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    Midtownguy99 reacted to coriolis888 in What to do with clients that cancel last minute?   
    You are usually "right on" the mark when it comes to responding to posts. 
    However, in this case you are misjudging Brazil.  Maybe because you have not spent much time there, if any. 
    In the U.S., many providers use a website called rentmen.eu.  The site is based in Europe and includes advertisements from providers based all over the world, including Brazil. 
    Although Brazil is technically called a third world country, it has a great economy and is greatly involved in world exports, including coffee and food supplies.  
    There are many places in Brazil where providers meet clients.  The saunas are only one small segment of where clients can meet providers.  
    There are movie houses, massage centers, parks, streets and many websites that allow Brazilian escorts to advertise their services to the public.  
    Below is merely one site that graphically shows countless escorts advertising their services.  
    Considering I visit Brazil often, I know for a fact that providers over the past two years are not making the fees they made prior to the coronavirus pandemic hitting Brazil and the down flux of their economy.  
    Below is merely one site that advertises providers.  On the site, most providers post their rates.  Visit the site and see how low the rates are. 
    Of course, you have no comparison to what the prices were prior to the pandemic hitting the world, but the rates were higher, that I know from experience.  
    https://www.vivalocal.com/acompanhantes-gays/jardim-paulista/marcelo-1-86-alt-86kg-25cm-bem-grosso/305119188
    And, in keeping with the title of the thread, even providers from Brazil experience a lot of "no shows" and cancellations of scheduled appointments made with clients from the web sites and other sources.  
    Cancellations just go with the territory.  It is with most businesses.  People change their minds or things come up and appointments are not kept.  
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to coriolis888 in What to do with clients that cancel last minute?   
    A true recession and later depression will certainly change the rates of escorts. 
    Why?
    Countless people will be without jobs.  Without jobs, they will not be able to pay their expenses.  Money for an escort will be little more than a wishful dream.  
    Again, look into what a true depression is.  The frequent semi-recessions the world has experienced over the past couple of years is predicted, by numerous respected economists, to become a major recession and then followed by a true depression.
    If or when a depression happens, the last thing on the mind of clients will be to look for an escort to spend money that is not there. 
    Read your history books on the depression that no one thought was coming, but it did.    
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from rn901 in What to do with clients that cancel last minute?   
    My rule of thumb. If there is a quality provider I know I want to meet I will contact him for an appointment and pay a 50% deposit of the appointment time. No questions asked. This puts us both at ease. He knows he will be taken care of with me paying him, and I know I will get the confirmed time that works best for me. 
    Once I’ve met the provider, I will pay 100% of their fee when booking the next appointment. This works best for me and any provider I’ve hired. It seems like a win win for both parties, I’m not sure why all clients don’t follow suit. 
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in What to do with clients that cancel last minute?   
    Apples to oranges discussion.  Brazil is not a first-world country.  
    What most here are talking about are rates in US, as well as major European and Asian cities. 
    Yeah, guys still go to the ends of the earth for cheap sexual tourism, but even the reliable standbys are no longer what they used to be. 
    Bottom line, you're talking about a whole different system (saunas) and, frankly, a whole other nation.  
    Added, this continues to be the world's oldest profession.  It's not going anywhere anytime soon, well-respected economists be damned.  They say this every 12-15 years and have for decades.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in What to do with clients that cancel last minute?   
    You're not wrong, but it's also situational.
    The smart guys are the ones who save, invest and can easily weather a downturn.
    If you devalue the product, the consumer never looks at it the same way again.  
    Or, as former escort Bryan Young once told me, 'You don't go to the flea market looking for Loro Piana.'
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Requested Fees for Escorts in 2022   
    This thread is enlightening as to some of the personalities here.
    I wonder if some of you had to attach personally identifying info, whether you'd be so brazen with your talk of what someone should charge for their services.
    Always remember: Escorts are human beings who have financial obligations just like you.  You don't get to set someone's rate or tell him why he should charge less, but you do have the choice of being a decent person and respectfully declining. 
    Don't be a prick.  It's not all that difficult.
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from Spiritualadvisor in Requested Fees for Escorts in 2022   
    I’m curious to see what the escort you’re hiring for $200 an hour looks like. We probably have different types my friend. That’s about half or even less than what I usually pay for per hour.  Or it could just be your region but I’ve never seen someone (that I’m interested in) charge that little. 
     
