I want to move to New York and commit to escorting

[+ OliverSaks]

@Nvr2Thick

@Nvr2thick4me

[kaboom35]

Oh, and I'm working on my ad. I'd like to take my time writing and polishing it.

 

I sent you a private message but I live in Los Angeles and I would be interested in meeting. Can't wait to see your ad.

[+ BlueSky]

Housing really is the big stumbling block to getting established in NYC. It's brutal trying to find anything affordable below CP. I honestly think you'd probably never find a place unless you have connections somehow.

[FTM Zachary Prince]

Any freelancer planning to move to NYC and secure a Manhattan apartment needs a reality check even if they’re not an escort. It’s nearly impossible to rent a place here. You will need to show income proof equal to 30x the rent and be able to put down around $10K up front just to get one.

[LookingAround]

It’s actually 40x rent not 30.

[BlakeBenz]

Being a native west-coaster myself, I don’t see why you would ever want to leave LA! Haha.

 

However, I had to get up and leave my home town too. I needed change. It was probably the hardest thing I ever did but it built so much character and I’m so proud of myself for where I am now!! So many people told me I was crazy or wouldn’t be able to do it but I did and I was blessed in return for following my heart.

 

Realistically NYC is super expensive (+cold ew) and it DOES take time to build your regular clientele. If you’re wanting to make the transition smooth and comfortable, then there’s plenty of great advice here for you. My advice would be if you truly feel deep down you are capable, then sit down and ask yourself how bad you want it? Are you willing to do whatever it takes to survive out there? If the answer is yes, then I say go for it. If you don’t limit yourself with doubt and disbelief the universe will always be on your side working in your favor. I truly believe that.

 

If I would have listened to everyone who told me I couldn’t do it then I’d still be back in my hometown with the rest of the miserables, and have missed out on all the crazy once in a lifetime opportunities this industry has given me.

[MikeyGMin]

It’s actually 40x rent not 30.

Maybe I'm not doing the math correctly but is this really that unusual? A friend of mine recently tried to rent a unit in a particularly desirable building in downtown Austin. He had to demonstrate that the rent was not more than 1/3 of his monthly income. Isn't that right in that 30 to 40 times rent area? (Of course I'm assuming you are talking about an annual income of 30 - 40 times the rent!)

[LookingAround]

If your rent is $2000 a month your documented annual income must be $80,000 or more.

[Rudynate]

Excuse the tardiness of my reply. I was just trying to digest it all.

 

This was a little disappointing to hear, but I was expecting a reality check. As some of you mentioned, I think my best course of action would be to escort in the LA area and travel to NY and other cities, save some money, then move and try to find an incall location.

 

I'm not at all discouraged, but you've made me recognize that it will take longer than I anticipated. Plus, I can be more prepared.

 

And there's something I just have to ask, would a girth of roughly 6.5" repel much of the potential clientele? I don't say this to boast, but there haven't been many people who can take it in my personal life. This concerns me. Searching through this forum, I've noticed they enjoy above average girth, but most have their limits and won't hire someone they can't handle.

 

 

I think there's a rather large niche for well-hung guys with twink builds. 6.5" thick? Sure that's too much for some guys, but it's the stuff of dreams for many more. Learn to be one of those tops about who clients say, "I can't believe I took him balls deep and it was wonderful."

[Kippy]

Jamie,

 

Stay with us out west--we need you! You have been on my "to do" list and we need to connect. Take some extended working trips to NYC if needed.

 

Kipp

[rogerG]

Your biggest commitment will be to tenacity. The unrelenting hurdle to overcome will be securing your own lease in a "convenient" area. It is very difficult, almost impossible, for a single person to secure a lease in Manhattan without a credit check, employment info, and minimum salary requirements. With every new year, as prices increase and inventory tightens, the restrictions increase.

 

I know three families who said it was easier and less frustrating to purchase an apartment for their college kid than it was too rent. Good luck.

[+ Pensant]

Being a native west-coaster myself, I don’t see why you would ever want to leave LA! Haha.

 

However, I had to get up and leave my home town too. I needed change. It was probably the hardest thing I ever did but it built so much character and I’m so proud of myself for where I am now!! So many people told me I was crazy or wouldn’t be able to do it but I did and I was blessed in return for following my heart.

