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For the majority percentage of my hiring years, I was obese, 300+ pounds. I’ve been height/weight proportionate since 2009.
Almost *never* did I have a problem with a provider either escort or masseur turn me down. Yes, I was always upfront with my weight, but again can’t remember being turned down too often. I’m a big believer in my self-confidence and easygoing manner making providers comfortable with me.
There was one masseur who clearly wasn’t comfortable with overweight guys. He felt his table wouldn’t hold me up, other excuses, etc. I tried a couple times and was turned down. Fast forward 90 days or so…he reached out to me and said let’s try. I don’t know if his rent was due or whatever….but we met, had a great sensual/erotic massage…and continued to see each other for two years 🤣
It’s best to just be upfront with providers, as mentioned elsewhere if they turn you down you’ve probably just dodged a bullet anyway. Don’t be ashamed…we are all works in progress.

Being ghosted by a provider due to your weight is actually a blessing in disguise. They're saving you time, money, and potentially a negative experience. While I don't have weight concerns myself, I always disclose my age in the first contact. This habit developed after a peculiar experience a few years ago, which surprisingly turned out to be great in the end. But that's a story for another time. If you're mindful about your weight, it's wise to disclose your height/weight upfront. Most providers will appreciate the heads-up and respond positively, while those who don't, it's a clear indicator that they might not be the right fit, saving you valuable time.

Do you have a preference for type? You say you don't care as long as they do kissing/BFE but honestly as a bigger guy myself, I've NEVER had issues with any of the escorts I've hired. I understand the insecurity because sometimes I feel that way as well, but really the majority of escorts out there don't discriminate as long as you're decent to them personality-wise. If you have a specific type we can help you narrow things down.

Most escorts know they'll see overweight or obese clients. 
I'm glad you actually told them upfront, it possibly saved you from a bad experience. 
Especially here in the USA but it's always appropriate to tell in advance especially if the client wants to travel, not all massage tables/beds are design to stand a determined amount of weight on top. 

I'm about 35lbs overweight.  I was so nervous when I made my first hire because he was hot as can be, then you have me.  It was never an issue with him and he always provides a fantastic time to this day.
I now have 3 regulars and dabble on occasion and have always been shown a good time.
Show up clean, be nice and treat your provider with respect.  I live by these rules and I don't even feel uncomfortable any more undressing in the light! 😀
I NEVER have a less than great time!
 

Now on rentmasseur, advertising as Emeryn
https://rentmasseur.com/Emeryn
Image search of the picture of him in jeans by the pool leads to a TikTok account with his real name, and from that a ton of content. He's real.
One 5-star review on rentmasseur: He ran 10 minutes late, cut the time short by 30 minutes, and the pictures are outdated. But still definitely recommended and 5 stars.

I saw Tom and Joey on Friday night. Couple of sexy boys from Montreal. They said they don't dance in the clubs up there. What a pity.

Probably has.  In some of the pix, the butt cheeks protrude in an unnatural way (a la Kardashian) for someone his size and physique.
Perhaps he should change his RM handle from "Student Pilot" to "Student Protuberance." 

His face has the look of wax fruit.  Very unappealing 

The tattoo on his tummy is dreadful.

Sorry I confused you. I didn’t have particularly high expectations. I meant that I was nervous because it was one of my newest hiring experiences after the extended isolation most of us experienced during the height of the pandemic. I expressed that to him at the beginning of our session, and I believed that as the professional, that wouldn’t have been unusual to deal with nervous clients returning to the business.  
 
And I always tell my hires that I want them to be aggressive and take the lead. We’d spoken about that in advance and like I said, it wasn’t that Joey didn’t give an effort, but we just didn’t have that spark.  To be clear, Joey was perfectly polite at all times, but his heart didn’t seem in it, at least not for me.  

My experience was very similar, as Joey was one of my first hires as we started to emerge from the pandemic. I was pretty anxious because of that, but he was the professional so I expected him to take the lead on making the client feel relaxed.  However, I ‘d say that “flat” is a very accurate description of our session.  To Joey’s credit, it seemed like he gave it the good old college try, but the passion/chemistry just wasn’t there.  Oh well, they can’t all be gems.

I saw him in 2022, just as the Covid restrictions were loosening. Only mentioning that because that may have affected the experience.  From the pics, he is just my type.  In person he was kind of aloof. He asked that I leave the money on a table before the experience started, which I kind of get, but no one has ever asked me to do that before.  I was expecting him to be a little more dominant/engaged, but the experience was just kind of flat.  Glad I did it, because I don’t have to wonder anymore, but will not repeat.  

I saw him in LA a few times and let me tell you… be prepared as that 🍆 is not photoshopped and it is beer can or tuna can thic and Joey knows how to use it to perfection 

HS Football team captain - 18 of course.

It's one of the classic american tropes - right up there with fucking the pizza/pool boy

Clearly, all hot ex-frat guys need to become providers.

Yes!
Somehow All-American jocks (frat boys) are highly unusual among escorts! 

we don't know how each of his clients is treated by Stephan.......mutual trust and respect can mean a lot -- a lot.......

a bit upthread, a longstanding forum member reports a fantastic time and recommends him......immediately upthread, a very new forum member reports a bad experience.............
three sides to every story, I assume......
if planning a meeting with Stephan, I'd politely nail down a meeting time and place, confirm any limits he has, confirm his rates, be professional and respectful, not bomb him with too many giddy texts/emails, and have a kick-back fun time

Hi all.
I recently flew to LA for a work conference and met up with Stephan one evening.
He's hot AF. He did everything I asked without hesitation & is fantastic at what he does.
He's genuine and kind, professional,  masculine, and a lot of fun. 
I do not know his sexual orientation (I didn't ask),  we did not do muscle worship (I'm not into that), and he is not a flight attendant (I asked).
If I ever fly back to LA or if he comes to my town on the east coast, I will repeat.
I absolutely recommend him.
Love & hugs to all
Josh 
 
PS  I have been a contributing member on this forum for many years now, so I hope that lends some credibility to my recommendation... 

I was at Campus this weekend for the first time, and it was amazing.  Lots of really hot guys of all different types and backgrounds...and the lap dances (in a private area) were awesome. Most of the dancers were fully nude after 1-2 songs in a private and there were multiple offers to come back to my place.  I highly recommend it.  I just wish the neighborhood (the Village) was better -- lots of homeless and drug use on the streets.  But, I still felt generally safe and Ubers were easy in and out. 

Back in 2017, I had already had 5 songs with a dancer at Stock or Campus and paid him $100 (Canadian) for those songs.  I asked him if he was available to come to my hotel room after his shift and what it would cost.  He said normally he charged $200 for hotel room visits, but because I had already have him $100 for 5 songs I would only need to pay him another $100 to come back to my room.  I took him up on his offer.

It was $20 per song and took him 3-4 songs to get there but I tipped him up to a total $100. Other dancers I would start by saying $100 to cum no matter how many songs and most would agree. A dancer at Stock once wanted $300 and I said NO, he eventually agreed to my offer but "only because I'm horny" LOL. I tipped him to make it $150 (he was really hot). 

Obviously not. I’m supposing you said that tongue in cheek. To get a dancer to cum in the back booths usually took at least 5 songs or more. And you had to be careful becuz they did sort of monitor the area some nights more than others. 
Once a dancer and I got caught in the act but the monitor was nice enough to let us finish so I got the dancer’s load before he had to leave. 
He got suspended for a week or two tho. I felt sorry for him so took him home and he came back several more times to my place during his suspension. He was a lot of fun and let me take pictures of him, which I still have.