Same-age sexual attraction poll

[+ newguy]

Below is an excellent article on turning 70 years old

and staying fit.

 

The author also notes more older men getting involved sexually

with men their own age instead of guys "young enough to be

their grandchildren."

 

How many of you are almost 70 or 70+...and attracted to persons

your own age?

 

NG

 

http://gaycitynews.nyc/70-new-age/

[caliguy]

 

How many of you are almost 70 or 70+...and attracted to persons

your own age?

 

NG

 

http://gaycitynews.nyc/70-new-age/

Great article but I too wonder how true it is. It's one thing to settle but another to actually be into it. Still I smile at every older male couple I see. Gives me some hope for my own future.

 

He lists one of the main problems with getting older is that allot of your contemporaries have “abdicated” their bodies . I can see that. If you happen to be fit yourself you're probably not going to be attracted to slobs who let themselves go. The older you get the smaller that pool is. Plus there's the whole Peter Pan thing that gay men are well known for.

[+ sync]

It's a fork in the road for me. I'm more attracted to men in my age range for sharing similar life experiences and ideologies, but more attracted to younger fit men for my erogenous explorations. Wow, am I slut central or what?

[bigvalboy]

It's a fork in the road for me. I'm more attracted to men in my age range for sharing similar life experiences and ideologies, but more attracted to younger fit men for my erogenous explorations. Wow, am I slut central or what?

 

Plus one...

[+ sf westcoaster]

I am for the most part in the same group as sync and bigvalboy, but have met a number of gentlemen in their thirties and forties that I enjoy social as much as my more mature (older) friends.

[Rudynate]

I like men of all ages. I used to say that I wasn't interested in younger men, but it was more that I wasn't comfortable around younger men. I don't have that problem anymore - I have developed the ability to relate easily to men much younger than I am. I do notice that I seem to be invisible to a lot of younger gay men, but for some reason, it doesn't bother me. I don't feel isolated or marginalized.

 

I do feel like I have less and less in common with my friends that are my age. They are all retiring and putting on guts and complaining about what a bitch it is getting old and I'm just not there. I have one friend who is really thriving in retirement. After a long, illustrious career in public service, he retired and almost immediately started consulting in the non-profit sector. On his consulting gigs, he travels all over the world; he flies first-class everywhere, stays in luxury hotels, hobnobs with important people - it's all very glamorous.

[+ Charlie]

When I was young, I was sexually attracted to older men, sometimes much older. Now that I am old, I am sexually attracted to younger men, sometimes much younger. In the first stage I was more successful than the last.

[MartyB]

If we are talking about choosing an escort I don't think I would pick a guy my age. I tend to be attracted to men rather than a boy type. However, there are guys in their 20's and early 30's who look more mature and lets face it I'm not with them to talk politics or music or art or fine dining. if was to go into a relationship I would definitely look for men closer to my age.

[jjkrkwood]

Age is just a number for me.... If they have the equipment I like, I'm sold regardless of their chronological age.... And if the dick doesnt get hard, BUT IS BIG... I can suck on that softee for hours anyway, lick those balls, and tongue that Ass....... The only turnoff for me is a saggy, crepey ASS. I dont want to have to smooth out the folds to get to the promise land.

[+ HornyRetiree]

If I am just whipping it out for a blow job, same age/older is fine.

 

If I am paying, getting naked and spending an hour or more in bed having sex I want MUCH (40-50years) younger and in shape:) -- willing and able to top an older gentlemen!!!

[+ friendofsheila]

I like men.

 

I fixed this post for you, RN.

[gallahadesquire]

I like men of all ages. I used to say that I wasn't interested in younger men, but it was more that I wasn't comfortable around younger men. I don't have that problem anymore - I have developed the ability to relate easily to men much younger than I am. I do notice that I seem to be invisible to a lot of younger gay men, but for some reason, it doesn't bother me. I don't feel isolated or marginalized.

