DapperGent

It was usually after the second or third massage from them. After the massage was over and they were toweling me off I said something along the lines of “Hey do you ever do outcalls? I’d love to have you over to my apartment for a massage. I think it’d be more relaxing there.” Then we discussed rates and exchange numbers. Both were open to it but if not, no skin off your back. You lose nothing, right?

Nothing like the thrill of the first time of anything… enjoy! 😎👌🏼

Freddy Prince makes my cock rock hard, try him if you haven’t already.

Hi I kinda started a topic about this ,  usually I give one flat rate for a session usually the session would take place late at night and sometimes last a couple of days  I could go home and relax and get called back into the session again.. lolol usually I would have to be the motivator of all the session because new workers wouldn't be motivated. Majority of the workers was attracted to me and I would get blown etc etc it is fun  it was one escort there and omg he couldn't keep his mouth off of me  talk about me being good to the last drop lol but I do like to put on a show lol now as far as theft goes sometimes I would have to keep a eye on other workers so I kinda wore alot of hats being security, recruiter , escort etc by Monday morning I'm exhausted mentally and physically . But in a nutshell it can be fun but it takes alot of energy .

Was the provider a regular of yours that invited you to a private (personal) party or did you had to pay to be in the party? In one hand is hot when you are into 1 person within a party and no one but that person exist but at the other hand you're turning away from group fun which I assume was the selling ticket LOL!

I'd only seen this provider once, at the end of that first meeting he invited me to that party. I did not have to pay for the party, I don't know if anyone there did. Yeah, would've been fun to get back into the group action, but you take what you can get 🙂 

years (probably decades) ago a provider invited me to a sex party at his place.  About a half-dozen guys there but the provider arranging it was focused on me; at one point he took me off to a separate room where we played.  I was happily surprised, I'm  not the type of guy that someone will typically gravitate to in a roomful of other men. 

I'm a big believer in consent and being upfront. So I will ask a new provider what an erotic massage includes, including "can I blow you?" If it's not been discussed up front, you can simply ask "may I suck you?" But doing it that way may make the provider feel pressured so I think it's best to be upfront. Also, if you really want that as part of your experience, you want a provider who includes that. 

Gentlemen it's called variety.You can't compare a Baltic cruise to a tropical getaway. Do both, life is short. And while BN can be a little blunt, he's a nice guy and very knowledgable. He meant no harm. 

I mean, that's just throwing the baby out with the bathwater, no?
I gave you info so you could make your own decision in the event PV was ever on your radar.
Instead of getting defensive, you could take what I said at face-value. 
Nothing was said with malicious intent.

Just you 😉 gay/fun or just a family/friends trip it’s a great and beautiful destination.

https://www.expatsinmexico.com/another-time-another-place-puerto-vallarta-in-1976/

Probably you. Though I've never visited, it's been a popular destination for many decades for all demographics. Food, beaches, setting are just some of the attractions. 

I’ve never been able to get those pumps to work. I can’t get the bottom of the ring sealed against my skin. I want a partner to pump me up and then go down on me.

XAF, how's that possible?
Your face was looking down. For his cock to fit there he had to be both rather short AND angling-in his pelvis.....

And who might this hot guy be?

I recently got a massage from a hot guy in NYC where I could do the opposite.
From the "face hole" I could feast on his big latino cock which he positioned at perfect height

I don't consider the RM reviews useless per se but they have to be judged in the overall context. 
There are some reviewers I trust because they have given reviews of providers I have been with and were completely spot on. So I will trust them when commenting on someone new I may want to see.
There are others who have given a positive review to providers for instance on their looks and were completely off base. I found the pics were misleading and would never hire the providers again because they were not as advertised.
Also I tend to discount reviews by clients who are new to the game. They do not have the experience to provide meaningful comparisons.
I sometimes get in touch with clients on RM to confirm their reviews. That has sometimes helped but the odd time hasn't. Anyway, despite all one's efforts, sometimes things just don't go as planned. C'est la vie.

That sort of behavior and willingness on the part of RM to support it really renders the reviews useless.

I agree with @Tygerscent. It could improve the reliability of RM's reviews. 

I’m wondering if that is in response to people setting up non-premium accounts who, (may or may not be other Escorts or Clients who already have established accounts), write bogus reviews for people they favor… 
 You know, there are these people out there that have hundreds of reviews in a matter of months. Some of them are by legitimate registered Clients but, you have to wonder who are these other reviewers and how do you some of these people get so many Reviews in such a short period of time when some of the top providers globally over the years have a fraction of that number. Sometimes it just doesn’t add up~ 
 Granted some people may opt to pay for an extra account but, I’m guessing that may not be the typical trend for many people.
 In terms of that particular site, I think a good portion of whatever riffraff goes on there is potentially on the unregistered side of the fence and may actually be contributing to a lot of animosity or conflict from paying members whether they are Client or Provider~ It is almost as though when the current administration took over from the business from the original owners, they neglected to take seriously their responsibility for non paying member troublemakers, (not all non-paying members are troublemakers… but, the mischief that can be done by them can be substantial). It also created what can inevitably become a burden to their business by offering free service to some people but, making other people pay for it. That places is an unnecessary financial burden, (that the company creates), upon the providers as well as premium members.
 In order for these people to turn over the profits they hope to make, they have to keep inventing creative ways to increase their profit. Provider is already paid for anything and everything they do on that site and each thing they do is a separate charge. Premium Clients get to see some extra pictures. How long can you get away with that before people finally get fed up and start feeling ripped off and take to complaining. Rather than charge paying members for the little they get or taking away what they already have… It seems more practical to begin charging people that don’t pay for something they’re getting for free~ 
So perhaps this is their way to make the transition into the site becoming a paid members only site as well as reduce the mischief that can go on with unverifiable accounts.

@HoseMaster

NaturalLY SMOOTH for me all the way.  I like to rub my partner’s body, and definitely like it smooth, and not like a cactus or porcupine if they shave.  Someone naturally smooth is very hard to find I’ve found.
if it looks like this, I’d throw up, and wondered when the gorilla got in my bed and immediately think of beastiality.

Rimming a hairy hole is like flossing your teeth with pubic hair 😂😂😂😂

I have always loved a smooth body including the genitals, then there has been trends of hairy, non hairy and now hairy and “natural” is back in fashion again. Let me tell you something, there’s nothing natural about an unkept bush for an excuse to use for self-loathing or lack of personal hygiene… just like getting regular haircuts, teeth maintenance, nail trimming and other Civilized Men customs. 
 
I trim my bush tightly but I prefer touching and seeing another man fully shaved, waxed or naturally smooth particularly those who take care of their bodies, you can feel the skin… feel those muscles, enjoy that cock…