Muscle Worship for Beginners?

[Radio12545]

Meeting someone for my first ever (nude) muscle worship session. Would anyone give me some insight on what to expect, what I should do (and not to), etc.?

[LaffingBear]

Meeting someone for my first ever (nude) muscle worship session. Would anyone give me some insight on what to expect, what I should do (and not to), etc.?

I think that really depends on what you want to do.

 

Discussing muscle worship with a couple of other fans and a couple of escorts has made me understand that there can be very specific behaviors, limits, attitudes, etc.... differing greatly among people.

[Funcompany]

Lu

Meeting someone for my first ever (nude) muscle worship session. Would anyone give me some insight on what to expect, what I should do (and not to), etc.?

Lucky you! It's your time. There must be something that really makes you go crazy. I love muscle worship and hire in the regular. I have found that whatever I ask my musclegod to do he is willing. It's especially sexy when they are cocky.

[big-n-tall]

If you do a search on the forum you'll find various posts on the subject... a few by me.

[alexslaveboy]

@Radio12545

I am excited for you!!

I hire exclusively for muscle worship though I've taken a break from the action for now..

I think it depends on what you and your escort have discussed prior to your session just know what you expect and what he expects so there are no disappointments

[rvwnsd]

@Radio12545

I am excited for you!!

I hire exclusively for muscle worship though I've taken a break from the action for now..

I think it depends on what you and your escort have discussed prior to your session just know what you expect and what he expects so there are no disappointments

Ditto!!

 

Muscle worship means different things to different people. Almost 100% of the time, when I hire a guy for muscle worship he gets naked, I feel up his flexed muscles, lick his biceps and pecs, and eventually transition to blowing and rimming him. I always ask if that's OK when scheduling the appointment. One time a guy said "no oral," but he was so hot I hired him anyway because I was really looking for muscle. About halfway through the scheduled time, he directed me to suck his cock. He held my head gently until he came, at which point he had me worship him some more until I came. He said that he typically didn't let clients blow him, but he felt comfortable with me and decided he wanted to get blown. It really just depends.

 

In answer to the question "how do you approach the subject," here's a version of the email I typically write:

 

"Hi [insert escort name here], I'm rvwnsd. Saw your ad on [insert name of site] and love the pictures. I really like to worship and service a hot, muscular guy. For me, that means admiring him while he shows off, feel and lick his muscles while he flexes (and even while he is relaxed), and if we are both into it suck, rim, and swallow him. How does that sound? "

 

In all honesty, I have declined to hire a guy because he did not allow sucking (really wanted to suck), one guy did not think we would be a good match even after assuring him I wouldn't attempt to suck if he wasn't into it, and one guy quoted a very high rate for sucking, which I politely declined.

[MscleLovr]

I'm not aroused by muscle-worship except as foreplay to the main menu, but I do want to congratulate you, rvwnsd. You've provided an excellent informative post and the typical email that you send to those who interest you is both very clear and well-written.

[+ azdr0710]

found this funny little clip over at MSS.....watch to the end.....

 

"Damien Rush wins again......obviously"

http://www.myvidster.com/video/94496996/Damien_Rush

[+ MasssageGuy]

Here is a quote from one of the guys who wants you to worship him for $250 per hour...

 

"I always strive to give all my client relationships the best time they can have! I am very easy going, judgement-free, and care about each and every client that I see. I am also very Clean (D/D free) and very discreet. **I Do not Top or Bottom**"

 

Seriously, $250 for what???

[LaffingBear]

found this funny little clip over at MSS.....watch to the end.....

 

"Damien Rush wins again......obviously"

http://www.myvidster.com/video/94496996/Damien_Rush

That video is an excellent example of why "defining muscle worship" can be challenging. There is no universal definition. And by its very nature, a session that starts with the actions described by @rvwnsd can get a muscle escort's adrenaline pumping, so he'll start indulging his own domination and strength desires.

 

I'll guess that the recipient in the Damien_Rush video liked being controlled, liked the pain inflicted on his legs and knees (playful pain, I know). If an escort showed up and started doing that to me, or misinterpreted worship as license to dominate, I'd start squirming, would probably stop the session, and depending on the escort's strength compared to mine, I might get physical, or panicky-afraid.

 

Very detailed descriptions of services can, understandably, make an escort a little nervous. But its imperative for a muscle worship client to have things clarified.

 

I saw a fantastic muscle worship escort multiple times, overnight, longer, about 6-8 years ago. Not giant, but shredded, and liked proving his strength. Super nice, friendly, could also be frisky and cuddly. Imagine my surprise when he told me about a client who liked getting martial arts-style high leg kicks to the side of his head..... and the escort loved doing it.

[+ Russ]

I'm a full-service escort. What we do during our time together is up to you, and boy has that license been taken advantage of (to my delight). But MANY of my clients opt for the type of low-interaction muscle worship session some of you have been decrying here, where I get adored and pleasured and that's it. They leave beaming, and based on the largesse of their tips, our followup correspondence, their posted reviews, and their continued custom, I'd venture to say they don't feel as though they're leaving anything on the table. It may not be for you, but be careful about yucking others' yum.

[hornytwells]

Anyone know anything about Damien Rush as in if he escorts?

[amigomonty]

I'm a full-service escort. What we do during our time together is up to you, and boy has that license been taken advantage of (to my delight). But MANY of my clients opt for the type of low-interaction muscle worship session some of you have been decrying here, where I get adored and pleasured and that's it. They leave beaming with stars in their eyes and based on the largesse of their tips, our followup correspondence, their posted reviews, and their continued custom, I'd venture to say they don't feel as though they're leaving anything on the table. It may not be for you, but be careful about yucking others' yum.

