dealing with questions from clients about how many other clients you see?

[Mikegaite]

Thanks for the replies. I get asked this question fairly often in various forms for whatever reason.

[+ purplekow]

I have considered this question but have never asked it. The reason for not asking was, I really did not want to know and it would likely have killed the mood. If asked, I see nothing wrong with answering honestly, but I would simply say: Why do ask?

I did an overnight with an escort and after some morning fun and a shower, I was slowly getting dressed and felt a bit energetic once again. I asked the escort if he was expecting someone soon and he was a bit abrupt with his response. I was looking to hire him for another hour, turns out I never hired him again. If he had been polite about it, I would have known, would have told him of my desire and perhaps would have made an appointment for after lunch or even later in the day.

[+ honcho]

I asked him this question, he hugged me tighter, kissed me, stayed quiet for a second, looked me in the eye and said: to me it doesn't matter what # you are, it also doesn't matter what # I am to you. What matters to me is what we make of this moment. Do you still really want to know?

 

I'm not really fishing for confirmation, but I gotta say, that sounds just like something Juan Vancouver would say (and I mean that totally respectfully).

[MiamiLooker]

If asked, I see nothing wrong with answering honestly, but I would simply say: Why do ask?

+1

There are many reasons a client might ask this. The escort should try to understand the reason for the question before jumping to any conclusion.

[down_to_business]

We all get asked many questions we don't like. I can't tell you how many questions I get asked by escorts that I don't appreciate. How you respond will likely mean more than the answer you give.

 

Personally, I would prefer a honest answer to a lie, even if that answer is that is not a subject I feel comfortable discussing or something along those lines. Probably a little less likeable would be I don't think that is any of your business (even if it was the truth).

 

I guess you could also try flattery, like how could I possibly remember anyone else when I am with you or the truth.. your number 17 for the day

[BaronArtz]

I never asked how many. But one time, to an escort I knew really well and had seen for a long time, I asked how much money he made from escorting during the last 12 months. He told me. I believe 100% that he was telling the truth. I was shocked how much it was. And then I did the math because I knew his hourly fee obviously. I got to say, I was astonished and wish I never asked that question.

[TruHart1]

I never asked how many. But one time, to an escort I knew really well and had seen for a long time, I asked how much money he made from escorting during the last 12 months. He told me. I believe 100% that he was telling the truth. I was shocked how much it was. And then I did the math because I knew his hourly fee obviously. I got to say, I was astonished and wish I never asked that question.

I asked one escort how successful he was in a certain city. His answer was very, very successful, voluntarily including the number of clients he'd seen in that city in a few days. What hit me the most was that he has to have the most amazing stamina to be able to satisfy so many guys, including cumming himself during most of his appointments!

 

TruHart1

[wklucas]

Answer a question with a question:

 

Am I your first or second escort today?

 

An escort I was seeing once in Dallas in the evening seemed to get really excited when he learned that another really well-known & HOT escort had been in the same bed with me (& fucking the same ass - mine) earlier on that same day......& for the record, probably / maybe the only time I've ever seen / hired 2 different guys separately on the same day / same nite.....then the 2nd escort also began telling me all kinds of "inappropriate" (somewhat confidential) things about the 1st guy.....be careful out there men......& for the record, the 2nd guy was indeed hot, just not as all-around hot as the 1st guy.....& also for the record, this was "awhile" ago.

[Becket]

If one is asking from the standpoint of attention and energy level, I've asked before to be first on the surgeon's (or a massage therapist) schedule so as to increase the chances he/she will be on top of his/her game.

 

If one is asking just to be nosy, or has some hidden agenda underneath the question, then no. That client can go butt a stump. cheers

[aaronpierce]

Weather asked or unasked, this question seems to bounce around the heads of many clients.

It's one of those questions that seems to be benign when unspoken, but when it's spoken only then do they realize the uncomfortable spot they have just put me in.

My stock answer is, "A gentlemen doesn't kiss and tell". Then I kiss them...

[+ azdr0710]

I haven't asked, "What number am I?", but have asked: "Do you have another appointment soon?" only so I could know whether to quickly get out or if I could hang around for another few minutes....and, being the totally cool nice guy that I am, I've asked a dude if he has a later appointment at which the client will want that escort to get off (inquiring if he'd do it for me, he said yes he did have a later guy, and I graciously allowed him to hold off!)

