Working XMAS Eve / Day or New Year's Eve / Day???

[Electra225]

This is a very general question: Are providers (either escorts or masseurs or both) accepting client appointments on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Year's Eve, or Christmas Day? I ask this, primarily, to see if it is proper to contact someone on one, or more, of these days for an appointment. I fully realize that many may wish to spend these special days and times with family and/or friends and may not wish to meet with clients on these days. I definitely want to respect boundaries.

[Pulgasari1991]

This is a very general question: Are providers (either escorts or masseurs or both) accepting client appointments on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Year's Eve, or Christmas Day? I ask this, primarily, to see if it is proper to contact someone on one, or more, of these days for an appointment. I fully realize that many may wish to spend these special days and times with family and/or friends and may not wish to meet with clients on these days. I definitely want to respect boundaries.

I think you should ask directly to the specific person(s) you are into.

[+ GregM]

I am now at a day job where we are closed holidays so I will be available Xmas and New Years day.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Keenan]

I'm making myself available for all four days, Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, NYE and New Years Day. So far no bookings but if one were to come in I wouldn't turn it down.

 

Keenan

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

This is a very general question: Are providers (either escorts or masseurs or both) accepting client appointments on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Year's Eve, or Christmas Day? I ask this, primarily, to see if it is proper to contact someone on one, or more, of these days for an appointment. I fully realize that many may wish to spend these special days and times with family and/or friends and may not wish to meet with clients on these days. I definitely want to respect boundaries.

 

Many of us are book with the same clients, repeated years, during these holidays.

 

I haven't had a Christmas, NYE, Valentines, St Paddies or Halloween at home in 10+ years

[jawjateck]

Don't assume you are intruding on a provider's family life. Go for it and ask the person you desire. Your inquiry could be a gift/diversion/joy that makes his holiday special.

[bigvalboy]

I'm always surprised how many people are alone or have no where to go on Christmas.

[+ Keith30309]

It just occurred to me that I've never had an orgasm at the stroke of midnight on New Years Eve.

Bucket list amended.

[LADoug1]

I'm always surprised how many people are alone or have no where to go on Christmas.

 

You shouldn’t be surprised. There are lots of lonely people in the world.

[MikeBiDude]

I'm always surprised how many people are alone or have no where to go on Christmas.

This is why I don’t take my 86 yo parents and 5 siblings and more family for granted. PITA’s all, but....

[BlakeBenz]

Available

[jjkrkwood]

This is why I don’t take my 86 yo parents and 5 siblings and more family for granted. PITA’s all, but....

 

Being alone aint really that bad, once you get used to it, and once you realize, it's just another day....

Edited December 21, 2017 by jjkrkwood

[samhexum]

it's just another day....

 

 

[Rudynate]

This is a very general question: Are providers (either escorts or masseurs or both) accepting client appointments on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Year's Eve, or Christmas Day? I ask this, primarily, to see if it is proper to contact someone on one, or more, of these days for an appointment. I fully realize that many may wish to spend these special days and times with family and/or friends and may not wish to meet with clients on these days. I definitely want to respect boundaries.

 

 

It seems like the escort in question is perfectly free to ignore your attempt to communicate if he wants to not work on the holiday. Or to have some sort of auto-reply set up. If he responds, it's a pretty good indication that he's open to a booking.

[Rudynate]

I think it's interesting that so many responders assume that anyone wanting to hire on Christmas is pathetic. Spending the day with your favorite companion sounds like a pretty terrific way to spend the day.

[marylander1940]

I think it's interesting that so many responders assume that anyone wanting to hire on Christmas is pathetic. Spending the day with your favorite companion sounds like a pretty terrific way to spend the day.

 

Not if you're paying for it... I'm with the pack on this one.

[+ oldNbusted]

For years now, I've been getting together with a few friends for a movie and dinner on Christmas Day. When we started, the theaters would be nearly empty and it was hard to find an open restaurant.

 

 

But I must admit things have changed, last year, it was like any other Sat., packed everywhere and we had to wait an hour for a table.

[KennF]

The last couple years I've been approached by an escort I've really wanted to get together with, but for the life of me I can't understand why they'd want to travel to my city and work on NYE.

