What do you look for in an escort?

[+ sync]

I can't play. For me it's the "it" factor, and "it" can come from anywhere.

[Andy2]

Chris W., thanks for starting this interesting thread. Unicorn, thanks for the hot photos.

 

Do you like short hair? Long hair? Bald? Long hair +++, Normal hair also +

 

Do you like a body builder or jock or a twink or a bear? Jock +++, Swimmer +++, Bodybuilder ++

 

Do you have a preference on eye and hair color? No

 

How important is dick size? Not very

 

How important is body hair or the lack of? Not very

 

Are there any other physical criteria I missed when picking an escort? You have left out some of the most important features for many guys, including me: (1) Great Smile and Hygienic Mouth +++, Poor Hygiene is a deal killer for me. (2) Eyes that Sparkle with Intelligence +++ (perhaps the biggest turn-on). (3) Bubble or Muscle Butt, which is + for me and is much bigger attraction or turn off for others I bet.

[ZhenXBear]

Do you like short hair? Long hair? Bald?

 

Do you like a body builder or jock or a twink or a bear?

 

Do you have a preference on eye and hair color?

 

How important is dick size?

 

How important is body hair or the lack of?

 

Are there any other physical criteria I missed when picking an escort?

 

I often wonder if there is a type that clients go for more than any other and have been pondering these questions for a while.

 

• Jock to twink, and everywhere in between, but not bone skinny; toned is better.
  
• Eye Color: All colours are beautiful, but green, hazel, and blue captivate me. Hair Color: Not really picky here. Short to medium length. Faux hawks styles are hot to me! Dark browns and true blonds (not dyed) can make me do a double-look at times
  
• Dick Size: Not overly important, more important he knows what to do with it!
  
• Body Hair: Prefer smooth to slightly hairy guys. Some hair, especially a treasure trail can be...exciting.
  
• Others: His smile and his voice!
  
• Non Physical: Depth of character, heart, spirit, ability to establish an emotional bond
  

[+ Topseed]

Jock body. Under 35 years old. Smooth chest. No ink (or very little). Under 6 feet in height. Killer ass. Great bottoming skills and eager to display them.

[thickornotatall]

http://image.blingee.com/images19/content/output/000/000/000/7a3/781670061_1513299.gifI like regular looking men ...must be clean..nice...dd/free...fairly intelligent...body hair...NO SHAVE/WAXED...or overly muscled....and a really big dick...

[BaronArtz]

Interesting thread. I don't look for anything in particular. There has to be an immediate 'spark' when I see his ad (or in the old days, see him in person at a hook up bar in NY). The spark can be anything from a captivating smile, great posture, well developed shoulders, great legs, a well-written ad ... it can be anything really. But it has to be there. No spark = no hire. I have hired Asian, Latino, Black and Caucasian escorts and masseurs. I appreciate all types of men. Thinking about it some more, the masseurs tended to be more beefy/hairy/bear and the escorts tended to be guys with good muscle definition. I have rarely, if ever, hired twinks or feminine guys. And I have never hired transsexual escorts.

 

Once I am comfortable with someone and there is a good rapport, I tend to give him a lot of repeat business. There are two masseurs that I have been seeing for 5+ years and I regularly see one escort. I am happy with this situation and currently not 'in the market' to find somebody new.

 

This website and www.muscleservice.com have been a great source of leads. There are two clients on this site whom I have met personally. Both gentlemen have been generous with their advice, which was always spot-on. The advice and the referrals by people whom I have met, and who know me, is the most valuable source of leads to me. In the end, it really is a people business!

[MiamiLooker]

Once I am comfortable with someone and there is a good rapport, I tend to give him a lot of repeat business.

+1

[Guest ChrisW]

http://listabuzz.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/blue-eyes2.jpg

 

So you like jailbait ;-)

[Rudynate]

Do you like short hair? Long hair? Bald? short hair/bald

 

Do you like a body builder or jock or a twink or a bear? bodybuilder/jock, but I also like musclebears with guts. My favorite build is tall and lean with long limbs.

 

Do you have a preference on eye and hair color? Any hair or eyes, but have a special preference for S and P hair and blue eyes.

 

How important is dick size? I have moods, when I'm in an ass mood, dick size is hardly relevant. When I'm in a dick mood, I like 7+.

 

How important is body hair or the lack of? Love body hair - It would be hard for a guy to be too hairy for me. But I like smooth men too, natural or shaved.

 

Are there any other physical criteria I missed when picking an escort? Facial features: I like big noses, big ears. Also like long narrow feet with long toes and high arches, largish hands, prominent veins. I like bubble butts or big powerful muscle butts.