 

Realistically NYC is super expensive (+cold ew) and it DOES take time to build your regular clientele. If you’re wanting to make the transition smooth and comfortable, then there’s plenty of great advice here for you. My advice would be if you truly feel deep down you are capable, then sit down and ask yourself how bad you want it? Are you willing to do whatever it takes to survive out there? If the answer is yes, then I say go for it. If you don’t limit yourself with doubt and disbelief the universe will always be on your side working in your favor. I truly believe that.

 

If I would have listened to everyone who told me I couldn’t do it then I’d still be back in my hometown with the rest of the miserables, and have missed out on all the crazy once in a lifetime opportunities this industry has given me.

“The miserables”, lol! Les Miserables!

[+ Steve yabsley]

It’s actually 40x rent not 30.

 

The other option (may be simpler, or not, depending on your circumstances) is to pre-pay one year of rent when signing your lease. In that case, no proof of income is required.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I do always how those escorts with those lavish apartments in midtown and how they get them, bc obviously you can't use escorting as income and provide paystubs for them so they must have rich guys signing off for them, or they probably give some good cock/ass to the renter every now and then hehe

 

Do you know many escorts with lavish apartments in Manhattan?

[Kevin Slater]

The other option (may be simpler, or not, depending on your circumstances) is to pre-pay one year of rent when signing your lease. In that case, no proof of income is required.

 

As a landlord I would look askance at that offer. Implies drug dealer (or yes, hooker) or in any case complications, mainly with neighbors or the board. Also, in almost any co-op or condo building, the association also has to approve any tenant, and prepaying rent would raise the same flags for them while not providing them with any relief. And the next prospective tenant in line will have none of these issues.

 

Kevin Slater

[Kevin Slater]

Do you know many escorts with lavish apartments in Manhattan?

 

Ahem.

 

Kevin Slater

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Do you know many escorts with lavish apartments in Manhattan?

Hey, [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] didn’t say “many”.

I think by “lavish”, he means that they are not sharing and are in the incredibly well located part of midtown. And yes, there are some who have that. I myself know a few, not many, but I don’t hire everyone that turns up on RM, I am very picky.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Hey, [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] didn’t say “many”.

I think by “lavish”, he means that they are not sharing and are in the incredibly well located part of midtown. And yes, there are some who have that. I myself know a few, not many, but I don’t hire everyone that turns up on RM, I am very picky.

 

How do you prefer the question?

 

Do you know any escorts with lavish apartments in Manhattan?

[+ tassojunior]

The other option (may be simpler, or not, depending on your circumstances) is to pre-pay one year of rent when signing your lease. In that case, no proof of income is required.

 

I rent (apartments) and I can assure you I automatically turn away any such offer. Drug dealer or something almost assured.

 

I do rent to people with parents' guarantee. Basically renting to the parent. This may be a better route to not raise red flags.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

How do you prefer the question?

 

Do you know any escorts with lavish apartments in Manhattan?

Sorry I ready it as a loaded question with implication that the post was not very relevant because there aren’t many.

But to reply to your question, for me the non-loaded version is:

“Do you know escorts that have a lavish apartment in Manhattan?”

Or even better

“Are there escorts with a lavish apartment in Manhattan?”

[Bearofdistinction]

Oh honey.

 

GIRTH GOOD!!!! Girth x Length - Over 50 = KA-CHING!!!!!

 

And I my High School Algebra Teacher told me Math would make my life better --- I finally found math useful!!!!

[MikeBiDude]

From someone looking to move to LA, it's nice to hear this for once when I'm used to hearing "god no don't come here, I've lived here for six centuries and hate every second of it" all the time!

Native born SoCal guy here and love it, would not leave

[Mike Padilla]

That’s why it’s good having a sugar daddy. A rich one. Not a middle class one either.

[+ BigRic]

(Hopefully helpful) PM sent, JdR.

[marylander1940]

I rent (apartments) and I can assure you I automatically turn away any such offer. Drug dealer or something almost assured.

 

I do rent to people with parents' guarantee. Basically renting to the parent. This may be a better route to not raise red flags.

 

I guess one thing as a parent and other thing is a sugar daddy? The first are more reliable the second type might change his mind soon and find a new hobby (boy)