 

I do feel like I have less and less in common with my friends that are my age. They are all retiring and putting on guts and complaining about what a bitch it is getting old and I'm just not there. I have one friend who is really thriving in retirement. After a long, illustrious career in public service, he retired and almost immediately started consulting in the non-profit sector. On his consulting gigs, he travels all over the world; he flies first-class everywhere, stays in luxury hotels, hobnobs with important people - it's all very glamorous.

 

They're non-profit because they're schlepping him all over the world in high-class luxury. Just sayin' ... and envyin' ...

[gallahadesquire]

I have collected a bevy of 25-to-35 year olds. Not entirely sure how, but I wish they were around ten years ago. [Just the 35 year olds. The 25 year olds would illegal back then.]

 

But to answer the OP: I've never found my cohort interesting, except for a few friends I've had forever, like the Abbot. Diverse interests. I sang with a college Choir 20 years ago, and those kids are now in their 40's, but it's fun watching them grow, have kids and their own families ... THEY're interesting.

[Chuckball]

I hire escorts I have found on Rentmen. For that reason they are necessarily younger. Older guys just don't advertise there. I have found the guys who have become regulars are not only terrific sexually but can carry on a great conversation and have varied interests. So I have found that age is not an impediment. I do however try to stay in shape and don't let myself take on the old man persona.

[Rudynate]

I fixed this post for you, RN.

 

So true. God did good when he made men.

[+ Funguy]

I'm almost 70 tho most people don't think it; I'm very fit, my mind is in the gutter and I'm a slut - all you guys know that.

But I am completely functional and open-minded to the degree that if I hang my head too far, what little I have in the way of brains will tumble out.

 

I just happen to like guys who are fit who are in my age range or somewhat younger. I've never had a thing for twinks; even guys in their 20's usually don't do it for me. When we get to the late 30's, 40's, and up - now we're talking.

I'll take a silver daddy DILF any time (did you see that, Cord?).

 

That being said, it really is maturity and experience, not so much actual age. I've been with a few in their 30's I would prize over most and lock them away.

[Decatur Guy]

Age doesn't matter to me. My main FWB, more than two years now, is a guy a couple of years older than me. We're both in our 50s. Some of the best sex I've ever had.

[NuSingle]

I'm in my late 50's and seeing someone my age currently and it's the best sex I've ever had. We continue to amaze each other.

 

Attraction on the other hand has been a curious constant for me. When I was in my 20's I was attracted to men in their 40's and to this day, I find the most attractive men to be in their 40's. Can anyone relate? There's just something about a 40-something man that really turns me on.

[Rudynate]

I'm in my late 50's and seeing someone my age currently and it's the best sex I've ever had. We continue to amaze each other.

 

Attraction on the other hand has been a curious constant for me. When I was in my 20's I was attracted to men in their 40's and to this day, I find the most attractive men to be in their 40's. Can anyone relate? There's just something about a 40-something man that really turns me on.

 

 

I'm the same. I was always attracted to men in their 30s - 40s. 40 years ago, they were older men to me. Now their youngsters.

[jjkrkwood]

In a DARK backroom, age doesnt show... !

[MikeyGMin]

Attraction on the other hand has been a curious constant for me.

I think this may be fairly common. The age range I am most attracted to has changed a little as I've gotten older but not by much. I used to love all of the 20s into the early 30s. Now it's the late 20s at all of the 30s. Unfortunately, I have little attraction to someone much older than that which is not extremely helpful when it comes to dating!

[Rudynate]

One of the greatest things to appreciate about daddies is that they generally come without baggage.

[+ WmClarke]

I'm almost 70 tho most people don't think it; I'm very fit, my mind is in the gutter and I'm a slut - all you guys know that.

You are my inspiration.

[+ Funguy]

You are my inspiration.

 

[MartyB]

I'm in my late 50's and seeing someone my age currently and it's the best sex I've ever had. We continue to amaze each other.

 

Attraction on the other hand has been a curious constant for me. When I was in my 20's I was attracted to men in their 40's and to this day, I find the most attractive men to be in their 40's. Can anyone relate? There's just something about a 40-something man that really turns me on.

I agree. But in hiring an escort it depends on the man.