So I'm asking an escort: What do you find attractive in older men?

[gallahadesquire]

I'm stealing this from a Lounge thread about older men. What do you find attractive in them?

 

I think my main attractions would be my sense of humour; my ability to tell a story (I had a psychicatrist once tell me I was a great raconteur); my willingness to listen to almost anyone for like, forever.

 

My weaknesses are my weight; my psoriasis; my mild orthopedic disabilities.

 

You can lead a whorse to water but you cannot make him think.

 

What say you?

[Honestlittlefucker]

If you are asking a escort, I guess the first thing would be too not start your text as "hey whats up" or "hey can i see your dick" at the first initiative start. The second would be, not be a cheap person.. Oh I just want a massage or half a hour whats your rate..if you treat them like a pure prostitute I am sure they find that unattractive. I think they want someone who takes them out to dinner, can hold a conversation and look at them more then just a fuck and chuck..

 

 

Honestlittlefucker

[gallahadesquire]

Since I'm the OP, I'll answer that:

 

My first two or three hires were for two hours. I then got on a bend for overnights and / or weeks. I found nothing quite so fun as going to Disneyland for a week with a hot young 'un. For now, overnights tend to be the norm, unless they can't occur.

[Mikegaite]

I'm stealing this from a Lounge thread about older men. What do you find attractive in them?

 

My genitalia. Next question, please.

[+ purplekow]

My genitalia. Next question, please.

You are a nasty nasty nasty nasty nasty nasty boy and I may have to punish you for that when we meet;.

[stop]

My genitalia. Next question, please.

 

I would have guessed your tongue

[Rudynate]

I'm stealing this from a Lounge thread about older men. What do you find attractive in them?

 

I think my main attractions would be my sense of humour; my ability to tell a story (I had a psychicatrist once tell me I was a great raconteur); my willingness to listen to almost anyone for like, forever.

 

My weaknesses are my weight; my psoriasis; my mild orthopedic disabilities.

 

You can lead a whorse to water but you cannot make him think.

 

What say you?

 

Is this even a fair question? To ask an escort what about you they are attracted to is no-win for everyone involved. You pretty much have to take the experience at face value. If I were an escort, I would pass on this question.

[mike carey]

My genitalia. Next question, please.

I'm sure you are not the only one who would find that attractive!

[WorldwideTraveler]

If you are asking a escort, I guess the first thing would be too not start your text as "hey whats up" or "hey can i see your dick" at the first initiative start. The second would be, not be a cheap person.. Oh I just want a massage or half a hour whats your rate..if you treat them like a pure prostitute I am sure they find that unattractive. I think they want someone who takes them out to dinner, can hold a conversation and look at them more then just a fuck and chuck..

 

 

Honestlittlefucker

 

+1. I've always found that to be the case. When you start to treat someone like a cheap whore that's exactly how they'll act, like a cheap whore. Be Generous. This is a high-end luxury service. Pay less and get less service. Pay more and get better service. I can care less what anyone says. If someone is charging $350 with 10+ positive reviews, a social media account with tons of pictures that they can verify, it's going to be a prime experience compared to the common crack head off back page. I always pay prime rates, and I even tip. All my boys come back, reply to my texts promptly and open the door with a smile.

[bigvalboy]

My genitalia. Next question, please.

 

That's it, you got my vote for EOY..Nest year of course, which means I will need to make sure you are worthy of the honor.

[BaronArtz]

Here is what "Muscle Stud Boy" told me. They are easier clients. They are more easily satisfied with the session. Easier to get off, in most cases. Generally more affluent, and tip better. They have lower expectations of an escort's performance. Therefore, easier and better clients. Younger guys, in their 2Os and 3Os think they are "hot". Ask for fee discounts. And are more demanding in bed. They are more work, for less pay, essentially.

 

I am not sure how common that perspective is. But on some level, it makes sense to me.

[Juan Vancouver]

I don't find anything specially attractive in older men.

 

I don't find anything specially attractive in younger men.

