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First, I never negotiate. It seems uncouth and desperate to ask for a discount. If I don't like the price, end of discussion. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Second, what's worth having is worth paying for, often at full price (this rule applies to a lot of things in life).

The providers charge what they want to charge, I pay what I want to pay. If/when the two align, we have a great time together.

I'm not even a provider and I'm so tired of these threads. It seems like once a week someone posts about the "outrageous prices" being charged. It seems to me that most providers have a second—or maybe primary — job, or they're in school or pursuing a nascent career that doesn't support them yet. So, as @Jamie21, some are pricing themselves so they see 1-2 clients per week. And that's what they want. If they can see 4-6 clients per month and make $2,000-$3,000. That's a studio apartment in NYC. Let's say their day job or studies brings in another $2,000 per month, that's a good living in NYC. If the same guy charges $300/hour, he has to see 3-4 people a week. Now, even in NYC, there are plenty of guys charging $300-$350 an hour. Most of the guys I see are in that range. We also often see guys for a minimum of 90 minutes and they usually discount the second hour. I do think that as the economy moves into recession (or worse) you'll see more guys getting in the market, and clients cutting back which may lead to a decrease in prices. But it doesn't seem to have happened yet.

hot new avatar, @BuffaloKyle your guy grew a mustache and scruff!

He’s a cutie for sure. Looks like super sweet guy as well

This is exactly what I do. "Sorry, it's a bit more than my usual of XXX, I appreciate your response and will definitely keep you in mind if anything changes. Have a great evening!" 3 out of 5 they come back and revise their price. You NEVER haggle, ever ever ever. Don't haggle. Don't come at them because of "outrageous" prices. "Do you think you're Henry Cavill?!?!?" no, don't do that. Thank them for replying, share what your usual expectations are, let them know if anything changes you'll reach out and wish them a good day/evening and don't text them again unless you can actually pay the price quoted.

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Does nobody else see (pun intended) the irony here? The other person can only "call you out" for leaving your eyes open if his eyes are open as well. 🙈

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The happier he is, the happier you are. If you want cheap, go to Applebees.

I guess that's the beauty of the free market - providers get to price how they like, and we have the ability to engage with it if we see the value or say no thank you and move on to the next guy, right?

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I would shave his mustache

The second time I hired someone, he asked if I wanted him to stay the night. As hard as it is to believe now, at that time I didn’t realize he was asking about hiring him for the night (I thought he just liked me!). I said I’d love it if he stayed the night. He did and it was awesome. In the morning, when he was ready to leave, I didn’t have any more money than what we had agreed to for the hour. I was so embarrassed and he could tell I was sincere that I didn’t realize I would need to pay more. He was so kind about it. He explained how it worked but said he’d let it slide because he had a good time. What a great guy.

We’ve been chatting for several weeks and we plan to meet this weekend

I feel you my friend! As a college kid who wasn’t out, living in dorms with gang-like showers for 4 years provided a lot of fantasies for my spank bank. There are a few guys I still think about all these years later…

Light bruising from a spanking I had last night.

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