 

I often wonder if there is a type that clients go for more than any other and have been pondering these questions for a while.

[+ Charlie]

I have never had one particular type, so you would be hard-pressed to find a "typical" escort among my hires, or among the men I have had sex with over the past 55 years. One day I might want someone 6'8", the next time someone 5'3". Really ripped and vascular body type is hot, but bulky or slender can be, too. Race is unimportant, hair color is unimportant, length of hair is unimportant (shaved or bald is fine, too), even age is generally unimportant, though I usually prefer somewhere between 25 and 65. Dick size is usually the last thing I notice, and although a really big one impresses me, the more important factor is whether I can handle it comfortably. I do like plenty of body hair; smoothness is fine if it is natural, but I don't care for someone who is shaved or waxed, and as I have noted in a current thread, tattoos can be a turn-off for me.

 

What turns me on depends on my mood at the moment, which is pretty unpredictable. Probably what matters most is whether there is something undefinable about the image that turns me on, and makes me want to do something with that particular individual, no matter what his physical characteristics are. (And that undefinable something may not actually exist, but only be something that I am projecting onto him.)

 

By the way, Chris, you are HOT just as you are, so don't try to use these suggestions as a template for creating a new image.

[Guest ChrisW]

I figure I will fill this out to since all the cool kids are doing it

 

Do you like short hair? Long hair? Bald? I like bald men or short hair

 

Do you like a body builder or jock or a twink or a bear? I like some meat and muscle on a guy so I guess that qualifies as bear or muscle bear?

 

Do you have a preference on eye and hair color? I rarely notice eye color and I don't really care about hair color

 

How important is dick size? A hand is just as good but you didn't hear that from me...

 

How important is body hair or the lack of? I like a guy covered in fur

 

here are some pics of men that make me weak in the knees

http://40.media.tumblr.com/9af02f7244a5d6564842baf4977ada9e/tumblr_nj642d6TOI1sgpf15o1_500.jpg

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3uwld9bIt1rvq9duo1_1280.jpg

[Rudynate]

 

Neanderthals, huh?

[ZhenXBear]

http://listabuzz.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/blue-eyes2.jpg

 

 

So you like jailbait ;-)

 

 

[Rod Hagen]

Are there any other physical criteria I missed when picking an escort? well some physical and some not so physical, but strong preferences for roughly age 26, approximately 6" tall, advertises with (reasonable) rates and a face picture (no ask me/call crap), top or versatile top, likes and interests filled out that includes kissing, at least one shirtless picture that also shows his face.

 

I never knew that some people were turned off by having to reach out to an escort in order to get a face photo. This is not a criticism, I'm just really surprised. That never occurred to me. Now I know that for 16 years men, perhaps initially keen on my ad, said "Ask for face photo? Fuck that. Next." Oh no! lol

[down_to_business]

So you like jailbait ;-)

 

Daniel Radcliffe was born in 1989 (age 25).

[down_to_business]

I never knew that some people were turned off by having to reach out to an escort in order to get a face photo. This is not a criticism, I'm just really surprised. That never occurred to me. Now I know that for 16 years men, perhaps initially keen on my ad, said "Ask for face photo? Fuck that. Next." Oh no! lol

 

Seriously, WTF do I know. But I have been hiring for decades and sick of the shit I have gotten in the past when inquiring about face pics and rates- that's why I don't bother. I don't think its unreasonable how you do it, and you definitely shouldn't worry about what I think-- I'm more than likely the exception and not the rule. besides- as someone else pointed out- Im into liliputins, not knowing the difference between 6' and 6"

 

Some examples:

You send your face pic first.

I need to be discreet

And my favorite from Las Vegas escort Blaze: I don't need some desperate old balding fat fuck asking me for my pictures.

[Guest ChrisW]

Neanderthals, huh?

I like a guy to look like a gorilla ^_^

[Rudynate]

I like a guy to look like a gorilla ^_^

 

 

I like 'em very hairy, but I prefer that their hands clear the floor.

[+ WilliamM]

And my favorite from Las Vegas escort Blaze: I don't need some desperate old balding fat fuck asking me for my pictures.

 

I have been there on requests from escorts. With me, it was an escort from Miami. He wanted a face picture, the name of the hotel where I was staying and the length of my stay. Once I satified those requests, I expected a request for my income returns for the last five years. Something happened and had to cancel. Too bad I would have enjoyed meeting him, and asking a number of question before initiate the 'date.'