 

I don't find anything specially attractive in short, or tall , rich or poor, or white or black or green men. If anything, doing this work for such a long time has taught me that making generalizations will end up with me being wrong. Men, partners, for that matter, are attractive when they are themselves, relaxed, present, ready, clean, respectful, communicative, direct, vulnerable. Men are or become attractive to me for a myriad of reasons and it is always difficult to predict who or what will turn me on and for what reasons.

 

I know that perhaps it would have been in my image's best interest to come up with a meretricious answer such as: "All old men are wonderful because there is wisdom in their eyes and a rocket in their pocket" or something like that, but that would be a huge disservice to all men -old and young alike- who show up ready, fresh, respectful and open.

 

Give me a lover who understands what it takes to be intimate. Give me a lover who sees me as a lover. Give me a lover who allows me to touch him in his vulnerable places and is ready to do the same.

 

That drives me mad.

[TruthBTold]

Well, I guess I would disappoint Muscle Stud Boy. Although I may be "older" I think I have the same expectations of an escort's performance. I want to satisfy him and he satisfy me. I suppose, unless it is a young Rockefeller, I may be slightly more affluent and probably will have no hesitance in tipping if I am satisfied.

 

Give me a lover who understands what it takes to be intimate. Give me a lover who sees me as a lover. Give me a lover who allows me to touch him in his vulnerable places and is ready to do the same.

 

That drives me mad.

By your statement, I think we would get along if we met, Juan.

[LADoug1]

meretricious

 

Juan, your vocabulary knowledge is amazing. Frequently have to look up your words!!

[+ TylerandAce]

Being that I'm "more mature" myself, I think the appreciation for what we do is very attractive. There are a myriad of reasons we are hired and it's always heartening to hear a man's story about what lead him to us. There is a lot of vulnerability shared in these times and it really is an attractive quality to know that guys appreciate what we do. That part of it is a big turn on to me. Maybe it's a turn on in general, IDK. But, regardless of body type or endowment, I do like it when you find out that behind all the self-esteem issues we all have, or the fears of rejection, deep down we just want to be accepted for who we are. There is a level of attractiveness in all of that.

[down_to_business]

wallet, checkbook, bank account, stock portfolio

[+ glennnn]

Being that I'm "more mature" myself, I think the appreciation for what we do is very attractive. There are a myriad of reasons we are hired and it's always heartening to hear a man's story about what lead him to us. There is a lot of vulnerability shared in these times and it really is an attractive quality to know that guys appreciate what we do. That part of it is a big turn on to me. Maybe it's a turn on in general, IDK. But, regardless of body type or endowment, I do like it when you find out that behind all the self-esteem issues we all have, or the fears or rejection, deep down we just want to be accepted for who we are. There is a level of attractiveness in all of that.

 

 

Beautifully said. Thank you from one of the older men on the Forum. The level of acceptance I have found from the guys and gals here and from my escorts has been completely uplifting and generous, as exemplified by your gentle words. Xoxo

[Juan Vancouver]

I guess if I can learn something from what TylerandAce wrote (and some other comments in this thread) is one simple truth: What you give is always what you receive back.

[stop]

wallet, checkbook, bank account, stock portfolio

 

[Mikegaite]

No gray: no play. All gray: all day. My attraction to older men is physical, plain and simple.

 

A great escort will give 110% each and every time regardless of what a client looks like, but for the rest of us, looks do matter. I'll try to give 100 percent every time, but if I think you're hot, I'll probably try and give 110%. I try to keep an open mind about each and every person I meet or might meet, but I have preferences. I find certain clients more attractive than others, and all other things being equal, I almost invariably give better service to those whom I find more attractive. Personality plays a big part in attractiveness, but physical looks do matter to me. I'm human. I prefer older/heavier/bearish. Yes, I'm going to alienate people by stating explicit preferences, but I do prefer guard 3 or 4 facial hair, and I'm willing to publicly admit that. I'm a real person with biases just like everyone else. I have amazing times with people who are younger hairless twinks, but I'm not going to gravitate towards them when given a choice. I love to eat at different types of restaurants for the novelty and variety of the experience, but I still have certain staple restaurants I will frequent again and again.

