Your sexual sweet spot.

[RSully94]

I know when it comes to people like us that hire escorts, we usually hire so that WE can be pleased. But I mean, I'm a guy that likes to touch, so do you like it if a client touches your sweet spot and gets you turnt up/turned on/erotically charged yourself? I haven't hired in over a month, mainly because I ended up getting a boyfriend this month, but when I'm with him he says I naturally know how to touch a guy and go for their sweet spot. And honestly, if there's one thing I like, it's being good with my touch - whether it's with a boyfriend or an escort.

 

So, do you like it when a client touches you in your sweet spot, whatever it may be?

[+ Funguy]

I know when it comes to people like us that hire escorts, we usually hire so that WE can be pleased. But I mean, I'm a guy that likes to touch, so do you like it if a client touches your sweet spot and gets you turnt up/turned on/erotically charged yourself? I haven't hired in over a month, mainly because I ended up getting a boyfriend this month, but when I'm with him he says I naturally know how to touch a guy and go for their sweet spot. And honestly, if there's one thing I like, it's being good with my touch - whether it's with a boyfriend or an escort.

 

So, do you like it when a client touches you in your sweet spot, whatever it may be?

 

Although I am a client, I explain to my guys that 1/2 of MY pleasure is knowing what THEY like and I ask them to tell me. That way we both have great fun. Some do but some just say they like it all and are not very specific.

[wisconsinguy]

Although I am a client, I explain to my guys that 1/2 of MY pleasure is knowing what THEY like and I ask them to tell me. That way we both have great fun. Some do but some just say they like it all and are not very specific.

I up that to 75% on their pleasure. If I think a person is enjoying the encounter, it really makes the session great. WG2

 

 

 

 

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[+ Funguy]

Come to think of it, RSully, why wouldn't they say, "Oh I like….." but some just don't.

I'll be curious how many escorts will respond. I started a thread many moons ago about what fantasies do escorts have - not many at all responded. One would think that all of this would make us better clients if we knew.

[+ purplekow]

Put me in the category of clients who enjoy it more if my partner is enjoying it more than i am. Creates a vicious cycle of enjoyment which can spin out to orgasmic levels. So escorts, give up some of your own sexual secrets and you may be unlocking the deepest sexual secrets of your client.

[down_to_business]

Some would privately say, their enjoyment begins when they pick up the money and walk out the door... but I wouldn't expect them to publicly admit that.

[SteveEscort]

Some would privately say, their enjoyment begins when they pick up the money and walk out the door... but I wouldn't expect them to publicly admit that.

 

Well that depends. If you're an arrogant ignoramus during the appointment then my enjoyment does end when either you or I leave the appointment, depending on the type of appointment it is. So there, I am one who will pubically admit that. Those are appointments that have happened no more than half a dozen times this year but we all get them.

 

My sweet spot is when his hand travels to my bum, his fingers touch it and his tongue makes it's way down. Accomplished tops who wish to give as much pleasure, as seek it, know exactly what they're doing because they know that the touch, sensitivity and smell of a truly excited bottom is the key to making their experience as pleasurable as the encounter they seek themselves.

[Keenan]

I know when it comes to people like us that hire escorts, we usually hire so that WE can be pleased. But I mean, I'm a guy that likes to touch, so do you like it if a client touches your sweet spot and gets you turnt up/turned on/erotically charged yourself? I haven't hired in over a month, mainly because I ended up getting a boyfriend this month, but when I'm with him he says I naturally know how to touch a guy and go for their sweet spot. And honestly, if there's one thing I like, it's being good with my touch - whether it's with a boyfriend or an escort.

 

So, do you like it when a client touches you in your sweet spot, whatever it may be?

 

I do and expect it will happen. I realize that 99% of my business currently are people travelling that want to have some fun with another guy. In fact today Thanksgiving is one of my busiest days.

 

Keenan

[Steven_Draker]

In fact today Thanksgiving is one of my busiest days.

 

When most escorts would probably make themselves 'unavailable' for Thanksgiving, I'm not surprised that you'll be busy today, Keenan.

[imrthr]

 

Some would privately say, their enjoyment begins when they pick up the money and walk out the door... but I wouldn't expect them to publicly admit that.

 

 

Isn't that the thought process by many professions?

 

Be it doctor, lawyer, bakerman or any profession, it is just the way many people look upon making money.

 

A great number of people "hate their job" and it shows. The job haters are not just isolated to escorts. Have you been on an airplane lately with rude and/or surly flight attendants? There is a perfect example of a worker being pleased when they walk out the door of the aircraft.

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[+ Funguy]

Isn't that the thought process by many professions?

 

Be it doctor, lawyer, bakerman or any profession, it is just the way many people look upon making money.

 

A great number of people "hate their job" and it shows. The job haters are not just isolated to escorts. Have you been on an airplane lately with rude and/or surly flight attendants? There is a perfect example of a worker being pleased when they walk out the door of the aircraft.

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That's really too bad. I retired 16 years ago at 50 (back issues), got bored, and now i'm back working 5 days a week and I love it! Of course, no more hospital rounds, no night call, work only when i feel like it but that turns out to be all the time.

[imrthr]

 

A great number of people "hate their job" and it shows. The job haters are not just isolated to escorts.

 

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That's really too bad. I retired 16 years ago at 50 (back issues), got bored, and now i'm back working 5 days a week and I love it! Of course, no more hospital rounds, no night call, work only when i feel like it but that turns out to be all the time.

