Ever had this happen to you??

[BtmBearDad]

So, I had just viewed a (forum member recommended) profile on RM and when I went back to the homepage, I noticed one pic in particular and thought "that looks familiar". I opened up the profile and lo and behold, it is actually someone I know!

 

No face pics but having been with him, I can attest with certainty it is he. Of course, someone could have ripped off his photos, but the text matches with the man I know/knew.

 

I'm half tempted to pop a message to him (oh the memories of our sessions!) but don't want to embarrass him as this is probably something he is private about IRL (he was a successful finance guy, active in politics and such) and those sessions were quite a few years ago.

 

But it got me wondering, have any of you gents have ever run across someone you know IRL as an escort or a client?

[+ Truereview]

The closest I've come to that was running across a post here a few weeks back. The topic was Scruff photos. One of the photos was an ex of mine. It was weird bc I know he is partnered and thought he led a monogamous life. Shrug. The other discombobulating thing was that he looks damn hot on the photo. I'm totally staying away from contacting him - no bueno!

 

I'm looking forward to more salacious stories than mine!

[BtmBearDad]

Ha! I know what you mean about finding/seeing a friend who you have not been with like that. Through the years, I've come across a number of them on different sites/apps. Its always interesting to see that "other side" in words and pics of friends, you know? One memory though stands out -- I was at another friend's house, just having a quiet night with a few drinks and nattering away. Of course, the natter naturally turned to men and who he had been with, hooked up with, etc. (I was at the time in a relationship, so I lived vicariously thru my mate). He started telling me about this one guy and then said "oh wait! I can show you - he's sent me pics and a couple of vids" - so off to his computer and imagine my shock to see a fellow I've known since prep school! It wasn't shocking that he was gay (he came out to me in college) but seeing him like that - and the vids - wow! I didn't tell the friendI was with that I knew him and never told my friend I saw him. Though it wound up being a non-issue as a few years later, he wound up doing some porn himself so he was all over the internet in the all together anyway. Yes, he looked good then and was hot in the porn, but it was somewhat I don't know unsettling maybe seeing him in action like that. He's since retired from porn (he said it was on his bucket list to do before 45) and still looks good.

[marylander1940]

A local DC escort before moving to the States used to work at an escort's house in Spain, just like in most of Europe prostitution is legal there. The boys/working men would ring the bell 3 times and walk into the apartment through the back door, the clients would ring once, meet the manager at the front door and talked with him in his office about what kind of guy he wanted to meet: younger, older, top, bottom, etc. In the meantime the guys would get ready and introduced themselves to the would-be-client... One of them introduced himself to his own father.

[+ bashful]

OMG. That is just so......I don't know.

[Lewis H]

Wow, that father/son story is crazy.

 

I've discovered three guys I know on escorting sites. Two of them were friendly acquaintances I'd hung out with at events, only to discover their profiles (with face pics) on rentboy and rent men much later. One of them was a friend I'd actually worked with and hung out with a lot, whom I'd lusted after. I didn't confront any of them about it because I didn't want to explain what I was doing on those sites.

[Juan Vancouver]

I didn't confront any of them about it because I didn't want to explain what I was doing on those sites.

 

I am very intrigued by the choice of the word confront.

 

Why do you think you would need to confront any of them?

[+ honcho]

Several years ago I saw somebody on cam4 with a keyboard in the background and a collection of solos on the single

line instrument I play; when I asked about it, he stopped responding to me.

 

a few years later, I was asked to do a 3-person concerto, and the organizer asked while we were getting started,

if I knew the 3rd person, and remembering a line from miss manners I responded "I've heard of ****, but I don't believe we've been introduced".

 

A couple of years after that he was reviewed here on daddies.

 

A couple of years after that he retired from escorting. I still run into him in musical circles; he's quite shy and

silent under the best of circumstances, so I haven't *engaged* him about it (thinking of Juan's response above).

 

There are 3 other musical acquaintances of mine that have been reviewed here on Daddies, (2 retired, 1 only doing

strictly therapeutic massage).

 

One of the retired ones I first met as an early hire, and subsequently encountered him musically.

(He's a very fine violinist. And by coincidence, was the college roommate of another musician-friend of mine).

