Have you NEVER had a wet dream?

[cmhqueer]

I'm a 51 year old man... and have NEVER had a wet dream. Did most of you have wet dreams as kids growing up? or even as adults?

[Mydavid]

I think most guys had wet dreams. So maybe you should ask from what age you don't have a wet dream any more.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I once had a waterbed spring a leak while I was sleeping... Does that count?

[+ azdr0710]

You aren't missing anything. Better to be awake when you get off!

[Trick]

I think mine tapered off when I got into my mid-30s. I never get them anymore.

[+ bashful]

Last I remember was in my 20s. They always were with an erotic dream. Although I occasionally still have an erotic dream, I wish the climax would also occur.

[MikeBiDude]

Never. I’m guessing because I started mastubating at 11-12 years old?

[liubit]

I had wet dreams in my very early teens. They stopped when I discovered masturbation....

[MikeyGMin]

Never. I’m guessing because I started mastubating at 11-12 years old?

Same here. Never had a wet dream, but I was masturbatinng long before I could ejaculate. In fact, the first time I ejaculated it freaked me out. I thought I had broken something!

[+ poolboy48220]

I don't remember ever having one.

[+ sniper]

yeah i jerked off multiple times daily through my teens and 20s and don't think I ever had one. I may have had one "dry" wet dream once. I had one friend who said he had them every night way into his 20s. But it wouldn't surprise me to learn this guy never ever masturbated, even though he started having sex when he was 15.

I think it's a matter of being backed up.

[tanman4u]

Nope

[BasketBaller]

I started masturbating pretty young so didn't have wet dreams as a kid. I have had a couple since my wife passed away, in spells when for one reason or another I hadn't cum in a while. I confess I never remember what the dreams were that caused me to have an orgasm!

[Eye4Muscle]

I had wet dreams at the end of my undergrad college days around 1988-90. Only three or four. They all had something in common. They were absolutely erotic and involved men with swimmer’s physiques and speedos. I never saw a face in the dreams, it was just the body, crotch, or glutes of the swimmer. The color in the dreams was always vivid and the color of the speedos excited me in the dreams, usually green I think. The dreams occurred just before waking and when I was awake I always felt especially foggy and in a daze. I was also wet, very wet.

[+ Gar1eth]

I had them around the age of 12 to 14. I don't remember having them after that. I was a late bloomer with sex-I was 41. But I was also a fairly late bloomer masturbating. I still remember the first time. I was 16 and in the shower. I had heard about masturbation, but I wasn't quite sure how to do it. So I was in the shower, I started masturbating. When I came, it was so powerful that I almost fell inside the shower.

 

Gman

[Pepper Young]

Maybe once. I started masturbating pretty early too so that may have had something to do with it.

[+ HornyRetiree]

I'm a 51 year old man... and have NEVER had a wet dream. Did most of you have wet dreams as kids growing up? or even as adults?

 

I always came too often to have wet dreams! UNTIL basic training in the USAF when after 10days w/o ejaculating I woke up to a mess and a giant wet circle on my top sheet! Swore that would never happen again! and even in basic found ways to ejaculate daily to prevent repeat of wet dream. THUS I have had only one in life!

[+ Charlie]

I masturbated regularly from the age of 10, and after the first time I managed to cum at 12, I masturbated even more often, so there probably wasn't much in the tank to cause a wet dream. Nevertheless, I did have them occasionally when I was in situations where I couldn't masturbate as often.

[+ Gar1eth]

I masturbated regularly from the age of 10, and after the first time I managed to cum at 12, I masturbated even more often, so there probably wasn't much in the tank to cause a wet dream.

 

You little devil you. I don't even know if I would have known what masturbation was at the age of 10 or interest in doing it if I had.

 

Gman

[+ Eric Hassan]

I've had 2 wet dreams in my life. The first was when I was about 19 and a freshman in college. I was having phone sex with a dude from HS (he was straight identified and had been telling me for years that he wanted me to be his "gay experience" - which did eventually happen and was the beginning of the end of our friendship) and I hung up when my roommate came home. I went to sleep and woke up at some point in time with cum all over me.

 

The second time was this past summer. I was away with family and did some late-night edging in bed. I was tired so I didn't cum and just went to sleep. Woke up with cum all over again.

 

I definitely prefer to be awake when I ejaculate, but it's kinda cool to know that my body will do it even when I'm asleep.

[ChristianCronin]

I never have! I guess I've always taken care of it myself?

[mike carey]

I only ever had wet dreams when I was sexually unaware (nothing to do with identification as gay) as a teenager. A wet dream was what alerted me to the idea of ejaculation, thereafter I masturbated often enough that I didn't have wet dreams after that. Now I have to look to be sure that I have ejaculated. Sad.

[+ Gar1eth]

I may have almost had a wet dream last night. I do

have a f-ckbuddy. But often our schedules don’t match. I also have an occasional suckbuddy. But he’s kind of squirrelly. Sometimes he doesn’t even respond to texts. Of course sometimes I don’t respond to his. But that’s usually because he texts me at 2 AM or later without warning. :mad:Occasionally I’m up. But many times I’m asleep.

 

In any case I don’t think I’ve cum due to mismatched schedules and my operation for about 10 days or more. I also don’t masturbate a lot anymore for several reasons, #1 I don’t have the urge that much #2. I’m afraid if I do, that one of my buddies may be able to meet out of the blue, and I’d hate to not be able to perform for them as I don’t recover as quickly as I used to.

 

So last night I had a dream about a former buddy. We probably aren’t going to meet anymore as I mainly used to meet him when I visited my family in Dallas. He’s really into the Dad-Son-Pup-Diaper mindset. I’m not. He was willing for me to be a substitute Daddy when I used to visit. But he’s recently moved to New Jersey to be with a Daddy and Family there.

 

So I had a dream about him. I (mentally) aroused enough from the dream state to notice I was very (physically) aroused. I think if I had allowed the process to continue, I would have either cum or peed in my pants (I noticed when I was younger that usually when I was hard when I was asleep I also needed to pee. My thought was that the urge to pee was what was making me hard). But neither occurred. I may have gotten up to go to the bathroom.

 

Gman