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So, you are alone with a man... naked. You are making out..... and you kiss. It heats up, and somebody rims somebody. Now, somebody wants another kiss..... Really? Kiss the mouth that just ate ass?

 

In porn this is no problem. What about in reality? What is the proper etiquette in this situation? Do all kissing pre-rimming? Too rigid. Always begin the session with a shower? Possible. Get up and gargle? Interrupting. No more kissing? Hell no!

 

What do you guys do? (This scenario assumes the aforementioned rimming has been discussed and approved.) I feel, that is, I hope I will be facing this point of politesse soon. Help.

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Ahhh... You didn't do the proper cleansing ritual beforehand; If it isn't clean enough to kiss, it isn't clean enough to lick. (That one's going into the "Daddy Sayings" file!)

 

Yes! Very interesting! Tell me more. How do we both know it really IS clean ENOUGH to kiss and lick? Cleaning each other in the shower could be good, or an au naturel swim in a convenient pool. Failing that, what is the "proper cleansing ritual beforehand"? By the way, this is probably surface rimming, not DEEP rimming.

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I been tempted to wash the area down with some sort of serviette, and pat dry.

It might leave a light aftertaste, but perhaps that is better than some dingleberry being caught in that little gap between my front teeth.

 

I know I have problems keeping clean down there, and do not feel I am in the minority. It is not for lack of training or of trying; it's my IBS as I go to an appointment.

Would a Hire find it odd / off putting that I'd like to do my own "cleanse" down there before we start the festivities?

 

Enquiring minds want to know.

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Are you actually old enough be be here?

 

Born in 1942, so probably too old to be here. If you are suggesting I am naive and or inexperienced, yes. There is so much I don't know, because I was young during the 50's thru 80's when desiring men was worse than murder. So I just didnt. Honestly, I'm just trying to find a little, or a lot, of satisfaction in the time I have left.

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Both guys have to be clean as whistles. Escorts know to take care of these things, so they are almost always squeaky clean "down there." And if you want the full Monty, you will make sure you are clean "down there" too. It's no fun to interrupt the flow for touch-ups and clean-ups.

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Born in 1942, so probably too old to be here. If you are suggesting I am naive and or inexperienced, yes. There is so much I don't know, because I was young during the 50's thru 80's when desiring men was worse than murder. So I just didnt. Honestly, I'm just trying to find a little, or a lot, of satisfaction in the time I have left.

 

No problem. Your question just sounded like an excited teenager trying to "get something". (Or another profile we face on here, but that's a different discussion.)

 

Rule #1: if it feels good do it. If it doesn't, then don't.

Rule #2: If it tastes good, do more of it. If it doesn't taste good, then DO NOT DO IT.

 

Layer on the standard caveats about safer sex and self-protection, and then go out and have yourself a righteous good time.

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Rule #2: If it tastes good, do more of it. If it doesn't taste good, then DO NOT DO IT.

Rule #2: If it tastes good, do more of it. If it doesn't taste good, put it in the shower and wash it! (Cherry Flavored Body Wash Recommended)

 

No problem. Your question just sounded like an excited teenager trying to "get something". (Or another profile we face on here, but that's a different discussion.)

 

Rule #1: if it feels good do it. If it doesn't, then don't.

Rule #2: If it tastes good, do more of it. If it doesn't taste good, then DO NOT DO IT.

 

Layer on the standard caveats about safer sex and self-protection, and then go out and have yourself a righteous good time.

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No problem. Your question just sounded like an excited teenager trying to "get something". (Or another profile we face on here, but that's a different discussion.)

 

Rule #1: if it feels good do it. If it doesn't, then don't.

Rule #2: If it tastes good, do more of it. If it doesn't taste good, then DO NOT DO IT.

 

Layer on the standard caveats about safer sex and self-protection, and then go out and have yourself a righteous good time.

 

I'll take the "excited teenager" as a compliment on my enthusiasm and innocence and not a remark about my vocabulary. LOL

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I've never really liked or been interested in rimming. Even when watching porn I'd skip the rimming part.

I was recently with a guy who absolutely loved rimming and said he was chomping at the bit to rim me (I took that as a compliment on my butt ;) ).

While it was enjoyable, I did ask him to rince his mouth before kissing me... Hahaha, thinking about it afterwards it does seem silly to ask that but the guy was very accomodating about it and didn't judge.

 

I was at a social gathering of an LGBT group a few years ago and the subject of rimming came up. I was quite surprised to see that only one or two guys enjoyed rimming. The rest said it wasn't their thing. And, I must admit, mine either.

 

Basically, this is how I feel when a guy has rimmed me and wants to kiss me:

 

These are straight people and it's a blowjob, but the (quite funny) reactions would be the same.

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Both guys have to be clean as whistles. Escorts know to take care of these things, so they are almost always squeaky clean "down there." And if you want the full Monty, you will make sure you are clean "down there" too. It's no fun to interrupt the flow for touch-ups and clean-ups.

 

Before I started hiring, I was never attracted to the idea of rimming in any way. With most of my everyday guy hook-ups back then, and especially with the married guys I met through the old AOL M4M chat rooms, I wouldn't go near it because their asses smelled like, well, like ass! LOL!:p I always felt that rimming had to be disgusting whenever I would read about it as a gay sexual act!:eek:

 

So there I was having my first hiring experience (with a really fine escort, BTW!) and after trying to deep throat for a while I moved down for some tea-bagging and found my tongue slipping on down sort of naturally. He was so squeaky clean, I found I absolutely loved rimming him. Since that very first experience with an escort, I have always found rimming an utterly hot turn on for me, usually to the point of making me cum much faster!:):);)

 

Clean mouth to clean ass/clean ass to clean mouth, fantastic! Super clean is the key! Only one guy has ever advised me that if I wanted to rim him, I would be welcome to do so, but our kissing would have to come to an end for that session. Now HE is such an exciting kisser in the French manner that I continued enjoying our mouth to mouth play rather than moving to the back! :D

 

Just one client's personal experience and Humble Opinion!

 

TruHart1 :cool:

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I perceive it to be an acquired "taste". For me, it is totally OFF the table.

Ditto. Funny story: Once at the bondage club in NYC I told a guy that I really wanted to BEAT his ass. He misunderstood thinking that I wanted to EAT his ass. He drags me to a dark corner of the club where I can't see what the frig I'm doing and then it dawned on me what he thought I had said. Well English was not his first language!

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