Offering accommodation to an escort

[+ haring222]

I have had a crush on Gabriel Cross for years (the combo of fair skin, super short, and English accent is perfection) and hired him when he was in Chicago. We had a nice meeting and it was fun to get to talk to a 'celebrity' in person who managed to make me like him even more as we chatted. I have a spare flat in my house that I post on airbnb and offered it up to him, thinking it would be fun to see him around for a bit but slightly paranoid about what having an active escort in the building for a week might be like. At the end of the stay I can only say that he really is a class act; endearing, charming, considerate, and left my flat in tidy condition. Though the highlight was later seeing some images on twitter of him in a jock strap posing in the flat. On his departure I told him to send some other escorts my way if he thought they would be fun to have around and would not destroy my place...and in his kind way he basically said he couldn't think of anyone that he would vouch for. I would totally offer up the place for other guys to use but I have a strong notion it might quickly go awry... Anyone have any idea if doing that opens me up for any legal issues?

[+ haring222]

 

[+ azdr0710]

yup, was hoping for a jock shot.....thanks @haring222

[eyesopen]

What is your motivation, really? You sound like you would want sex or something else in return. Seems like a bad idea, like you are starting a brothel or something. If that is your intent though, go for it.

[+ haring222]

Good question...sex would not be the motivation. Indeed I think Gabriel assumed I would ask for that and I was more than pleased to have him take me out for a thank you dinner and to chat with him. It is more a (perhaps unhealthy) fascination with escorts / escorting as well as being a guy who continually looks for unusual distractions from my very simple life.

[eyesopen]

Just decide how much trouble you're willing to endure, how much fascination you think you can satisfy (and more importantly: How) and what cost you're willing to pay in case it complicates your life.

[azulpalido]

Consider flipping a coin. One side has the experience you just described, the other side has a squatter who ruins your flat & leaves you in a legal conundrum where you have to get a sheriff to evict the person (read all sorts of horror stories about Airbnb guests who decide not to leave).

 

http://www.cnn.com/2014/07/23/travel/airbnb-squatters/

http://la.curbed.com/2014/7/21/10070282/nightmare-airbnb-guest-in-palm-springs-refuses-to-leave

 

Like you, I'm always super curious about the human condition. Just satisfy that itch by watching documentaries. Don't become a statistic.

 

[+ OliverSaks]

I would be very interested in a situation like this. I'm sending you a PM.

[JayCeeKy]

Anecdotal Evidence is usually not worth much but here goes: I put up a male stripper for a while b/c he said he was having some financial problems. Everything went great for about a month - I had companionship and really enjoyed having a "stud" walking around in his skivvies. Then one day I noticed that my AMEX account had ATM withdrawals totaling about $6,000. Yes, stupid me left the PIN on my dresser. Luckily, AMEX didn't want to investigate and reimbursed me. The old saw is true: no good deed goes unpunished.

[+ V-Vhitner]

It's a terrible idea. May seem sexy in theory - but it ends badly. Sorry babe.

[+ OliverSaks]

I would put down a large deposit betting that it would end happily with me, but I can understand the general feeling from other posters in this thread.

 

It doesn't feel so daunting with a reputable escort with many positive reviews and a forum presence. A bad outcome in this situation could be equally as catastrophic for the escort; it isn't a totally no strings arrangement in that sense. If a situation like this were presented to me, I would absolutely be on my best behavior.

[+ José Soplanucas]

If I was an escort I would be following @OliverSaks lead.

[Fyton]

Long, long ago, never mind how long exactly, feeling that I could use the kid's guilt and his sense that he had fallen ass-backwards into a very good thing, I decided to get myself into just the sort of situation that you describe. When I kicked him out for repeatedly using my ATM code to buy pizza and beer, all of which he denied to the last gasp, he "refused" to leave. He had no where to go. He was going to get a job. His mother was going to give him some money. Ultimately, I filed a Report with the Austin PD, and told him that he left that minute or i'd amend the report with his name. The fuckeer has four times since tried to communicate with me. Needy people cling like you are their life raft.

[BgMstr4u]

I ran across this while feeding my current wild, mad infatuation for Gabriel Cross. I can’t tell you what joy it is to add the qualities of a considerate gentleman to his many other virtues, which you enumerate so well. Thank you, Haring!

[marylander1940]

Consider flipping a coin. One side has the experience you just described, the other side has a squatter who ruins your flat & leaves you in a legal conundrum where you have to get a sheriff to evict the person (read all sorts of horror stories about Airbnb guests who decide not to leave).

 

http://www.cnn.com/2014/07/23/travel/airbnb-squatters/

http://la.curbed.com/2014/7/21/10070282/nightmare-airbnb-guest-in-palm-springs-refuses-to-leave

 

Like you, I'm always super curious about the human condition. Just satisfy that itch by watching documentaries. Don't become a statistic.

 

 

Good advice, rules must be stablished upfront and followed (earliest client to latest one, and mostly noise level).

 

One more thing @azulpalido anything related to Michael Lucas does not apply to others, he's a scumbag.

 

@haring222 You should do it if you like the guy so much!

 

Good luck!

[marylander1940]

I would put down a large deposit betting that it would end happily with me, but I can understand the general feeling from other posters in this thread.

 

It doesn't feel so daunting with a reputable escort with many positive reviews and a forum presence. A bad outcome in this situation could be equally as catastrophic for the escort; it isn't a totally no strings arrangement in that sense. If a situation like this were presented to me, I would absolutely be on my best behavior.

 

Good point!

 

I'm sure you'll leave the place spotless and pick up all the condoms!

 

http://gifimage.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/cleaning-gif-18.gif

[+ José Soplanucas]

Long, long ago, never mind how long exactly, feeling that I could use the kid's guilt and his sense that he had fallen ass-backwards into a very good thing, I decided to get myself into just the sort of situation that you describe. When I kicked him out for repeatedly using my ATM code to buy pizza and beer, all of which he denied to the last gasp, he "refused" to leave. He had no where to go. He was going to get a job. His mother was going to give him some money. Ultimately, I filed a Report with the Austin PD, and told him that he left that minute or i'd amend the report with his name. The fuckeer has four times since tried to communicate with me. Needy people cling like you are their life raft.

 

That is not the situation he is describing. Sorry you went through that.

[marylander1940]

Long, long ago, never mind how long exactly, feeling that I could use the kid's guilt and his sense that he had fallen ass-backwards into a very good thing, I decided to get myself into just the sort of situation that you describe. When I kicked him out for repeatedly using my ATM code to buy pizza and beer, all of which he denied to the last gasp, he "refused" to leave. He had no where to go. He was going to get a job. His mother was going to give him some money. Ultimately, I filed a Report with the Austin PD, and told him that he left that minute or i'd amend the report with his name. The fuckeer has four times since tried to communicate with me. Needy people cling like you are their life raft.

 

That's the way sugar daddy/boy situations end 99% of the time!

[Rudynate]

I would put down a large deposit betting that it would end happily with me, but I can understand the general feeling from other posters in this thread.

 

It doesn't feel so daunting with a reputable escort with many positive reviews and a forum presence. A bad outcome in this situation could be equally as catastrophic for the escort; it isn't a totally no strings arrangement in that sense. If a situation like this were presented to me, I would absolutely be on my best behavior.

 

Agreed, with appropriate guardrails in place, it could be a great experience for both.