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It’s a very personal thing, extremely intimate. I always include it in my massages (and in escort sessions) unless my client specifically declines it. I love giving it so it’s no problem for me to include it (without charging extra). Mutual rimming is fine too although I think most people prefer to receive it than give. 
I think it fits very nicely into a sensual massage and can be a pleasant surprise if done with some teasing moves…as in “will he / won’t he go down there?”  I can also check my client’s responsiveness to it by briefly testing with a lick before going in deep so to speak.
Not everyone likes it or wants it (usually because of concerns about being clean etc or with guys who are anxious about anything anal) but I’ve found that most people do like it, especially before penetration. 
If it’s something that’s important to you and you definitely want it included in the session then ask your provider when booking, don’t leave it until the start of the session to ask. It can make the session awkward if at that point he has to say no. If he rules it out before you book the session then you can decide not to make a booking. 
If you make sure he knows it’s something you definitely want included then a good provider will ensure you get a rimming to die for 🙂 
 

I did an overnight one time with a client that involved me going to his work Christmas party. He didn’t want to go alone, the party was at a smart hotel and most of the guests had rooms for the night. So he booked me to accompany him. 

I had met him for regular sessions (short 90mins) previously so it wasn’t like we’d just met. I turned up late afternoon, we played a bit, showered etc then went downstairs for the works meal and party.
The organisers had decided (I hate this) to mix up the couples so I was sat between some bore who seemed to run the place and a quiet woman partner of another employee who I chatted to mostly about her love of Greek islands. My client was on a different table…to his annoyance.
He hadn’t anticipated the seating plan nor had we worked out a story about who I was (do I say to his boss “yeah I’m an escort he’s put on expenses for the evening”?) so I just said I was a friend. Turns out he told people I was a relative. I’m sure no one believed him. 
Then after the meal there was dancing and karaoke (it’s all the worst elements of a work Christmas party). My client didn’t want to dance (slow dance? Kissing?) so we sat and chatted about work with a couple who both seemed to work at my clients firm. I can be surprisingly informed about UK GAAP 🙂 and managed to avoid them asking what I did for work. 
Eventually we sneaked off back to the bedroom and I did more of what I normally do for work shall we say. However the funniest part of the overnight was coming down for breakfast in the morning having just had morning sex (which is absolutely the best time for it in my opinion) and having to field leading questions about whether we had a good sleep. I’m unembarrassable (is that a word?) so I didn’t care but my client felt awkward which was a pity.
When we went back to the room after breakfast to check out he apologised for combining the booking with his Christmas party but I told him not to worry…it was a blast and we should definitely have sung “I am what I am” at the karaoke…

Overnights aren’t for everyone, but some love them intensely. I have clients who literally only book me for overnights. That being said, in addition to the physical component, what you do during overnights is no different than what you do with a lover, boyfriend, partner, companion, i.e. conversation, dine, watch a movie, hold hands, cuddle, jacuzzi together, or whatever it is the client likes to do. 

Any one have any scoop on this masculine man?  https://rentmen.eu/Greggiesmmmmgood

It was during the winter break of my freshman year in college. I was in Waikiki, lying on the "gay beach," when a fit older guy approached me. He chatted me up and gave me his business card and offered me a free massage. It was very clear what his intentions were, and I was all for it. He was tall and well-muscled, a former bodybuilder, and a certified massage therapist. (I realize that this reads like a "Dear Penthouse" letter, but just go with it.)
 
He had his massage table set up in front of the TV with a mirror under the head cradle so you could watch gay porn in the reflection. I stripped naked and got on his table. He was very clearly a professional masseur and gave me an excellent massage. While he worked on my back, legs and butt, my hand was introduced to his extremely hard, veiny, and impressively large cock. I was a bit trepidatious at this point as I was fairly new to anal sex. But he was a sweet, tender gentleman and took his time with me.
 
The massage proceeded gloriously with him stretching my body in various positions, maximizing the amount of contact between us. He teased my hole and slowly began to open me up. When he flipped me over onto my back, I was hard and ready. He picked me up and took me into his bedroom. And...well, you know.
 
All this to say my first experience was amazing! It certainly defined an aspect of my sexuality which I continue to enjoy and explore to this day.

I had a very similar experience, also at an upscale hotel spa in New Delhi. After the massage, the masseur asked/told me to take a steam in the steamroom and that he would meet me in there to do more massage. A few minutes later, he came in wearing a towel and massaged my shoulders. We ended up jacking each other off and then both cumming. I wanted him to come up to my room but I wasn’t so gutsy at the time. Thanks for reminding me about this hot incident!!

Well, my actually first erotic massage wasn't expected.
I was in New Dehli at an upscale hotel and after a long day of travel decided on a massage.
I went downstairs, showered in the facility and then this gorgeous, tall Indian man comes in and takes me to a room with a large marble table.
I laid down on my stomach, nude and was covered in olive oil and rubbed and massaged for quite sometime.
I would always pop a boner whenever anyone gets down between my thighs or around my glutes and sure enough... then it's time to turn over and there's no hiding it.
After he massages my chest, etc. he just grabs my dick and starts to massage it, as he's doing that I'm feeling his hard cock thru his pants.
I come but am suddenly really embarrassed, I shower and end up tipping him double the cost of the massage.
 
That actually got me started on my erotic massage quest.

Relatively new at this so first session was fairly recent and was amazing. The Guy was a hairy bear type and not a twink and was both a massage and male bonding experience. Started with both of us getting nude and me getting a really nice back massage. After about 20 minutes we moved to the bed where he wrapped his hairy nude body around mine and we explored each other's body and did some kissing and a lot of nipple play which went on for about 20 minutes with both so hard the whole time. He then got me to get back onto the table and massage my front all over as I continued to explore his body as he massage me. Great ending and great first m4m massage!