 

I don't think of clients as commodities or seek out clients because they are more affluent, easier to get in and out the door, etc. But I am looking for people to whom I am attracted. I'm a sexual being, and I'm looking to enjoy myself sexually to the maximum extent possible when with a client.

[+ purplekow]

After reading this, decided not to shave today, if that gets you any closer.

[calrichmond]

I guess if I can learn something from what TylerandAce wrote (and some other comments in this thread) is one simple truth: What you give is always what you receive back.

I wish you'd come to the SF Bay Area so I could hire you. I think you are incredibly hot, and I love the photo of your back.

[+ Funguy]

Well, let's see:

in my 60's, a bit of gray in the hair, neatly-trimmed beard, fair amount of body hair but kept under control.

So, when do I see you?

[+ Truereview]

No gray: no play. All gray: all day. My attraction to older men is physical, plain and simple.

 

A great escort will give 110% each and every time regardless of what a client looks like, but for the rest of us, looks do matter. I'll try to give 100 percent every time, but if I think you're hot, I'll probably try and give 110%. I try to keep an open mind about each and every person I meet or might meet, but I have preferences. I find certain clients more attractive than others, and all other things being equal, I almost invariably give better service to those whom I find more attractive. Personality plays a big part in attractiveness, but physical looks do matter to me. I'm human. I prefer older/heavier/bearish. Yes, I'm going to alienate people by stating explicit preferences, but I do prefer guard 3 or 4 facial hair, and I'm willing to publicly admit that. I'm a real person with biases just like everyone else. I have amazing times with people who are younger hairless twinks, but I'm not going to gravitate towards them when given a choice. I love to eat at different types of restaurants for the novelty and variety of the experience, but I still have certain staple restaurants I will frequent again and again.

 

I don't think of clients as commodities or seek out clients because they are more affluent, easier to get in and out the door, etc. But I am looking for people to whom I am attracted. I'm a sexual being, and I'm looking to enjoy myself sexually to the maximum extent possible when with a client.

 

And that, gentlemen, is a display of having courage to be yourself and being willing to live in the grey. No mumbo jumbo. Tell it like it is. By the way, I now know, for a fact, I'm not Mike's ideal type, but I sure respect him. And that (his realness) makes him infinitely much more attractive to me than his good rep and forum glory. Fuck, actually, I feel compelled to show him a skinny, short, mostly hairless Latino with no grey can rock his world.

 

Thank you for the reality check, Mike!

[geminibear]

No gray: no play. All gray: all day. My attraction to older men is physical, plain and simple.

 

A great escort will give 110% each and every time regardless of what a client looks like, but for the rest of us, looks do matter. I'll try to give 100 percent every time, but if I think you're hot, I'll probably try and give 110%. I try to keep an open mind about each and every person I meet or might meet, but I have preferences. I find certain clients more attractive than others, and all other things being equal, I almost invariably give better service to those whom I find more attractive. Personality plays a big part in attractiveness, but physical looks do matter to me. I'm human. I prefer older/heavier/bearish. Yes, I'm going to alienate people by stating explicit preferences, but I do prefer guard 3 or 4 facial hair, and I'm willing to publicly admit that. I'm a real person with biases just like everyone else. I have amazing times with people who are younger hairless twinks, but I'm not going to gravitate towards them when given a choice. I love to eat at different types of restaurants for the novelty and variety of the experience, but I still have certain staple restaurants I will frequent again and again.

 

I don't think of clients as commodities or seek out clients because they are more affluent, easier to get in and out the door, etc. But I am looking for people to whom I am attracted. I'm a sexual being, and I'm looking to enjoy myself sexually to the maximum extent possible when with a client.

I find myself with unabashed exultation that I fit into Mr. Gaite's preferences. Don't fret Mike I have no intention of not following through with our forthcoming nuptials, even if you do find a better Oso Esposo in Los Osos.