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creoleblanche Community Regular

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I used to think being around people was perfectly safe. Apparently I was wrong too. I mean you could catch the damn Zeke Virus these days. I pretty much stay away from everyone now and it really isn't that bad. I think everyone should try it.

 

I don't know what half of these things are. I'm going back in the nunnery. Might as well.

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GregM Mentor

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I have ask me on my profile. This means exctly that, ask me. Lets chat about it, talk boundaries and what not. When it's sexy time I like to have as much as possible out on the table. Never assume when it comes to sexy time. Communication is paramount.

 

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Greg

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GregM Mentor

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I want to ad that on the RM profiles for the hookers we arent supposed to be graphic on the text part. It says in the TOS that being graphic about sexy time can get ypur profile booted. Or something like that. So if a hooker has ask me just ask.

 

Hugs,

Greg

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José Soplanucas Grand Master

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I want to ad that on the RM profiles for the hookers we arent supposed to be graphic on the text part. It says in the TOS that being graphic about sexy time can get ypur profile booted. Or something like that. So if a hooker has ask me just ask.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

I am telling you Greg, they just stop thinking. They see "ASK ME" and a movie with all the worst nightmares starts to play in their brains and they just stop listening.

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LoveNDino Grand Master

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1) I got oral gonnerhrea my first time with an escort from oral. Horrible .

2) there are antibiotics RESISTANT strains of that and other STDS now...including syphilis! No thanks.

I think I need a jolt every now and then. Thanks for sharing!

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MartyB Mentor

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As a bottom, I can report that BB is so much easier in terms of pain/pleasure. I advertise as "safe only", but will BB particular regulars or if the client has a recent test.

I'm versatile and I can honestly say when I bottom I'm very happy that my guy is wearing a condom. Feels just fine. Not judging but playing safe for me is paramount. And yes if I top I get the XXX large condom with plenty of lube and love to rim before I enter

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LoveNDino Grand Master

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I'd think some guys are willing to top BB but not bottom bareback. Statistically speaking, you are safer topping bareback than bottoming with a condom, assuming you are circumcised.

Just curious - is topping with a circumcised dick safer than if you have an uncut one?

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sniper Grand Master

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Supposedly. Without the foreskin the skin covering the head of the penis toughens/is less pourous (over time) than the head of an uncircumcised penis.

That's not the reason. The foreskin itself is a mucous membrane - it has glands which are openings that things can come back in through.

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When I see "Ask Me" or "Anything Goes" in the Safe/BB I assume they will bareback and take them out of consideration.

I realize you can request a condom when someone is topping you, but with oral, giving a bj with a condom is awful, a non-starter.

Am I being too conservative ?

Thoughts ?

No you are not at all!

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That's not the reason. The foreskin itself is a mucous membrane - it has glands which are openings that things can come back in through.

 

Just curious - is topping with a circumcised dick safer than if you have an uncut one?

 

I guess I should have looked it up instead of writing what I heard. Mea culpa.

 

This is what I found... "The foreskin is highly vulnerable to HIV infection for several reasons. First, the foreskin is delicate and can sustain small tears during sex. These tears may allow HIV to enter the body more easily. Tears also cause inflammation, which can further increase the risk of HIV transmission. In addition, there is a higher concentration of cells that HIV likes to infect (called Langerhans cells) in the foreskin than in other parts of the penis. Finally, HIV-infected fluids can become trapped under the foreskin and remain there after sex."

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sniper Grand Master

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Some tops now say their endowment goes soft in condoms..smh

I don't fuck much at all but I do have this issue. It's definitely less hard when I have a condom on. I still use one when I fuck but there have been times when I just gave up on the fucking.

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