 

 

I said "A great number of people "hate their job" and it shows." This does not mean everyone - of course there is the exception to the rule.

 

You are one of the people who are not included in the "great number"

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[Keenan]

When most escorts would probably make themselves 'unavailable' for Thanksgiving, I'm not surprised that you'll be busy today, Keenan. [/color]

 

Really busy and successful day overall yesterday.

 

Keenan

[SteveEscort]

Our English Boxing Day is the same, a public holiday that is always super busy

[+ purplekow]

Our English Boxing Day is the same, a public holiday that is always super busy

I guess some people just have to get themselves what they really want for Christmas and frequently that is red hot sex in the middle of winter

[Guest AnthonyDriller]

Yes. Most serious clients ask upfront.

[Bluray2]

Some would privately say, their enjoyment begins when they pick up the money and walk out the door... but I wouldn't expect them to publicly admit that.

 

Unfortunately: probably correct. Most escorts are polite enough to say "they like everything." Yes--but not

really with someone possibly twice their age. I'm as polite and respectful as I can be,

but I really don't think that makes up for the age gap.

 

Eons ago, I asked if some escorts "zoned out" while having encounters to make it easier for them.

I was heavily criticized for suggesting that many escorts didn't actually enjoy the work. Criticisms came

from both escorts and clients.

 

Frankly, I think might be an excellent thing if escorts can "zone out." They might then tolerate their encounters

without emotional distress or pain--and make it enjoyable for older (nice) clients or those without

good physiques and/or looks.

 

BR2

 

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[Bearofdistinction]

Some would privately say, their enjoyment begins when they pick up the money and walk out the door... but I wouldn't expect them to publicly admit that.

 

I would certainly hope not --- Just like any guest - I treat the professional gentleman callers with whom I spend time

with respect and courtesy - I try and find out their likes in snacks and beverages and work to accommodate those - And ask him/them to share what he/they enjoy -- so that we can give build on each others hot spots = Nothing better than making a hot man moan and sweat and writhe in pleasure -- I tend to enjoy longer sessions

[nsguy45]

I've been seeing one RM escort exclusively and regularly since December . . . by far the most ideal 1-on-1 connection I have ever experienced. Rimming him is incredible for both of us. He craves receiving it and I love doing it to him. By far, his hole is his "sweet spot" and I find it incredibly hot to witness him writhing, moaning and groaning while my eager tongue explores it.

Edited March 20, 2018 by nsguy45

[LJNYC83]

Honestly, half the reason I am venturing into escorting is because I love sex. I want to feel good during the sex as well. Granted I feel like it’s all about making sure the client is satisfied, but if they ask me what I like, I am absolutely telling them the things that I know drive me crazy.

[FTM Zachary Prince]

I’m a giver, so I prefer to work at my clients’ sweet spots... making someone shiver, gasp, squirm, writhe in esctsasy, making their legs shake, making them lose their ability to form complete sentences... these are the things that make me the happiest in life. I draw a deep sexual satisfaction from my ability to give pleasure that has nothing to do with my own orgasm, which I think is difficult for a lot of folks to understand.

 

I mostly jerk myself off multiple times a day already if I’m in the mood to cum. Some of my clients, particularly my regulars, have learned how to make me cum, but it takes a lot of time, patience, and practice. I’m not an orgasm machine and I don’t like pretending to be. If someone needs to make me cum, especially easily and multiple times, to enjoy himself, then I’m probably not the right service provider for him. Really no guarantees of that. But the lack of orgasm doesn’t mean I didn’t have a great time. Most of my favourite hookups have nothing to do with my own orgasms, and most of the orgasms I do have with partners are with regular clients who have taken the time to learn my particulars...

 

What excites me the most with a partner is finding their sweet spots. I like to find them by licking every single inch of someone with my tongue... outside AND in... LOL

 

The prostate is a particularly sweet spot that I’m very proud of my talents with. I love nothing more than to be on my knees between someone’s legs driving them ABSOLUTELY MAD in the best way possible. I would rather be doing that than just about anything else.

 

So I guess my “sweet spot” is between someone else’s legs with my tongue and my fingers driving my partner crazy!!

[+ Topseed]

Always hot when my partner....hired or not...fires off his load while I’m topping him. Mmmmm.

[MichBoyBlake]

I've started to venture into doing this mainly because it's something I enjoy and it's something I feel like I'm really good at, both naturally and learning from plenty of experience. And there's some old saying I can't remember about not doing something you're good at for free or whatever.

I don't always know how to respond when a client asks me what I like though. I mean partially because I also slightly more enjoy giving pleasure to others than receiving it myself, but also because the list of stuff I like is long, and what I can or can't get into largely depends on the other person... so, it's not easy for me to just spit out an answer to that. Another reason is I'd rather not saying anything that sounds weird or scares anyone off, but really I could end up giving an answer that then later turns out to be false with that particular person, and I'd either have to fake it as best as I can and hope they don't catch on, or somehow go back on what I said earlier.

[searchingforromance]

What are some of the typical or various sweet spots? I’m guessing there’s a checklist that people go through when they’re discovering a new partner for the first time...?

[Muscle Lover 2]

My theory is that a lot of guys will show you what they like done to them by what they try to do to turn you on. For example, a guy whose nipples are hotwired tends to assume his partner will like the same and at least try that out. No response, try the next thing. That theory has worked well for me.