Are You Disinclined to Hire When Intellectual Deficiency Is Readily Depicted in an Ad?

[Edward]

I am hiring for the physical and emotional support (to quench my animalistic desires). If I want an intellectual conversation I can get that from my friends. I want someone with a pleasant attitude and a body that turns me on. I am tired of these people that claim to be highly intelligent who may or may not be. If they are they don't need to tell me they are. I don't need their ego getting in the way of play.

[Guest countryboywny]

You aren't Shakespeare when it comes to expressing yourself.

 

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+1

[Kenny]

the curvature of Reimannian manifolds

You don't know what that is? What a douche. Do you drool on yourself too? Everybody knows it describes the curvature of Einstein's dick.

 

English is in a state of orthographic and grammatical collapse

 

Me too.

[+ Truereview]

You don't know what that is? What a douche. Do you drool on yourself too? Everybody knows it describes the curvature of Einstein's dick.

Tru dat!

 

[jimboivyo]

You aren't Shakespeare when it comes to expressing yourself.

 

never said I was. but I'm right about proper english being from britain

[+ dutchmuch]

Yo peeps, waz sup ? I'z got a big one for you's. If you's all got the dolla's, give me a holla, and I b fucking you's all silly....

 

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Your Ebonics is perfect JJ!

[body2body]

This could just be unproofed voice to text. Or English might not be his native tongue.

This is a very astute observation IMHO, regional accent, or foreign accent combined with voice to text could produce this kind of result.

[marylander1940]

never said I was. but I'm right about proper english being from britain

 

Here's for you to practice:

 

 

 

the real English by the Simpsons.

 

[down_to_business]

I will take a hot guy with a big heart over a big brain any day of the week!

[mike carey]

The woman in this picture (Gina Rinehart) is worth about $US8.5b, she owns a mining company in Australia. Nasty piece of work, too.

[+ saminseattle]

Different people look for different things of course, but I would not discount the importance of intelligence and education to long-term success for those in the business of providing companionship.

 

In Renaissance Italy, the most successful courtesans had to know Greek and Latin as well as the Italian vernacular. They could play music and could converse about politics and other topics of the day. The wealthy clients of these “cortigiana onesta” or “intellectual courtesans,” were obviously looking for more than just superficial beauty and physical pleasure. http://thingstodo.viator.com/venice/secrets-of-venice-venetian-courtesans/

 

Incidentally, didn’t I read somewhere that Mr. Gaite has several degrees, including one in English literature? For me, his clever and insightful comments here, with grammar better than mine, reflect a playful intelligence that nicely complements the recent photos that folks have been abuzz about.

[mike carey]

Incidentally, didn’t I read somewhere that Mr. Gaite has several degrees, including one in English literature? For me, his clever and insightful comments here, with grammar better than mine, reflect a playful intelligence that nicely complements the recent photos that folks have been abuzz about.

This is an example of the something that looks at the reverse perspective of the original proposition, that is that displays of wit and intelligence add to the desirability of a potential companion. Mike is one case in point, as is Russ, who has already been mentioned in this thread. Complimenting someone for the way their intelligence complements their photos is good form too!

[DonaldTramp]

The dumber the better for me.

[ncc1701d]

I don't think the issue is perfect grammar. In fact his ad is wrong in words (and/are). But the bigger issue is: your ad is your calling card/business card. If there are all kinds of errors and you can't be bother to proofread or edit afterwards in the electronic age where editing is simple, then what does that say about you paying attention to the needs of the client, or about paying attention to cleanliness/safety or discretion???!!!!

[+ dutchmuch]

Grammar? How about their pictures?

 

 

 

Gihttp://images2.backpage.com/imager/u/large/261471594/505262574e8fd1226ce0fc3891316139.jpgng The Finger, or bathroom pose with a trud floating in the toilet background is always a turn-off for me.

[rvwnsd]

Based on the grammar used in some of these replies, there appears to be an abundance of glass house dwellers lined up to buy stones.

 

That said,

Now, WHY would I care about his grammar ? I certainly wont want to spend my time with him "TALKING".....

 

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These guys may conjugate my verb ANY time.

[mike carey]

These guys may conjugate my verb ANY time.

I could think of a couple of verbs they could start with!

[rvwnsd]

I could think of a couple of verbs they could start with!

Hold your horses there, Mike. When they are finished conjugating I get to diagram their sentences and take care of their dangling participles.

[Bearofdistinction]

I'll make this one quick. Are you disinclined to hire when intellectual deficiency is so boldly on display as it is in this brief ad:

 

http://www.men4rentnow.com/gay/escort/male/massage/baton_rouge_/Vanryan33/309538?

 

My own answer is "yes," but I'm curious if others may be inclined to overlook such a glaring misuse of a word TWICE in such a short (and tersely-worded) ad?

 

Thanks,

 

Kevin

 

Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat - Duuuh

[jusmeinbr]

I'd just like to say that it's hard to believe I posted this thread only about 24 hours ago openly wondering if there would even be the first response! I have enjoyed reading ALL the replies immensely, and several have literally had me laughing my ass off!!