[tyro]

Well, once again, here comes the Odd Girl Out:

I give no fucks about any of the criteria offered. I have no "type." The escort I look for is just a wonderful man. An earlier poster called this having the "it" factor. I can think of no other label, so I'll stick with his. An escort either has it for me, or he doesn't. A date/potential partner either has this for me, or he doesn't. Period.

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[BaronArtz]

I like a guy to look like a gorilla ^_^

 

THAT is obvious ...

[gilbert]

Oh a survey! I love surveys!

Do you like short hair? Long hair? Bald? Short hair or long hair.

 

Do you like a body builder or jock or a twink or a bear? The twink would have to have a decent body. The body builder can't be too big. The jock would have to have a good physique. My favorite is the cute boy next door with a good physique.

 

Do you have a preference on eye and hair color? No, but I've recently discovered that dark haired guys with awesome eyes are real attractive to me.

 

How important is dick size? It's not

 

How important is body hair or the lack of? I don't like body hair, including facial hair.

 

Are there any other physical criteria I missed when picking an escort? What about height? What about face? Almost any height is okay for me. Though too short and too tall could be an issue with me. Facially, the rugged and the handsome guys don't do too much for me. The youthful, boy next door type really appeals to me.

 

Let's add personality to this. I like the guy who wants to be all over me....holding, hugging, kissing, massaging. He needs to have a good sense of humor, and cockiness can be kind of a turn on. he should be considerate and patient. And I love someone who can carry on a conversation. The best conversation I've ever had with an escort was with Jockbrad or is it Bradjock out of Columbus. I felt so comfortable talking to him. I think we mainly talked about hot guys, and that's something I almost never get to do. Is cleanliness a part of personality? My escort MUST BE CLEAN.....especially the breath. nothing turns me off as fast as bad breath.

[Decatur Guy]

I don't care about any of those things, when it comes right down to it. I seek masculinity, confidence, intelligence and directness. My only physical requirement is some degree of fitness. But even that can range from lean 'n' tight to muscular ox.

 

A very random sampling of some escorts I've hired and enjoyed, and they look quite differently from each other:

 

J.D. Daniels

Nate Bruno

Tom Isern

Carlo (D.C.)

Andrew Justice

Sean Xavier

Ricardo Milos

Miles Previtire

 

Physically, there's little that ties that group together. I tend not to go for the twink-type, but I'd even make exceptions there for the right guy. Beyond that, it's pretty wide open. I like escorts who show promise of being sexually adventurous and aggressive but sane and safe, too. If I can get that, fuck the hair length and all that.

[JDXXX]

I don't care about any of those things, when it comes right down to it. I seek masculinity, confidence, intelligence and directness. My only physical requirement is some degree of fitness. But even that can range from lean 'n' tight to muscular ox.

 

A very random sampling of some escorts I've hired and enjoyed, and they look quite differently from each other:

 

J.D. Daniels

Nate Bruno

Tom Isern

Carlo (D.C.)

Andrew Justice

Sean Xavier

Ricardo Milos

Miles Previtire

 

Physically, there's little that ties that group together. I tend not to go for the twink-type, but I'd even make exceptions there for the right guy. Beyond that, it's pretty wide open. I like escorts who show promise of being sexually adventurous and aggressive but sane and safe, too. If I can get that, fuck the hair length and all that.

 

Awesome post, Decatur as I enjoy you as well. Always have, Always will. . You're not only a client, but also one who's a kind friend with a lot of beautiful qualities as I appreciate you as a friend, and you're support business wise as well as we do have amazing adventures and interactions together. Just want you know how much I appreciate you, and want to Thank you for adding me to you're "Special" list of escorts you've enjoyed. Very sweet of you - Thank you.

 

Stay sweet, my friend, and looking forward to seeing more of you soon. . .

[+ FreshFluff]

While I wait to fall asleep: Can we answer regarding men in general?

 

Do you like short hair? Long hair? Bald? Must be short. Balding is fine but prefer non-shaved.

 

Do you like a body builder or jock or a twink or a bear? Dad bod. Seriously, anything except a body builder or a skinny type. Should be at least 1.5x my weight.

Do you have a preference on eye and hair color? Dark hair and dark eyes, with some salt and pepper on the temples or all over. There's something fetching about a pair of intelligent, intense brown eyes.

How important is dick size? Not important as long as it's not tiny (like 4") or huge, and as long as he's confident about it.

How important is body hair or the lack of? I like a furry chest, preferably with some salt and pepper.

 

Are there any other physical criteria I missed when picking an escort? Glasses. They make the guy look intelligent and cool when they're on and a little vulnerable when they're removed. But the LASIK boon has been terrible for those of us with this fetish..