 

I've tried to get together at other times, but his schedule doesn't usually work with mine.

 

I've got nothing planned for this NYE. I just wonder if it is right of me to ask him to travel here and invest a holiday for just me. I feel selfish or under greater expectations.

 

Thoughts?

[Rudynate]

He can always say no.

[KennF]

Maybe you misunderstand, he's approached me to try and get together for NYE.

 

But I know, from our conversations that he doesn't like to come to this area. In the past years, he's canceled visits, at least twice, due to lack of clients. So, if I accepted, I know that he'd be travelling and spending more to be here than he would recover from my one evening. Especially at travel and hotel costs higher during the holiday.

 

Or, that he'd be tempted to cancel, again.

 

My skepticism kicks in and I don't understand his motivation.

 

If he does want to be here, then I feel like the expectations for me to overcompensate to make sure it is worth his trip are much greater. If I do overcompensate, then I will have greater expectations on our time together.

 

Greater expectations = greater regret quotient.

 

So, with all this going on, I wonder if it a good idea to accept his offer?

[Rudynate]

Maybe you misunderstand, he's approached me to try and get together for NYE.

 

But I know, from our conversations that he doesn't like to come to this area. In the past years, he's canceled visits, at least twice, due to lack of clients. So, if I accepted, I know that he'd be travelling and spending more to be here than he would recover from my one evening. Especially at travel and hotel costs higher during the holiday.

 

Or, that he'd be tempted to cancel, again.

 

My skepticism kicks in and I don't understand his motivation.

 

If he does want to be here, then I feel like the expectations for me to overcompensate to make sure it is worth his trip are much greater. If I do overcompensate, then I will have greater expectations on our time together.

 

Greater expectations = greater regret quotient.

 

So, with all this going on, I wonder if it a good idea to accept his offer?

 

That is frustrating. It happened to me with the same escort not once but twice. We were scheduled weeks in advance and a day or two before our appointment he cancelled because he hadn't gotten enough bookings to make the trip worth it. It's nobody's fault, really. I certainly wouldn't expect a guy to deliberately lose money in order to keep an appointment with me. The solution, I guess, is to foot his travel expenses. I traveled to go see an escort just once. I was sitting at SFO waiting for my flight to depart and I realized what a losing proposition it was - all that lost time in addition to the escort's fee and my travel expenses. Promised myself I wouldn't do that again. If you factor in your lost time and the inconvenience of long-distance travel, it's a much smarter proposition to bring the escort to you.

[Cannon]

This is a very general question: Are providers (either escorts or masseurs or both) accepting client appointments on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Year's Eve, or Christmas Day? I ask this, primarily, to see if it is proper to contact someone on one, or more, of these days for an appointment. I fully realize that many may wish to spend these special days and times with family and/or friends and may not wish to meet with clients on these days. I definitely want to respect boundaries.

 

 

I don't think there is a general answer for this, as every companion is different. I think that you should ask the particular companion that you are interested in. You'll never know unless you ask. The two of you could create a memorable holiday with each other.

[cany10011]

An escort crush of mine in San Fran mentioned that he had 10 clients over NYE weekend! I am so in awe.

[+ JEC]

I say let’s not put too much judgement / value into this. Providers and clients will be available or not for many reasons.

 

If you are looking, ask - but don’t be offended if someone has other plans.

 

If you are available, know that some won’t have other plans and would appreciate your company....don’t gauge

[Rudynate]

For years now, I've been getting together with a few friends for a movie and dinner on Christmas Day. When we started, the theaters would be nearly empty and it was hard to find an open restaurant.

 

 

But I must admit things have changed, last year, it was like any other Sat., packed everywhere and we had to wait an hour for a table.

 

 

Years ago, I had no interest in Christmas and I usually spent the day by myself. I would sleep in, get dressed, go to Cafe de La Presse in the French part of SF for coffee, splurge on breakfast at the Hampton Court, work out at the Jewish Community Center and go to a movie.

 

With age, I've gotten into spending the day with others in a more conventional style, but I just cannot give up my Christmas Day workout at the Jewish Community Center.