+ honcho Posted August 6, 2017 Share Posted August 6, 2017 I had one cancelling a date because his ex boyfriend beat him up. And he sent me a selfie of his beaten face. I may still meet him in the next days. How truly *awful*. I'm grateful that you brought that insight to the discussion, but there's no way in hell that I can "like" that such things happen, nor make jokes about it. + goosh69 and LoveNDino 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kenny Posted August 6, 2017 Share Posted August 6, 2017 I had one cancelling a date because his ex boyfriend beat him up. And he sent me a selfie of his beaten face. I may still meet him in the next days. I hope he called the police. + glutes, + WilliamM and MikeBiDude 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted August 6, 2017 Share Posted August 6, 2017 The following was unsolicited: Hello, my name is Matheus, I'm 19 years old, I'm looking for people who can help me, I'd like to take a professional makeup course,The course costs R $ 1,300 off the value of materials, which in Brazil are very expensive. If you could help me by donating any value, you would make me very happy. My PayPal is - mateuspfg@hotmail.com Thank you for your attention, have a good day. If you prefer to help me by sending makeup products I can give you my shipping address ... Please do not ignore me, I need this a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SROSFanboy Posted August 7, 2017 Share Posted August 7, 2017 Well I decided to take the plunge and pay the $80 upgrade for one month's access on the site - and one thing I'm finding out now that I can message these guys back and forth is that a lot of them (most of them, actually) had no clue that it costs SD's that much to even view their messages. They think they're being rudely ignored. So that was an eye-opener. I will say, though, that the subject of money does not seem to come up easily with most of them, which I suppose, in the interest of civility and getting to know someone, is good form, but you *know* that eventually it will come up in conversation...Some of the guys do seem much less "mercenary" than others, though... MikeBiDude and + oldNbusted 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ oldNbusted Posted August 9, 2017 Share Posted August 9, 2017 Well I decided to take the plunge and pay the $80 upgrade for one month's access on the site - and one thing I'm finding out now that I can message these guys back and forth is that a lot of them (most of them, actually) had no clue that it costs SD's that much to even view their messages. They think they're being rudely ignored. So that was an eye-opener. I'll confess, I signed up for the free account months ago and deleted and blocked everyone who sent me a message or favorited me that didn't conform to what I said I was interested in. I wonder if they can tell that I did that. Not that it wouldn't be fine if they could. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SROSFanboy Posted August 9, 2017 Share Posted August 9, 2017 The big problem with upgrading to read messages, I've found, is that I'm having a hard time keeping up with the correspondence, and God knows I can't be a benefactor to all of them. I've tried to narrow it down to communicating with just a few guys that are particularly interesting to me... I keep trying to remind myself, too, that these are not professionals, and that could spell certain problems that would not exist with a professional, experienced scort. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ goosh69 Posted August 9, 2017 Share Posted August 9, 2017 I'll confess, I signed up for the free account months ago and deleted and blocked everyone who sent me a message or favorited me that didn't conform to what I said I was interested in. I wonder if they can tell that I did that. Not that it wouldn't be fine if they could. You can filter emails by traits. It cut my incoming by 90%. + oldNbusted and SROSFanboy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 Over the last few weeks I noticed a huge increase in the number of notes from guys located in Columbia. I couldn't quite figure it out - there was never allot of notes from outside the US and most came from the Philippines or Malaysia. I just saw this article and it all makes sense... sad. Venezuela crisis triggers exodus to Colombia marylander1940, + glutes, MikeBiDude and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 What usually separates the wheat from the chaff, ask them to FaceTime or Skype, or even a simple phone call... it brings the phonies to a total halt. please... they don't even have time/attention spam for a 2 mins phone call... nothing but texting and multitasking. LOL + g56whiz and + glutes 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ g56whiz Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 guys should i just be a houseboy in somewhere warm like miami or cali and just spend my days lounging around the pool in my speedo and pleasing my man, Im getting near 30, i need to settle down soon my eggs are getting scrambled Sorry Handsome but I'm relatively certain that any guy you settle down with will insist as part of the bargain the opportunity to scramble your sexy eggs further. