Do we have to fuck? Inspired by Gar1eth

[marylander1940]

Being the rare and acquired taste that I am, the only attention I've received (aside from the bartender taking my beer order) is one Grrr from someone who is also here from the Growlr (bear) app. Unfortunately I can't actually find him in the bar, and even if I did, we are both tops.

 

My only hope, and I'm not going to bet the farm on it is that older, bald, chubby bears get more attractive at closing time. :confused:

 

Gman

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/im-at-one-of-the-local-bear-bars-sigh.115671/

 

Do you have to fuck to have a good time?

 

Is anal compatibility required to have good sex/date/relationship?

 

If you're a top can you date another top?

 

If you're a bottom can you date another bottom?

[+ sync]

Do you have to fuck to have a good time?

 

I don't.

[down_to_business]

Nope, a whole lot more than anal sex out there... and thank goodness!

[whipped guy]

As I have posted here many times I am on the "I get fucked once in every five years" program. For some reason it happened twice in 2015. (Well it was by two of the hottest dudes on the planet so why not!!!) That means I'm good until the year 2025! Obviously "other" activities interest me more, much more!

[Nvr2Thick]

I thought we settled this back in 1986.

 

[+ Keith30309]

Great points. When I first started hiring 2 years ago I somewhat defined the success or failure of the meeting in terms of fucking and it seemed to become a forced thing I wasn't always looking forward to. In my most recent meeting there was no true penetration but we both had a marvelous time.

Good question.

[+ nycman]

Do you have to fuck to have a good time?

 

Yes

 

Is anal compatibility required to have good sex/date/relationship?

 

Yes

 

If you're a top can you date another top?

 

You can date....but it will end in tears.

 

If you're a bottom can you date another bottom?

 

I have no fucking clue.

[marylander1940]

 

If you're a bottom can you date another bottom?

 

 

I have no fucking clue.

 

you can always do this...

 

http://boygif.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/vintage-dildo-cool-guy.gif

 

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-0s_izk8dH64/VVm_vEAmSgI/AAAAAAAAhbw/A-7A2KA5hOU/s1600/easy+rider.gif

 

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[bigvalboy]

There is obviously no right or wrong answers here. It is different for everyone. To suggest otherwise...

 

It can be:

no no yes yes

OR:

yes yes no no

 

OR: any one of a number of different combinations. Your mileage may vary...

 

If Gman indicates that he needs anal for a successful hookup, then I take him at his word. Most of my friends fall into this camp.

[jjkrkwood]

I havent Fucked in eons, and most always have a sexually satisfying time with partners..... (the only time I dont is if they have a small dick) :D YES, I need a big dick to be satisfied,

simply because I am a visual person and the visual greatly helps my satisfaction of the experience.

[down_to_business]

I havent Fucked in eons, and most always have a sexually satisfying time with partners..... (the only time I dont is if they have a small dick) :D YES, I need a big dick to be satisfied,

simply because I am a visual person and the visual greatly helps my satisfaction of the experience.

 

http://gardenplotter.com/rospo/blog/uploaded_images/ScrotalSquash-752283.jpg

 

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/4/4a/Bended_cucumber.jpg

http://www.lazycomposter.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/me-giant-zucchini-350.jpg

[+ purplekow]

Two intelligent and adventurous men of any sexual proclivity should be able to sexually entertain each other for an evening. If this is not the case, you have no imagination, which leads to a total waste of two naked bodies.

[marylander1940]

Two intelligent and adventurous men of any sexual proclivity should be able to sexually entertain each other for an evening. If this is not the case, you have no imagination, which leads to a total waste of two naked bodies.

 

http://rs5.pbsrc.com/albums/y176/HathBrad/INTERNET%20DOWNLOADS/ANIMATED%20GIFs%202%20-%202011/applause.gif~c200

 

Brilliant!

[jjkrkwood]

http://gardenplotter.com/rospo/blog/uploaded_images/ScrotalSquash-752283.jpg

 

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/4/4a/Bended_cucumber.jpg

http://www.lazycomposter.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/me-giant-zucchini-350.jpg

 

 

YUP DTB, thank you, I DO love to eat "Healthy".....

[MikeyGMin]

Yes

 

 

 

Yes

 

 

 

You can date....but it will end in tears.

 

 

 

I have no fucking clue.

 

While I don't share your proclivities...I admire your clarity on this subject. (You are also one funny SOB. )

[nycguy]

Nope, we don't always have to fuck to have a good time - that's why everyone is a born cocksucker.

[jjkrkwood]

There is obviously no right or wrong answers here. It is different for everyone. To suggest otherwise...

 

It can be:

no no yes yes

OR:

yes yes no no

 

OR: any one of a number of different combinations. Your mileage may vary...

 

If Gman indicates that he needs anal for a successful hookup, then I take him at his word. Most of my friends fall into this camp.

 

 

anal sex for me is like having Root Canal.....

[liubit]

I VERY rarely fuck with escorts....that is my boyfriend's reserved domain. With "my" working boys I kiss, suck, lick, rim, and I have a blast every time!

[+ Keith30309]

anal sex for me is like having Root Canal.....

 

You're supposed to start at the other end, silly !

[instudiocity]

You're supposed to start at the other end, silly !

ROFL!!!

 

+173

[Reluctant Daddy]

It's not a necessity to have good time. If the mood is right, the guy is hot, and Jupiter aligns with Mars, the occasional fuck can be a good time.

[+ José Soplanucas]

In my case, I do not need penetration to have a great time one evening, or two, or three, etc., but eventually I do need to top my partner. I cannot imagine being in a LTR without penetration.

Of course that's just me. As several posters stated above, there is no one right answer to the OP question.

[jjkrkwood]

In my case, I do not need penetration to have a great time one evening, or two, or three, etc., but eventually I do need to top my partner. I cannot imagine being in a LTR without penetration.

Of course that's just me. As several posters stated above, there is no one right answer to the OP question.

 

 

lat, as strange as this may seem my 22 year relationship with my partner did not have anal on the menu. We engaged in it perhaps 10 times in those 22 years, and it probably lasted maybe 15 minutes each time. We were both lucky enough to have found partners for whom anal was not the "act du jour".....

[klifhangar]

I don't know yet.

[+ José Soplanucas]

lat, as strange as this may seem my 22 year relationship with my partner did not have anal on the menu. We engaged in it perhaps 10 times in those 22 years, and it probably lasted maybe 15 minutes each time. We were both lucky enough to have found partners for whom anal was not the "act du jour".....

I'm glad for you jj! As I said, I know better than projecting to others my needs