Russ obviously "gets it". His understanding of himself and his clients is likely why he is successful in his business and bodybuilding. I would be in line with several other respected posters if he made his way West. Probably much like the respect Vin Marco receives from the worship community...

[LaffingBear]

I support any client getting the muscle experience he wants, provided the escort agrees. (Well, maybe not the headkicking I described above - I thought it was risky for the escort to accommodate that request)

 

Six clients want a worship session

1. Client 1 just wants to watch as a bodybuilder flexes, poses, verbally boasts about his physicality
   
2. Client 2 wants to watch some posing, see the guy disrobe, and then touch and feel, maybe lick muscles.
   
3. Client 3 wants to touch, feel, lick, eventually suck or rim
   
4. Client 4 is 5'1", scrawny, and wants all of the above, and to be body-pressed by the muscle guy. Maybe held up while being fucked.
   
5. Client 5 wants some hulk to get verbal, tower over him while flexing, proclaiming his superiority, even some comparative humiliation
   
6. Client 6 wants the muscle guy to prove his strength with power holds, wrestling moves, a little pain - like the Damien Rush video linked above
   

And many variations on these.

 

My experience is that there is no universal understanding, from the escorts' or clients' perspectives, of what constitutes muscle worship. No one is wrong. But it takes some extra clarification in advance, or there'll be disappointment or worse.

 

And the process of clarification, the detailed questions, are not typically things escorts welcome. Its time consuming. Its a little risky. And, as stated on the boards by escorts, the further in advance the planning starts, the more questions, the less likely the session will actually occur.

[mike carey]

@Russ brilliant commentary on this issue. I love you more the more you chat in here. I really need to make that trip to NYC. Many reasons, but Russ is up there at the top of the list.

[+ HornyRetiree]

Here is a quote from one of the guys who wants you to worship him for $250 per hour...

 

"I always strive to give all my client relationships the best time they can have! I am very easy going, judgement-free, and care about each and every client that I see. I am also very Clean (D/D free) and very discreet. **I Do not Top or Bottom**"

 

Seriously, $250 for what???

 

I guess you MIGHT get to blow him? touch him and look?? Last I knew that was readily available for free!

[LaffingBear]

I guess you MIGHT get to blow him? touch him and look?? Last I knew that was readily available for free!

Where are these totally shredded, ripped muscle guys willing to stand before a guy, privately, permitting ogling and touching for free?

[+ azdr0710]

like the periodic "how much to tip?" threads here in the forum, these periodic "what is muscle worship?" threads develop many opinions and even minor controversy and derision.....

 

ten people = ten opinions.......

[mike carey]

ten people = ten opinions.....

I would just say, forget the rest, hire @Russ. The others are so particular, they will do this and not that!

[LaffingBear]

like the periodic "how much to tip?" threads here in the forum, these periodic "what is muscle worship?" threads develop many opinions and even minor controversy and derision.....

 

ten people = ten opinions.......

Thats exactly right.

 

How much should you tip a muscle worship escort?

[+ azdr0710]

Thats exactly right.

 

How much should you tip a muscle worship escort?

 

I believe the forum, back on February 22, 2009, came to a consensus of $38.61......whether or not to reimburse parking is still a hot button "talking point" - opinions vary, you know

[+ purplekow]

I'm a full-service escort. What we do during our time together is up to you, and boy has that license been taken advantage of (to my delight). But MANY of my clients opt for the type of low-interaction muscle worship session some of you have been decrying here, where I get adored and pleasured and that's it. They leave beaming with stars in their eyes and based on the largesse of their tips, our followup correspondence, their posted reviews, and their continued custom, I'd venture to say they don't feel as though they're leaving anything on the table. It may not be for you, but be careful about yucking others' yum.

I did not leave anything on the table with Russ, though I believe I left something on his chest and so did he.

[Man Crush Morris]

I used to hire a very straight semi pro, off the radar personal trainer. I liked body contact, touching muscles and package, licking, and when he'd get hard he'd get on top of my for a very dominant froting.

 

Pretty vanilla, I suppose, and depending on the standard that's probably "muscle worship plus," but I was very satisfied.

 

He had some firm rules. Don't mention to anyone about our agreement. No kissing his mouth. No anal. No fellating him.

 

He was young, really handsome with a great body, and he was fantastic at our activities. I'm not very demanding so I had no problem with his rules as it was stuff I wasn't interested in anyway.

 

Not long into our arrangement, though, I really longed to suck him, though it's not something I do. I never pressed it as I didn't want to alienate him, and the couple of times I playfully tried to see if he'd allow it I was rebuffed.

 

He was really the best guy I ever hired, but his limitation made me frustrated, I admit.

 

Muscle worship plus, I suppose.

[bigvalboy]

I believe the forum, back on February 22, 2009, came to a consensus of $38.61......whether or not to reimburse parking is still a hot button "talking point" - opinions vary, you know

 

Yeah... don't even get me started on the parking thing again. Eight years later and I still get irritated just thinking about that thread...

[MuscleNutz]

Russ obviously "gets it". His understanding of himself and his clients is likely why he is successful in his business and bodybuilding. I would be in line with several other respected posters if he made his way West. Probably much like the respect Vin Marco receives from the worship community...

Is Vin still active with current pics anywhere? He sure looks like my ideal hot time.