 

I just want to make one closing comment for me. When I see the type of piss-poor wording and lack of concern over it by the escort to just leave it out there like it is in the ad I referenced (for those who want to excuse it as voice-to-text error, you see no need to edit the damn thing or is that sort of laziness and indifference acceptable in your eyes?), I see it as a harbinger of likely run-around to surface (indifference, difficulties, modiness, irritability, etc.) in attempting to set up a meeting. I am going to admit that I find the guy attractive and even once considered maybe giving it a shot, but I never did (nor will I at this point, rationale below).

 

I know there are plenty of guys on this site who are fabulously wealthy and, even if an escort is a total bust, the funds lost can just be viewed as mad money and it's no big deal. I'm just not such a person. I've tried to deploy my own perhaps overly-rigid screening because I need it to work well on my end because a bust costs me a shot I may not be able to take again for 60 days or so. I'm fortunate in that, of the 20 or so escorts I've met in my 12 years of screening in New Orleans, I consider only one a bust. The guy stated in his ad that he was 36 but, in reality, we carried on a convesation in which he made reference to his college days, and the guy was actually older than me (i.e. he was mid 50s when I was 49 when we met), and I knew that the moment I saw him! I also felt zero chemistry toward him, but I "went through the motions" for 10-15 minutes because he was very nice and courteous, and I paid the full fee notwithstanding the deceit on age (which was accompanied by pictoral deceit in that same regard).

 

What I've been fortuante enough to do in my pursuit is to hone in on one escort with whom I REALLY hit it off, and then commence to see ONLY that escort thereafer as often as I can afford (typically maybe 7-10 times a year) until he moves or retires. That worked really well for me, but in May of last year, a super nice guy with whom I'd been meeting with about every three weeks, and who was from Thailand, told me that, since his student VISA was up, it was mandatory that he had to return to Thailand. That was a huge disappointment for me because we were a GREAT match for one another, but I knew it was all over as he departed that last time in early May of 2015. I was pretty bummed for about 2-3 weeks.

 

Knowing how weak the New Orleans market is (at least in terms of what I'm looking for), I didn't even make an effort to even try to hook up with anyone after that, and Rentboy's untimely demise even heightened my fear that maybe it was all "too risky." I'm happy to report, however, that my rigid screening paid off Monday when I just happened to log onto Rent Men and saw Ryan Sizemore's (ItalianRyan's) ad and the fact he was visiting my city Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday: http://rentmen.com/italianryan. Now, in addition to great pictures, take a look at the wording in his ad. It screams out professionalism. His two reviews on Daddy's Review also helped tremendously. I called him directly literally moments after seeing his visiting schedule, and we engaged in a VERY polite conversation and set up our first meeting for the very next day (his first day in town) at 6:00 p.m.

 

We met as scheduled, and the experience was beyond anything I can readily relay into words (though I will provide a full-blown review later). Right now, all I'm focusing upon is us meeting again in about nine hours, which we are!! Not only was he a top-notch escort, but he was incredibly courteous and respectful (but also easily "shifted gears" as he recognized how subservient I like to be for an escort).

 

I was patient, guys, but I've now found my go-to New Orleans escort, and the best part is he told me he doesn't see himself moving anytime soon. Thank GOD for that, and I hope that ends up being the case!!

 

Thanks for all the threads to this post guys, and if you're ever in New Orleans, Ryan Sizemore (ItalianRayn on RM) has my HIGHEST recommendation and, as is obvious by my pickiness, that's not something I just throw around like beads from a Mardi Gras parade!

[rvwnsd]

I don't think the issue is perfect grammar. In fact his ad is wrong in words (and/are). ...

 

I'm wondering if speech recognition is changing "or" to "are."

 

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But the bigger issue is: your ad is your calling card/business card. If there are all kinds of errors and you can't be bother to proofread or edit afterwards in the electronic age where editing is simple, then what does that say about you paying attention to the needs of the client, or about paying attention to cleanliness/safety or discretion???!!!!

 

Well said.

[jjkrkwood]

"I ain't Big on Talking, but I'm big in my pants, and i'll fuck your brains out ! Is it a Date ? "

 

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[jjkrkwood]

Who's Your Daddy ?

 

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[LADoug1]

Well, I certainly won't hire you! The correct word in this context is "contemptible," not "contemptuous."

(Actually, the number of spelling and grammar errors throughout this thread stimulate my urge to get out my red pencil, but I won't, because I don't think they are very important, since they do not interfere with anyone's comprehension of the points being made.)

Thanks for the correction but I looked up both words and they are both adjectives. Aren't they synonyms?

[mike carey]

Thanks for the correction but I looked up both words and they are both adjectives. Aren't they synonyms?

No, they are different. Contemptible is how you describe someone else if you hold them in contempt. Contemptuous describes your feelings for a person you think is contemptible. So, you could say, 'I am contemptuous of you, I think you are contemptible'.