[+ purplekow]

I hired an escort through a service and the escort was someone I knew. I did not know he was escorting and he was married and he is still very much female-centric though he enjoys a good hard cock. We did not immediately recognize each other, but before we had any interaction, we realized that we did indeed know each other. After a bit of discussion, we decided to go on with the meeting.

[+ poolboy48220]

There've been a few occasions where, after I've met up with an escort, I'll see him in a social setting. One or two turned into fuck buddies after. There's only one where I've seen a guy socially and later ended up having him show up at my door for a hire.

[MscleLovr]

I recently introduced by a friend to a New York photographer. He's attractive and my friend thought we might like each other.

 

I smiled and said nothing about how the guy had thickened out and no longer was the beautiful, ripped muscleboy that had been a wild bottom in my bed in LA several times about 8 years ago.

 

To my surprise, the photographer told me privately that he was still escorting but off-the-radar. I didn't renew our acquaintance.

[curiousnomore]

An Escort told me about getting a message on his ad, and during the setup phase, he realized he went to high school with the guy. It was a really funny story btw.

[Lewis H]

I am very intrigued by the choice of the word confront.

 

Why do you think you would need to confront any of them?

 

Poor choice of word, in retrospect. Apologies.

[Lug]

An escort told me that he once had a session and afterward both parties realized they were cousins.

[Rudynate]

I am very intrigued by the choice of the word confront.

 

Why do you think you would need to confront any of them?

 

 

It's all that sex-negative baggage talking, that people don't even know they have. I have a friend of long-standing (30+ years) from whom I've distanced myself because, as he's gotten older, he's turned into such a nasty, disapproving old lady.

[Lewis H]

It's all that sex-negative baggage talking, that people don't even know they have.

 

I think you're right. And if Juan didn't point it out, I wouldn't have realized. So thanks, and again, my apologies.

[+ Truereview]

It's all that sex-negative baggage talking, that people don't even know they have. I have a friend of long-standing (30+ years) from whom I've distanced myself because, as he's gotten older, he's turned into such a nasty, disapproving old lady.

maybe he has just turned out to be a nasty, disapproving man? I do find that people who nag and are nasty or get bent out of shape bc they don't agree with something have severe problems regardless of age or gender.

[Rudynate]

maybe he has just turned out to be a nasty, disapproving man? I do find that people who nag and are nasty or get bent out of shape bc they don't agree with something have severe problems regardless of age or gender.

 

It's a difficult circumstance with him. He has fairly severe lipodystrophy from anti-virals and feels very unattractive because of it and pretty much has given up on sex. But it seems that he thinks that because he's not getting laid, nobody else should either.

[+ Charlie]

Years ago, another regular poster here asked a question about an escort. The site was set up somewhat differently in those days: if we didn't want to use the internal PM system, we could email other members directly, which I did. My email address happened to identify me by my real name, and he responded, "I used to work at X with someone named XX. Was that you?" It was. We had lost track of one another back before the personal computer was invented.

 

If he sees this post, he will probably respond, "That was me!"

[+ Truereview]

It's a difficult circumstance with him. He has fairly severe lipodystrophy from anti-virals and feels very unattractive because of it and pretty much has given up on sex. But it seems that he thinks that because he's not getting laid, nobody else should either.

Well, that makes me wonder whether his nastiness and disapproving nature may be more connected to his condition than his age?

[Rudynate]

Well, that makes me wonder whether his nastiness and disapproving nature may be more connected to his condition than his age?

 

You're right of course. Realizing that doesn't make him any more fun to be around. He's very sour and disapproving.

[Irtwo]

Honcho's post really intrigued me. It seems there's a whole double life going on with concert musicians.

[Wolfer]

Honcho's post really intrigued me. It seems there's a whole double life going on with concert musicians.

As seen in "American Pie"

[jackjackjack]

An escort told me that he once had a session and afterward both parties realized they were cousins.

 

I guess... Kissin' cousins

[sincitymix]

I guess... Kissin cousins

 

No, but I have a cousin who is a total hot stud 6'3" dark blond hair, blue-green eyes muscled farmers body and tan frat jock look.. I would seriously consider doing very naughty stuff with him. (don't judge:P if you saw him youd understand:P )