Is YourButt-hole A Source of Pleasure ?

seeker630 · August 1, 2011

For me too, seeker. My post was meant to be sarcastic.[/color]

I hoped it was - but I still felt compelled to state my position

+ *deej* · August 1, 2011

Considering a huge majority of the population (including some prominent national figures) call us fudge packers because we take it up the poop chute (although most of them can't spell chute) we probably don't need to beat each other up about what to call that magnificent muscle that responds so well to careful manipulation.

I thought we were more evolved than all that. But, well, dissing IS the only official sport gays have. Go on.

orbital sander · August 1, 2011

We prefer the simple and basic "ass." I guess we're just like Kramer from Seinfeld:

http://www.fatwallet.com/static/attachments/1273_assman.JPG

ha ha..what was the name of the male bra that Kramer invented...I cannot remember, but it was pretty funny something like manzier...

+ *purplekow* · August 1, 2011

It was the brough though the manzier was another name mentioned

JoeyBryant · August 1, 2011

Yes, but the word "butthole" isn't!

LOL, I agree I hate that word. Sounds like something straight people would use to describe gay sex.

But, well, dissing IS the only official sport gays have. Go on.

You forgot watersports...

Decatur Guy · August 1, 2011

Back to your question.

It's a source of pleasure. However, if I'm topping, I prefer mine to be left alone, except perhaps to get rimmed during a break.

Rick Munroe · August 1, 2011

we probably don't need to beat each other up...I thought we were more evolved than all that. But, well, dissing IS the only official sport gays have.

Expressing an opinion for what we like to call that part of the body hardly qualifies as "beating each other up" or "dissing" anybody. Was anyone personally attacked or derided for saying "butthole"? Stop being a troublemaker, deej.

Rick Munroe · August 1, 2011

It was the brough though the manzier was another name mentioned

yeah, what p-kow said!

JoeyBryant · August 1, 2011

Expressing an opinion for what we like to call that part of the body hardly qualifies as "beating each other up" or "dissing" anybody. Was anyone personally attacked or derided for saying "butthole"? Stop being a troublemaker, deej.

LOL, OMG he's an administrator. You're gonna get it in the "ass" for that....

+ *Tygerscent* · August 1, 2011

Love my butt played with~ licked, worshiped, fingers, tonught, toys too~ WTF~ What you are in sorts asking is what designates Tops and btmms~ Dom, Top etc is more of a personality and mind frame then a position or ass play preference perhaps?

I'm a top but love to have some bttm or sub or slave submit to licking my hot tight little hole~ It's like UBER submission if he's got his tongue up inn my butt nut~

If the situation is right, I might make them fuck me at my will~ I've been flogged to purple and paddled to bruises and more but even then, I was Dominant and a Top sub over my Dom... even set Van Darkholm, (Bound Gods), at odds as a dom when I filmed with him all tied up and mummified in gauze, ripping thru my full body restraints~

The butt and prostate etc are pleasure zones not exclusive to bttms or subs or slaves~ ... not a gay or str8t thing~ It's a part of your body that responds to stimulation provided~

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Perhaps the real question is... what is a dom/top and what constitutes a bttm??? '

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Well, according to gay guys that identify themselves as BOTTOMS, their buttholes provide them with a great sense of pleasure. However, if you listen to gay guys who identify themselves as TOPS, they rarely mention their butt-holes as a source of pleasure for them. And then, if you view guys who identify as STR8 on Cam4 and such, they often can be found playing with their butt-holes while they masturbate.
So this is a multi-part question:
1) is your butt-hole a source of pleasure for you?
2) if you identify as TOP, do you like to have your butthole rimmed or played with at all?
3) Is a str8 guy that gets intense pleasure from his Hole and likes it worked during sex Really Bi or gay ?
4) Can you cum "hands-free" if your butthole is rimmed, probed, fingered, penetrated?

Inquiring minds want to know ?

dfw2sfo · August 1, 2011

All pleasures are not the same

There's a lot going on down there. There can be pleasure from playing with the inner and outer sphincter muscles from pressure/insertion, there's stimulating the prostate and there's stimulating (mostly) the outer sphincter through rimming. Different people like different parts of these possibilities.

Once I started playing with my ass my orgasms were felt more in my prostate than elsewhere. Now I can contract the muscles around my ass and prostate and have a mildly pleasurable sensation at any time (sitting here, driving whatever).

As far as straight guys go, if there is no other man involved, and he says he's straight then he is straight even if his girlfriend is pounding his pucker profusely til he is pickled with pleasure from a strap on. If more straight guys were comfortable with that idea of anal pleasure we'd probably have fewer wars and crime (it's a stretch (haha) but from the extra release/pleasure).

uwsman2 · August 1, 2011

For someone first venturing forth, bottoming can be a dreadful experience if the top doesn't know how to initiate a virgin anus. If it is done with tenderness, not rushed, pampered a bit, lightly fingered, gently lubed, slowly worked in... I think the most important thing of all is that the bottom be brought to a point of sexual excitement where his hole is begging to be penetrated. Psychological resistance needs to be overcome. But once it is, the feeling of being filled and possessed can be quite rewarding.

Poolboy21409 · August 1, 2011

1. Yes

2. Yes

3. Not necessarily

4. occasionally

I was first rimmed by a leading escort 3 years ago at a Convention we were both attending. He had me face down and must have rimmed me for 20 minutes. I thought he was just poking his dick around the outside of that "area". It was fantastically sexually arousing. I was so aroused that when he did flip me over and started fucking me, I did come in about two minutes with no "manual intervention." Since then I am a proponent of "tongue in [butt] cheek" activities and enjoy doing it as much as getting it. But only as a good foreplay to the real stuff.

jjkrkwood · August 1, 2011

We prefer the simple and basic "ass." I guess we're just like Kramer from Seinfeld:

http://www.fatwallet.com/static/attachments/1273_assman.JPG

Actually, the ASS is the receptacle that the butt-hole is contained in. To me its the "cheeks", which has a whole diff conotation to it I think ?

jjkrkwood · August 1, 2011

Considering a huge majority of the population (including some prominent national figures) call us fudge packers because we take it up the poop chute (although most of them can't spell chute) we probably don't need to beat each other up about what to call that magnificent muscle that responds so well to careful manipulation.

I thought we were more evolved than all that. But, well, dissing IS the only official sport gays have. Go on.

I'd prefer to say "sausage stuffers" over "fudge packers". Lower in Calories....

+ *Tygerscent* · August 1, 2011

One of my favorite explorations and adventures in ass play is to achieve the "ass Orgasm". So intense and is completely free of dick play from the receivers side... but simply achieving an ass orgasm that results in a big creamy load simply from playing with ones ass~ Its fantastically awesome~

I personally enjoy being under a hot hungry ass and feeling warmth and fuss of his butt on my face... makes me shoot every time~ Whoosh Whoosh Whoosh~