Yes Backpage? How long has that been around? 

Texted him and asked standard questions. We shall see. 

I have enjoyed Ricky on a pretty regular basis (every three months or so!) before COVID and after getting my vaccinations and booster in 2021! He’s a very unique guy with a different outlook on gay for pay sex with guys - always fully committed while I’m interacting with him! We often talk about his female conquests and his success or failure in hooking up with the ladies, using apps such as Tinder while he’s traveling around escorting.
He seems pretty straight in his attitude too, when we talk about many topics. I have always found him to be a great conversationalist, very intelligent and knowledgeable about many things! He’s got a very personable way about him that always puts me totally at ease when we’re together! Personally, I enjoy the bro-to-bro camaraderie I always feel when I’m around him.
As for his skills in the bedroom, he’s never disappointed me. With his muscular body and chiseled, handsome face, (not to mention his impressive endowment!) he fits my “football captain next door” wet dream criteria! Ricky Decker is one of my favorite escorts!
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If I go to private massage, meaning non spa, from my experience one is not expected to tip. Anyone really trained, for instance like Swedish Institute, or others, their price is the price including tip, because they are trained that they are doing a service period and not looking for just making money. But of course some others may decided to make their own policy, but as far as professionally private, not suppose to be any tipping. Again this has been my experience for years.

I was Mandalay a couple weeks ago.  Booked a mid week late afternoon massage which was nice but strictly therapeutic.  You have to book a treatment to get access to spa area.  Before the massage I decided to workout in the gym and then hit the steam and sauna.  The steam setup is great as it has double doors with plenty of notice.  Within two minutes of entering, someone followed me in and two minutes later was stroking me lol.   I couldn’t finish play because I would have been late for treatment.  There were only 3 guys in the spa area so it was quiet, but the odds were pretty good that day!

Caesar's spa Qua is now looking a little old. It's not the biggest or best in LA anymore.
 
If you want intimate, but beautiful with great service: Mandarin Oriental.
Large, but great facilities and well-trained therapists: Encore at Wynn Spa.
A fun Korean-inspired adventure, just off the strip: Imperial Health Spa.

I hate to be crude, but I’ve often run into the masseur needing a shower. Rubbing and tugging can work up a sweat and it doesn’t take too long to ripen. So perhaps a hygiene rating? Daisy fresh to aged garlic?

Well, whoever he is (yes, he’s deleted his account again after being mentioned here)….
I wish him the best, but these have got to be the worst Business 101 moves I’ve ever seen. 
See "Chapter 12: Building a Brand"

My experience has been that often the SB's will create profiles and will come on and off based on things going on with their lives and sometimes if you "Favorite" them you can see how intermittently they may or may not be active. Also sometimes they ditch an older profile and start with new ones for different reasons. I know that because in a few cases i was in contact with them off the site through Text or Snap or WhatsApp and they explain why chose to make new profiles.
But know in general that the site's policy is that after messages after been posted greater than 6 months they automatically get deleted. So for sure if it's been longer than that even if the person you communicating with intends to engage or not old messages are no longer visible.
And I'll add that some of the guys who are legit and not scammers have made newer profiles abd forgot to delete their prior one, so in some cases they will have multiple profiles (even with overlapping photo's) and not realize it.

For the last few months, I found SA not to be worth the time or money. The standard monthly rate just to be able to read or send emails had gone up to $100 (up from $75, I believe) -- and they had the nerve to say it was going to go up AGAIN (Who do they think they are, the cable company? haha).
I understand that it's supposed to be for those who can afford a SB, but above a certain point, the rates just got greedy & I'd rather spend the money on an actual SB or other things. I figured they might send me a better discount offer if I flat-out deleted the account, but they did not. (So if you're hoping for a discount, don't do that, lol.)
But at least I'm not wasting time on it, or on messages from guys who just happen to respond after I let a month's subscription run out. I did create an account on the lesser-used (at least in DC area) sugardaddy.com. Costs the equivalent of $10 each (one-time, per guy) to unlock an email from an SB but I only have to spend that if I've looked at the profile & think it's worth it. If SA would get less greedy and drop their monthly rate to something like $50, I'd probably go back.

Thanks for that bit of education.  Calling someone a "schmuck" will now have more meaning for me.  Agree about points for humor.

Schmuck in English is an all-purpose insult; in Yiddish it literally means penis, so he gets points for humor, and “Hung Schmuck” seems awesomely accurate here. FWIW, I’m pretty sure he’s not Jewish, though, LOL …

He is great guy…very enthusiastic and engaged the entire time.  Focused on making you happy.  He looks like his pics. Maybe a little leaner than his pics make him seem. Def was a good experience
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I haven't been to PV for a few years, but during my many previous visits I think the biggest problem is not encountering escorts.    By that I mean it's difficult to interact with locals and then not find yourself after a few minutes with someone who is expecting that your friendliness is going to lead to a money making situation for themselves.  I'd say that the vast majority of "working men" there don't advertise.  They just work the beach, some bars, strip clubs (of course) and the "gayborhood" in general.  Many even speak English well enough that you can negotiate what you want even if you don't speak Spanish well enough to have a meaningful conversation.

😳 Well, that thing between his legs will definitely put you in heaven. Given you’ll survive the process 😂 
It’s as scary to look at as it’s marvelous!

http://www.jonramsey.com/

 

On the name alone, he gets my approval.
A general sense of humor is severely lacking in this business.  It's nice to see it with this guy.