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Funguy Grand Master

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Great subject but depends... an escort who tops has to be more proactive directing the whole session, while an escort who bottoms will have to just take it and be more passive.

 

I think the 2 of them matter!

 

Attitude all the way. Looks are a plus but it's the attitude that seals the deal. I have hired guys who are not my "usual" type and had just outstanding times! (hired because of reviews or something which may pique my interest, not looks!)

 

I also disagree with Marylander - I don't believe that an escort who tops HAS TO BE more proactive and the bottom more passive. I mostly bottom, but I give as much as I get and match the enthusiasm of the top. It is a constant give and take. A BFE may be just a bit different with the top (it is usually a top) being a bit more in "directing" the action: sometimes I do like the top to be more "dominant" but I can just as well be a very, very bad boi (in which case it is me, the bottom, who really controls the encounter!)

Funguy Grand Master

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Remember it is not the size of a guy's pecs, but the quality of the heart that beats within those pecs!

 

. . . and the size of the nipples on those pec!

marylander1940 Grand Master

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Attitude all the way. Looks are a plus but it's the attitude that seals the deal. I have hired guys who are not my "usual" type and had just outstanding times! (hired because of reviews or something which may pique my interest, not looks!)

 

I also disagree with Marylander - I don't believe that an escort who tops HAS TO BE more proactive and the bottom more passive. I mostly bottom, but I give as much as I get and match the enthusiasm of the top. It is a constant give and take. A BFE may be just a bit different with the top (it is usually a top) being a bit more in "directing" the action: sometimes I do like the top to be more "dominant" but I can just as well be a very, very bad boi (in which case it is me, the bottom, who really controls the encounter!)

 

I guess we agree, the top is also called "active" in many languages and the bottom "passive".

 

The top is more likely to be in charge and the bottom to be more submissive but my English must be rusty and up and down don't mean what they used to. LOL

Epigonos Grand Master

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When I first started hiring escorts, about fifteen years ago, physique was ALL important. I was and still am to a great extent a body fascist muscle queen but as time has passed body type as become less and less important for me. Personality, even in my early days of hiring, ALWAYS determined whether or not I rehired a guy. Nowadays I find myself hiring guys who have physiques that I wouldn't even have given a second glance ten or fifteen years ago. An excellent example of this is Alex Hawk/Las Vegas who would be way too thin for me if my taste in body types hadn't expanded. His rentmen ad and email communication screams - great guy with personality plus thus I am sincerely looking forward to getting together with him. Over the years I have developed a couple of regulars who I see with some frequency. These guys became regulars based totally on their personalities not their physiques.

purplekow Grand Master

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Well with all these guys saying attitude is the prime consideration, I am thinking about doing some escorting myself. I have a great attitude about sex and life in general, in a curmudgeonly sort of way. I am generally a delight in the bedroom and out. So, $250 an hour, until I am so in demand that I can boost it up. Late 40's(my escort age) 8 inch thick (escort measurements).

For me physique is what gets in me the door and attitude is what gets me into bed. Although in all honesty, once I am in the door, it does not take much to seal the deal.

WilliamM Grand Master

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You're 27 and you haven't done so already?

 

I was in the military in Vietnam when I was 27. One of my closest friends is 26 and an American journalist in the former Soviet land of the republic of Georgia.

 

One size does not fit all.

corndog Rising Star

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Slightly off topic, there are several escorts who post here regularly that wouldn't really get my attention if I was browsing rent.men in their city. In some cases, their physical appearance is definitely not in my "wheel house." However, due to their attitude and personality on display here, I'm very tempted. So far, I haven't tried it, because I'm just not certain that a personal connection could overcome a complete lack of physical attraction for me.

Decatur Guy Proficient

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Looks matter but attitude matters more.

 

Great looks don't always equal great sex. In fact, I've come to decide it's more likely to detract from great sex, if anything. The really extra-hot guy hasn't had to put much work into being a good sexual partner.

Zapped Community Regular

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For me, it's not so much of physique OR attitude. It's the balance or combination of physique and attitude.

 

Very often when we hire, or have a sexual encounter in which no money is exchanged, we are acting out a fantasy or psychodrama (whether affectionate, kinkily degrading, or whatever). So if I'm looking to muscle worship and orally service a straight stud who humiliates me, there needs to be a certain physique and attitude, at least while the role play is going on. If I am looking for affection and cuddling, there's a much broader range of physiques that work for me and the personal and sexual chemistry is more important.

 

Generally speaking, in the 42 years I've been sexually active, the most stereotypically good-looking muscular guys I've been with have been the least imaginative lovers, while a lot of "ordinary" guys have been fabulous in bed. And once the lights are out, and the cocks are hard, chemistry and connection are the most important for me.

glennnn Mentor

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Agreed! One of my most passionate escort experiences was with @Rod Hagen who is very beautiful and toned, but not a muscle man. Watching the fire in his eyes flare and flicker is enough to make me cum even without the expert kissing, topping and sucking. Give me attitude and TECHNIQUE in a healthy body and I'm there.

othermanc Collaborator

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Attitude! I have been with some amazing looking escorts who have treated me like I was the guy they've been looking for all their lives! These are repeat hires! On the other hand some of these good looking dudes somehow can make one feel like it's "really just a job" they're doing. (These become one time hires , for sure.) Then I have had incredible encounters with "average looking" escorts that have reshaped my hiring preferences, placing much more emphasis on the attitude and style manifested in the pre-meeting correspondence. I've found that if I'm encouraged the style and communication in those emails usually the encounter is excellent.

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