When and escort gets greedy

[liubit]

Although I enjoy seeing the escort cum, and sometimes even swallowing his cum, I would take Bart's option B with no hesitation....The cumshot is like the cherry on the cake, but I much prefer having the cake than just the cherry

[+ purplekow]

Although I enjoy seeing the escort cum, and sometimes even swallowing his cum, I would take Bart's option B with no hesitation....The cumshot is like the cherry on the cake, but I much prefer having the cake than just the cherry

Do escorts even have cherries? All the ones I have seen lost it years ago.

[sincitymix]

an escort has to cum when I hire. I could care less if I cum during a session, but I get more pleasure when the other guy cums. I hate it when an escort says yes they will cum, then 1/2 way in they say.. sorry I cant, for whatever reason,

[instudiocity]

Ding. Questions don't excite me. Moans and groans (real ones) excite me.

Fuck YEAH!

[+ Keith30309]

Cumming isn't a must-have for me but it is a very-nice-to-have, especially if I've managed to impart pleasure to him as part of a mutually enjoyable encounter. I once had a nice session with a guy who told me after our 2 hours that he differentiated his professional relationships from personal ones by never cumming with a client. Mkay - would have been nice to have known before I got cramps in my jaw muscles but not a deal-breaker; I like to think he enjoyed himself anyway - I know I did.

 

As to looks vs. reviews, I look at both. If the looks aren't there (e.g., a blanket of prison gang tats across his torso) then I don't even move on to the review-vetting step. If the reviews are dicey then I avoid. If he's unreviewed then I'll contact him and get a sense of the vibe, describing what I like and gauging the likelihood of us developing some chemistry.

 

For me, a sweet disposition and smoldering sensuality trumps drop-dead gorgeous every time.

[+ Robster]

an escort has to cum when I hire. I could care less if I cum during a session, but I get more pleasure when the other guy cums.

I'm exactly the opposite. I know it makes me a selfish prick, but I get more pleasure when I cum.

 

Rob

[sincitymix]

I'm exactly the opposite. I know it makes me a selfish prick, but I get more pleasure when I cum.

 

Rob

 

Put you and me together, and its a win win

[+ Robster]

Put you and me together, and its a win win

I like the way you think.

 

Rob

[marylander1940]

Sometimes being told he has to makes it a stressful appointment which doesn't help that happen. I recall a client who had this requirement and I told him if he just keeps it to himself chances are it will happen naturally. But he wasn't satisfied with that. He brought it up to the model, who then in turn, became anxious about it. A model that this had never been a problem for... He explained to the client that him continually saying, "are you going to cum" wasn't helping matters. Think on his feet, the model suggested the client top him, as that stimulated him. The client agreed and the escort then started saying, "are you gonna get hard? why aren't you hard yet? is something wrong? why can't you get hard?" the client then understood its best to just let things happen.

 

Pressure works on many things... except sex.

 

To my knowledge Lincoln ended slavery a long time ago.

 

We (clients) know it's a business, escorts know it too, the secret is to make it feel that is not a business.

[UconnFlyer]

Like some others, seeing an escort cum is a definite nice to have, but not a deal breaker. I do think it is extremely hot to see an escort cum, but I would never pressure an escort into cumming. Nor hold it against them if they don't.

 

I did have one experience where I started orally pleasuring an escort and after only maybe 2 minutes, he all of the sudden pulled away from me and just sprayed a huge load all over the floor. It was super hot and I was totally turned on even though we were still early in our appointment. He seemed a little stunned by how fast he came and apologized, but I told him not to worry. He eventually took care of me too, but I still think the hottest part was hearing his load splatter all over the wooden floor.

[LookingAround]

a popular, now retired, escort once told me his policy is no cumshot except on overnight$...no exception$.....

 

He told me that too. The guy from sf right?

[+ azdr0710]

He told me that too. The guy from sf right?

 

 

no.... it was DrMikefromCT.....

[+ WhamIAm]

For me, nothing is sexier than watching my partner shoot and being able to both look into his eyes and see his dick. I'll tell guys I hire that when we're making arrangements beforehand. OTOH, I don't know that you can really bank on a promise beforehand. The dude is a human being, not a trained seal. Or, am I being naive?

 

In any event, I'd much rather have the guy tell me it's not gonna happen once our focus turns to getting him off. Faking it while you're banging me, then flushing/throwing away/hiding the condom is a total turn-off for the rest of the session. And, yeah, I think almost all of us can tell, even without checking out the rubber. Pretty much guarantees no gratuity and no rehire.

 

And, yeah, I agree the guy's schedule has a lot to do with it. Funny, I kinda got smacked around on this forum by both a couple of escorts and a couple of clients for asking generally how many appointments an escort will schedule in a day. The thinking of those guys is that that was the escort's business and I really had no right to know. I disagree in that I think I'm entitled to some info on whether he's going to be pretty worn down mentally and/or physically for our meeting before I commit to spending a large amount of cash for his time. Had one well-regarded dude tell me towards the conclusion of our session that he didn't want to shoot because he was dancing at Adonis immediately after our session.

 

And, question -- do Cavaject or other injectibles make it pretty much impossible for a guy to cum? I think I can usually tell (his dick is rock hard from beginning to end without even the slightest change). Am I wrong?

 

/end ramblings

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

...nothing is sexier than watching my partner shoot and being able to both look into his eyes and see his dick.

 

I can't bend that way. Or are you standing under me looking up?

[+ WhamIAm]

I have a very flexible neck. Almost Linda Blair-like. And, Mr. Eisenhower, not every guy is so tall that you can't keep their eyes and their dick in your line of sight at the same time.

[Rudynate]

I'm easy. I don't expect an escort to cum. It takes me forever to cum, so most times I don't come. I really like the feeling of going around packing a four- or five-day load.