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 We had our first conflict with my Texan Boy. And last night we had make up sex. The debate about whether or not there are young guys into older men (I am talking about 33 years of difference) is over for me. liubit, GTMike, MikeBiDude and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ PapaTony Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 We had our first conflict with my Texan Boy. And last night we had make up sex. The debate about whether or not there are young guys into older men (I am talking about 33 years of difference) is over for me. . Yep! 37 year difference between my fella and me. No question he likes older men!!! . MikeBiDude, tennisjock, GTMike and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted August 14, 2017 Share Posted August 14, 2017 We had our first conflict with my Texan Boy. And last night we had make up sex. The debate about whether or not there are young guys into older men (I am talking about 33 years of difference) is over for me. Yay! tennisjock and + José Soplanucas 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SROSFanboy Posted August 15, 2017 Share Posted August 15, 2017 Over the last few weeks I noticed a huge increase in the number of notes from guys located in Columbia. I couldn't quite figure it out - there was never allot of notes from outside the US and most came from the Philippines or Malaysia. I just saw this article and it all makes sense... sad. Venezuela crisis triggers exodus to Colombia Thanks for that - I've been bombarded by messages from Colombian guys - all wanting to come to the U.S. *and* asking for a monthly allowance... not gonna happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted August 15, 2017 Share Posted August 15, 2017 Thanks for that - I've been bombarded by messages from Colombian guys - all wanting to come to the U.S. *and* asking for a monthly allowance... not gonna happen. You aren't alone SROSF. Has SantiagoCP been one of them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanDean Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 I don't know what I'm doing wrong/right, but I'm getting no such bombardment. VERY quiet for me on SA. (That said, two very intriguing and very promising connections appear to be in early bloom.) + José Soplanucas and + PapaTony 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 I had one today that kept asking me for a 'present', even before we met. When I texted "It is time for us to move on.", he replied "To where?" + quoththeraven and + g56whiz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Good Grief Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 I had one today that kept asking me for a 'present', even before we met. When I texted "It is time for us to move on.", he replied "To where?" Maybe here?? http://l7.alamy.com/zooms/5df9bac3030d448b8351c80c8c9bec05/giftland-centre-store-old-baladiya-street-deira-dubai-united-arab-c37aek.jpg bigvalboy and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 I had one today that kept asking me for a 'present', even before we met. When I texted "It is time for us to move on.", he replied "To where?" LOL I met a new guy at Starbucks today for grins. No chemistry but I offered to pay for his Uber and he asked me for $20 more for his time. I declined. This evening another 22-year old SA guy told me he was an escort and requested $500 for an hour of his time "just as long as there's no anal or anything" and asked if that was in my budget. I assured him it was not. Kyle Clinton, + goosh69, + quoththeraven and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 (edited) Thanks for that - I've been bombarded by messages from Colombian guys - all wanting to come to the U.S. *and* asking for a monthly allowance... not gonna happen. Have you tried filtering your messages? Frankly that's never worked for me the way I think it should, but you should be able to filter out messages from outside a range of miles. Of course is a Columbian guy puts your hometown in his profile.....won't work!! I've gotten really good at just deleting *anything* overseas, and 90% of any messages from profiles more than 1000 miles from me, the rest keep me busy. Edited August 16, 2017 by MikeBiDude + goosh69 and tennisjock 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Populist Fury Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 Are those desperate Colombian/Venezuelan guys good looking at least? I'd rather help one of those poor boys out than spend money on some lazy gold-digging slut already living here in the States. + glutes and tennisjock 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigvalboy Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 (edited) than spend money on some lazy gold-digging slut already living here in the States. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/jaydaniel-in-miami.125908/ You might want to stay out of Miami then.... Edited August 16, 2017 by bigvalboy Good Grief, tennisjock, + glutes and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 My Cute One (those who have been following my SA misadventures know who he is) texted me to meet again! I though he was gone. + g56whiz, MikeBiDude and tennisjock 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SROSFanboy Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 You aren't alone SROSF. Has SantiagoCP been one of them? Yes, definitely + glutes 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted August 17, 2017 Share Posted August 17, 2017 Not from South America (yes I'm getting those too) but from our very Midwest/heartland, a "flyover" state. "Hey, I'm not going to beat around the bush out of respect of eachother's time, I am in a hard place right now. I am a little over $3,000 away from being able to move to university. It is disheartening because I have gotten as far as I could by myself, graduating top of my class, getting my associates even before graduating high school, supporting myself financially, but there is just no further I can go towards my goals, living paycheck to paycheck. I am asking for a loan, you can set the interest and even organize some notarized contracts, we can talk on the phone, get to know eachother, I can provide identification documents, etc. Or another type of arrangement of interest to you. I do crave a relationship with someone older, that can offer me guidance, but just depends on how you connect with me. I am not asking for a hand out, but for someone to get to know me and invest in me." SROSFanboy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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