 

EDIT to add that the escort who wanted to hold off is a very good guy and I wanted to remain in good favor with him for next time!

[geminibear]

I haven't asked, "What number am I?", but have asked: "Do you have another appointment soon?" only so I could know whether to quickly get out or if I could hang around for another few minutes....and, being the totally cool nice guy that I am, I've asked a dude if he has a later appointment at which the client will want that escort to get off (inquiring if he'd do it for me, he said yes he did have a later guy, and I graciously allowed him to hold off!)

Wow your a true gentleman my brother. A saint among sinners.

[geminibear]

EDIT to add that the escort who wanted to hold off is a very good guy and I wanted to remain in good favor with him for next time!

 

so the plot thickens.

[Edward]

I would never ask a escort how many clients he has been with. However, most of us guys are only able to shoot it two or three times a day. How ever I have met guys that can cum 5 or six times a day. I guess I am not satisfied if the escort does not have a woody and cum. That being said, I believe that to many escorts over book and are not able to preform. I also understand that many clients are not concerned weather an escorts cums or not. I just hope when I hire an escort he is able to preform. I have hired those guys that had a limp noodle. It was not what I was expecting. I have had a couple tell me that they are not a machine and cant cum many time. Makes me feel like I have been taken an advantage of.

[seaboy4hire]

I wonder if many guys book multiple appts to cover anyone that might cancel?

 

Hugs,

Greg

[marylander1940]

I would never ask a escort how many clients he has been with.

 

Me neither, specially when there's no way for me to know if he tells me truth or not.

 

However, most of us guys are only able to shoot it two or three times a day. How ever I have met guys that can cum 5 or six times a day.

 

I had a bf who was able to cum inside the condom (some guys can't cum in the condom) keep fucking me and cum again... yes! Hard to believe! Usually young guys are able to cum 2 o 3 times per day if inspired. I'm 75 and I could come once a day but before turning 50 I was able to cum twice for sure. I don't know how old you're, Edward.

 

I guess I am not satisfied if the escort does not have a woody and cum. That being said, I believe that to many escorts over book and are not able to preform. I also understand that many clients are not concerned weather an escorts cums or not. I just hope when I hire an escort he is able to preform. I have hired those guys that had a limp noodle. It was not what I was expecting. I have had a couple tell me that they are not a machine and cant cum many time. Makes me feel like I have been taken an advantage of.

 

It's true they aren't machines and they can't cum anytime, besides Viagra does slow down the cum shot and it's prescribed by some doctors as a way to make the guy last longer.

 

I wouldn't be satisfied if he doesn't get a woody but when it comes to making him cum I wouldn't force to do it because I don't wan to feel I just hired a slave for an hour.

[coriolis888]

I agree it is none of my business, as a client. I just don't want to confronted with other clients either before or after an appointment. I had an escort get on the phone with someone at the 55th minute of a one hour appointment and ask the next client to wait on the street. Or I have crossed gentlemen of a certain age in the hallway before an appointment. I found that to be a mood killer. It IS none of my business, but be a bit discreet about it when you are scheduling back to back. You are selling an illusion, after all.

 

 

Ah, by far the best answer.

 

It is an illusion.

 

If we think we are just part of a daily caravan of clients, the illusion quickly disappears.

[+ Truereview]

I'm not really fishing for confirmation, but I gotta say, that sounds just like something Juan Vancouver would say (and I mean that totally respectfully).

Knowing what a gent you are, honcho, I know you are not fishing. For the record, I don't know Juan Vancouver.

[+ DickyF]

If the client wants the BFE then asking that question could ruin it. If it's that important to the client he should book for the whole day or come up with some agreement with the escort.

If an escort is staying in a hotel then he probably need to recoup that cost plus make his income. So that can imply multiple clients per day.

I should add that I'm very curious about the job of an escort like how much $, how many clients, what are the drawbacks etc. It sounds like it can wildly vary.

[Rudynate]

I should add that I'm very curious about the job of an escort like how much $, how many clients, what are the drawbacks etc. It sounds like it can wildly vary.

 

I'm also very curious about the hard facts and would like to know sometime. One guy is beginning to feel like an old friend, so I may ask him sometime.