empty stomach. It can take from 30 minutes to 4 hours to kick in and can last from 2 hours to 16 hours. With that kind of variability, you will need to experiment around and see how it works for you. The major side effect that is widely joked about is the prolonged erection. Priapism can be a serious issue. The erection does no receding and it becomes painful. After 4 hours there is the possibility of tissue damage and loss of erectile function. If you find you are having a prolong erection, a warm bath will help bring the erection down. If it becomes very painful or continues after after orgasm or lasts for more than 4 hours, medical help should be sought out. This side effect is another reason for starting with a low dose and working your way up. So, in brief, your results may vary. 80% of men have a good result up to 80% of the time. So if it does not work the first time, it does not mean it will not work the next time. For those men who doe not get a reaction, there may be other medical issues at hand. It can be a a nice addition sometimes, especially when you have a limited time frame in which to get hard and get gone. If you are having a weekend guest or expected several opportunities in a 2 day period, Cialis is probably the better choice rather than Viagra. though I have used Cialis with a small dose of Viagra on occasion and that has worked very well for me.
  17. While some consider it so, and ICD 10 lists it as such, Addiction, for me is not truly a disease. For me it is a condition. That is not to minimize the devastation of these conditions on those living with them and those surrounded by someone who does. Granted some people are genetically predisposed to having difficulties with alcohol or drug addiction. Alcoholism definitely runs in families. However, not all people with a genetic predisposition fall victim to the condition. One can make the case that some are predisposed to all types of addictions, as evidenced by the disproportionate number of people who have gastric bypass surgery who go on to have gambling addictions, alcohol addictions and drug addictions. Perhaps to some this is just semantics, but for me it helps clarify in my mind a situation which is caused from outside the person afflicted, disease and the other is a state of being of the person directly affected, condition. Conditions may lead to disease, cirrhosis for example. Consider, One HAS cancer. One IS an addict.
  18. I thought this was going to be about John Bobbit and Theon Greyjoy.
  19. I just watched that video with David SF and AJ does not seem to have a bad side.
  20. Never found him funny but he had a fairly successful career.
  21. At one of the Palm Springs weekend, I went to buy some items at the popular gay men's wear store in town. As I was checking out, the tall and fairly handsome clerk, in his forties told me he was a "chaser" and could he give me a kiss. We made out at the counter for a short time but I did not pursue it further. So even in your sixties you should be on the alert for a possible unexpected encounter. I regret not going further with this guy but I was so astonished that an fat old man such as I could still get a bone thrown in his direction. If I had been a bit bolder, I probably could have been getting some of the meat off that bone.
  22. Le petit morte
  23. In the game Never Have I Ever one person postulates something they have not done and asks that the other participants drink alcohol if they have done that thing. It may start out sedate but it quickly devolves into debauchery tales. In this version, I am offering up ten things I have done and ask you to score home many you have done as well. At the end of my list, add something my list of ten. You do not need to supply the particular things you have done on my list, only report the number and any details you would like to share and then add your own. 1. Received oral sex while driving more than 60 miles an hour. 2. Had sexual congress with two different people on two different continents on the same calendar date. 3. Used an edible cream (in my case cannoli cream) as lube and then had your partner eat it. 4. Undress your partner without his assistance , have sex and then dress him again without their assistance. 5. Had sex at work while other people were still working. 6. Had sex with a gay virgin. 7. Had sex at a professional sports event while it is going on. 8. Had sex with someone without speaking with them before, during or afterwards. 9. Have frottage with your cock in the fly of your partner's underwear or through his lowered zipper and then come in his pants. (Extra credit if he wore it out to dinner.) 10. Restrained your partner and left them the restrained when you left. I am curious as to what will be added to the list. I do not think of myself as particularly imaginative, so I am curious as to what you men have done.
  24. Ij contacted him and he sent back a very nice text stating he needed a face photo and my height and weight and promising a good time. Anyone else have this type of inquiry. I don't mind supplying my height and weight as he is going to find that out soon enough but I do not like the idea of sending my facial photo out. How do others feel about that?
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