Why do you hire an escort?

[rvwnsd]

If you want to get shit organized and done correctly and timely, you hire me.

 

If I want to spend quality, sexy time with a ripped, handsome stud I hire an escort.

 

You get what you pay for.

[FurryDude]

If you want to have sex with guys who are that much hotter than you, you can bet you're gonna pay one way or another. For myself, I like 'em hotter, younger and more committed to the gym than I consistently am. I can still do okay fending for myself without paying an escort, but it takes more time and effort, and hiring someone saves the bother. And it's fun, and the sex is consistently pretty good.

[+ azdr0710]

because they'll leave for good after a couple or three hours and then I can have the bed to myself and sleep like a baby

[MartyB]

Yes fuck with them would have been more inclusive. Thanks for the tweek.

I may not be every hot guys cup of tea but when a hot sexy gorgeous man gets a hard on and sticks dick my butt what could be more satisfying than that? Unless I flip and do it to him? No games no what if bullshit.

[caramelsub]

To be able to pick a hot guy and do what I want with his body at a fixed price. I don't have to worry about sending pics back and forth. It's not that I'm old or lacking in the looks department. I can probably probably pass as an escort myself. It just saves time, when you're horny, and need to feel/taste another man's body, without having to go through a mutual screening process with a gay bar, or craigslist, or dating apps. It's a service to fulfill a fantasy.

[builder boy]

Because I am extremely particular and prefer the very best. I don't have time to meet and greet and prefer a specific type, and with discriminating taste this is the best and easiest way to achieve that.

[youngboldone]

I hire because I'm in a sexless marriage, and this hobby allows me to stay sane and feel sexually fulfilled. It allows me to fulfill the fantasy of sleeping with the hot jock/muscled bodybuilder/hairy muscle daddy types that aren't normally interested in me. And since I've had so little experience in my life, hiring is allowing me to explore what I like sexually in a non-threatening environment (when I can quell my nerves about an encounter, that is). I'm learning as I go.

[GLEE]

Because fortunately, the guys I hired have never got me any drama. We’re able to have decent conversations in person, hot sex in bed, and they genuinely care. Unlike dating in the real world, which based on my personal experiences, is unfortunately, more than just disappointing.

[mentalkink]

The " types" I go for vary for me, sometimes smooth younger bodybuilders shorter than me and sometimes big muscle bears taller than me. It allows me to indulge my appetite and hopefully find a repeat provider , someone who understands what I like , is respectful and knows that I will be respectful of them.

 

Looking at from a cost and time perspective , online and apps are not efficient means to meet men especially if you are a "5" wanting a "10" . I would rather have a friendly long term business arrangement with a provider and have had so in the past. I count those men as one of my friends and maintain communication with them after they retired.

[nsguy45]

Because my Mommy said I could.

[+ g56whiz]

Because I grew older more quickly than my libido.

[myophile]

My apologies if this is the wrong forum.

 

I'm curious why men hire men. Is it to fulfill a fantasy? Easier than bar games?

 

Thanks.

 

Yes.

[parker]

For me it's quite simple, I pay them to leave. After sex I like a good night sleep - no cuddling, talking or planning our life together.

[+ Pensant]

Because I can indulge my fantasies with a myriad of super-hot young men. I like keeping a very small group so that we can also enjoy long weekends, movies, workouts, etc. I also appreciate the shorter sessions that end with me having a great night’s slumber.

[Sandlapp]

Why do you hire an escort?

 

Because they won't do it for free.

 

Kevin Slater

[Sandlapp]

My apologies if this is the wrong forum.

 

I'm curious why men hire men. Is it to fulfill a fantasy? Easier than bar games?

 

Thanks.

Fantasy fulmillment. I can (and do) fantasize about ridiculously hot men like Matt Stevens or Adam Russo, or I can make it happen. Both more than lived up to the fantasy, BTW.

[Arbimuscle]

I enjoy hiring handsome men with great bodies and clever wits and great intelligence primarily to fuck them. I love the companionship, but I have dogs. I love the conversation, but I have Alexa. I love the intelligence, but I have google. I love the company, but I have many great books. But I can't fuck books, google, Alexa or (for me anyway) my dogs and so I hire escorts " and that has made all the difference."

Purple, if you are not a poet, u should be. What an enjoyable read!

[JerseyBabyDaddy]

Because they wouldn't be with me otherwise, even if I was their age. I've tried hard to be with guys (apps, bars/nightclubs) and failed. I've also tried losing weight and getting a new look (new haircut and stuff). Losing weight & getting a new look helped a bit, but I still have very little luck. I'm convinced that I will be forever alone, and I've already planned my life accordingly.

 

Before I started doing this, I thought that I would never enjoy it because it's all a show. But surprisingly, it works and makes me so happy. So, I continue doing it, even though it all ends when the time ends.

[+ peterhung85]

Really speaking for me meeting boys is due to

1) Admiring and feeling the male beauty! I admire a beautiful face much more than body!

2) Meeting great guys without hassles of mind games, dealing with the tantrums/whims of many guys.

3) Most of the times guys from grindr/ adam4adam/ bar or whatever most men are into one night stunt. They vanish in thin air. Even I have done so! I can meet the guys here on repeatedly.

4) Here you can find good connection and guys are exceptionally matured, know the value of good connection and maintain them as an great example of some of great guys like @peterhung85.