    Also, how does it make you feel when you negotiate a provider’s rates when he’s already charging below market value and you don’t care to stay within the timeframe you agreed on? Do you feel like you earned a win or came out on top? 
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to Kevin Slater in A provider says "You have 3 reports."   
    It's hard to parse what your post is trying to say, but it sounds like you have multiple instances of cancelling with short notice.  So why even book in advance, rather than waiting til you know you're actually free?  If you want to reply "because my time is limited and I want to be sure that he'll be available when I might be" I'd ask why the provider isn't afforded the same consideration.
    Kevin Slater
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from Jarrod_Uncut in Do you work with or turn away high maintenance/unavailable clients?   
    I feel for you guys. I view this as a service industry and an appointment should be made in advance similar to anything else you’d set time aside for. Sometimes I’ll book a week in advance with a paid deposit if his travel schedule is posted. 
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + Axiom2001 in Requested Fees for Escorts in 2022   
    I'm with you; I concur and do as you wrote in your last sentence.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + WestGuy in Requested Fees for Escorts in 2022   
    Interesting thread. If the subject was the impact of inflation on prices other than those that escorts are charging, it would be CNBC-worthy.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to Jamie21 in Do you work with or turn away high maintenance/unavailable clients?   
    50% of guys who try to book me are unsuccessful because they assume I’m sitting around all day doing nothing just to be available for anyone who asks. It’s unfortunate but the ‘available now?’ clients usually end up disappointed. 

    Client: “hey, are you free later today at 3?” (This is at 1pm).
    Me: “sorry no I’m busy today”
    Client: “oh, I’m in town only today and was hoping you were free”
    Me: “ah ok that’s different then, I’ll cancel the things I was doing and book you in”  (this could be me being sarcastic 😉). 
    Client: “great thanks I’ll get back to you in a bit when I know my schedule….”
    That does really happen…like ‘reserving’ the time but not booking!
    I’m not a train timetable with services at set times. I’m a restaurant table booking; If all the tables are full you won’t get in. I’m open every day but all the punters who were organised enough to book ahead get the day / time they wanted. The ones who aren’t organised end up eating at McDonalds. 
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + nycman in Requested Fees for Escorts in 2022   
    That’s a lot of math….just to fuck.
    My formula is simple….
    He charges what he wants.
    I pay what I want. 
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to jtwalker in Requested Fees for Escorts in 2022   
    For whatever reason, any time I pay $350 I'm disappointed.  The best providers seem to be in the $250-$300 range.  You get what you pay for does not seem to apply here.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to Kxev in Requested Fees for Escorts in 2022   
    I think these guys deserve the cost of living adjustment increase.
    I’m paying 350/hour + 250/hour and normally would negotiate. This is for Southern California rates.
    but these people have to live and value their service.
    I am obviously affected by inflation also - so its a matter of using the service less and its when i feel i can afford them.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to pubic_assistance in Requested Fees for Escorts in 2022   
    The dollar is worth about 20% less than it was in 2019. So $ 275 in 2019 now $ 330.  Any smart provider will hedge a little and bump that up to $ 350. since inflation doesn't seem to be showing any signs of ending soon.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to Xavitv in Requested Fees for Escorts in 2022   
    300 has been the average hourly rate for quite some time, at least here in nyc
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from Capitano in 411 on JorgeSB   
    Another user encouraged me to post more about my encounter. All I can say is to please use protection on yourself if he tries to serve you cake, which he did with me. I declined because my sweet tooth faded away quickly after I felt the texture. 
     
    Without being too graphic, the cake had a few bumps/lumps on the opening where the filling goes. 
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + sam.fitzpatrick in Contacting Client for Repeat   
    As a client, the one exception to this would be for a traveling provider that I've seen before contacting me once to notify me he will be returning to town, especially if that is ahead of his posting his ad so I can get a priority booking as a returning customer.  
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to MmM in 411 on StudFR in NYC   
    He only does massages now.  There was a time he was escorting, but he is very specific nowadays that he doesn't cross the limits, even just receiving orally.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to tennisjock in Leo Millan and Gabriel Reis?   
    Both their rentmen ads say they are tops so i volunteer as it’s tough to be two tops in a exclusive relationship .. u need some 🍩 to plow 
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to TorontoDrew in Leo Millan and Gabriel Reis?   
    I'd be more interested in two cocks 😉 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from kyleham in 411 on OmarCures in SF?   
    Omar is indeed a nice and talented masseur. I too love the body hair. He’s friendly and accommodating. I’ve met him a few times but last time he had a bit of an… “accident” that left me a little embarrassed for him and I haven’t been back since. 
     
    I echo the other comments about Lorem. I probably won’t visit him again. 
     
    Other notable mentions I’ve seen in NYC with body hair who are skilled and great are:
    https://rentmasseur.com/LuisNYC
     
    https://rentmasseur.com/LeoMillan
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Escort with nicest butt   
    I stopped reading after the third sentence. Bottom line, this industry isn’t for you. It’s a luxury service. If you can’t afford it, shop elsewhere. You’ve already mentioned your budget is $42/hour. So go to Walmart. 
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + dctraveler in 411 on StudFR in NYC   
    Great information and intel like this is why I love this forum. Definitely not spending $300 for an erotic massage with no massage skills. Will pass on him. 
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