5) Expenditure of time to find the guy whom you like is minimal. It is as easy as scanning the guys on the site, meeting the seeming interesting boys in just 1,2,3 and go! Personally I like regulars!

6) In every relation transaction is involved! Here too it is involved but I see here it to be very symbiotic relation! In this relation here not much tantrums, demands are involved and there is great scope to understand each other and know each others attitude. Yes it is true that if we meet same boys often, an "undefined" relation is developed. Great boys do select their client and are with them for long term! Things are changing at fast pace in this complex world and this new form of relation adds to new dimension. These handsome boys have saved many clients from undergoing serious mental depression and breakdown. When clients were lonely and needed someone to share some intimate time, these boys were and are there!

 

So sweet of you, thanks sexymonk! Looking forward to the next time I get to see you and "making yet another good connection"

[adventurous old guy]

So downer alert, this thread topic has been on my mind. At a conscious level I hire for the thrill of the experience -- doing something I love with interesting, handsome partners that makes me feel alive and human in a way that no other activity comes close to by comparison. The business relationship serves two purposes -- (1) keeps expectations clear and defined because I'm not looking for a relationship; and (2) enables me to connect with men motivated to perform who I'm too old to otherwise motivate.

 

But there's a subconscious driver of this behavior too, and I think that's aging/death. Although still healthy, fit, high energy and horny, at 63 I'm 3 years past the age when my dad died and I've lost both parents and 3 of 4 grandparents to cancer. Bottom line, I have a deep sense that my remaining time as a healthy, energetic, horny adventurer in life is limited.

 

I hope this post doesn't come across as totally depressing -- bottom line, fear of cancer haunts me and drives me to have fun! While the sun still shines. And it feels like late afternoon.

Edited February 9, 2018 by adventurous old guy

[+ Keith30309]

So downer alert, this thread topic has been on my mind. At a conscious level I hire for the thrill of the experience -- doing something I love with interesting, handsome partners that makes me feel alive and human in a way that no other activity comes close to by comparison. The business relationship serves two purposes -- (1) keeps expectations clear and defined because I'm not looking for a relationship; and (2) enables me to connect with men motivated to perform who I'm too old to otherwise motivate.

 

But there's a subconscious driver of this behavior too, and I think that's aging/death. Although still healthy, fit, high energy and horny, at 63 I'm 3 years past the age when my dad died and I've lost both parents and 3 of 4 grandparents to cancer. Bottom line, I have a deep sense that my remaining time as a healthy, energetic, horny adventurer in life is limited.

 

I hope this post doesn't come across as totally depressing -- bottom line, fear of cancer haunts me and drives me to have fun! While the sun still shines. And it feels like late afternoon.

Hello no, it’s not!

We’re all going to die. The REAL tragedy would be if you didn’t live every day with gusto and enjoy the hell out of life ! Celebrate with the men you meet! Kiss... fuck... connect... sweat... laugh out loud !

[Rudynate]

my remaining time as a healthy, energetic, horny adventurer in life is limited.

 

 

You're right, it is. All the more reason to make the most of it.

[nsguy45]

So downer alert, this thread topic has been on my mind. At a conscious level I hire for the thrill of the experience -- doing something I love with interesting, handsome partners that makes me feel alive and human in a way that no other activity comes close to by comparison. The business relationship serves two purposes -- (1) keeps expectations clear and defined because I'm not looking for a relationship; and (2) enables me to connect with men motivated to perform who I'm too old to otherwise motivate.

 

But there's a subconscious driver of this behavior too, and I think that's aging/death. Although still healthy, fit, high energy and horny, at 63 I'm 3 years past the age when my dad died and I've lost both parents and 3 of 4 grandparents to cancer. Bottom line, I have a deep sense that my remaining time as a healthy, energetic, horny adventurer in life is limited.

 

I hope this post doesn't come across as totally depressing -- bottom line, fear of cancer haunts me and drives me to have fun! While the sun still shines. And it feels like late afternoon.

63 is not considered old in 2018.

[adventurous old guy]

63 is not considered old in 2018.

 

I should qualify -- I'm 63 chronologically, but feel much younger psychologically and attitudinally!

[MartyB]

So downer alert, this thread topic has been on my mind. At a conscious level I hire for the thrill of the experience -- doing something I love with interesting, handsome partners that makes me feel alive and human in a way that no other activity comes close to by comparison. The business relationship serves two purposes -- (1) keeps expectations clear and defined because I'm not looking for a relationship; and (2) enables me to connect with men motivated to perform who I'm too old to otherwise motivate.

 

But there's a subconscious driver of this behavior too, and I think that's aging/death. Although still healthy, fit, high energy and horny, at 63 I'm 3 years past the age when my dad died and I've lost both parents and 3 of 4 grandparents to cancer. Bottom line, I have a deep sense that my remaining time as a healthy, energetic, horny adventurer in life is limited.

 

I hope this post doesn't come across as totally depressing -- bottom line, fear of cancer haunts me and drives me to have fun! While the sun still shines. And it feels like late afternoon.

63 is not considered old in 2018.

One of the reasons I like this board is because of posts like yours. so honest and revealing. We are anonymous here but it's like a kinship. As to your age and your outlook keep doing what your doing and enjoy yourself..