ok not so newbie needs help

[NYTomcat]

Im planning a first time Bfe hire. Now you know me im the romantic and the nights out Guy. I have the evening activity ... as in late nights covered thanks. So the question is...

 

Romantic dates in NY. I have my idea some of which I've done but I'd like some idea that are just new to both of us. It doesn't have to be NY specific. Any ideas would be appreciated.

 

Come on I need my old romantics help.

[gcursor]

Hopeless romantic

 

OH! I can do this one! I'll send you a personal message NY.

gc

 

Im planning a first time Bfe hire. Now you know me im the romantic and the nights out Guy. I have the evening activity ... as in late nights covered thanks. So the question is...

 

Romantic dates in NY. I have my idea some of which I've done but I'd like some idea that are just new to both of us. It doesn't have to be NY specific. Any ideas would be appreciated.

 

Come on I need my old romantics help.

[+ overeasy]

NYT -- Sounds like fun. I have found that some of the most meaningful (to me anyway) moments were ones where we weren't looking to spend money to have fun....Cooking a dinner together, chatting, having a great bottle of wine...Walking through a local flea market and learning tons about each other from comments we make...going to a farmers market for breakfast....not that things like going shopping for underwear and other goodies don't have their appeal too!!...I tend to not go for things like shows and movies...because it doesn't allow for interaction much....Once found a cooking school that really was not a hand-on thing, but you watched them basically cook lunch for you...again, allowed for interaction...and developed topics for dinner conversations and memories....

[ChiTown]

Romance in NYC

 

Im planning a first time Bfe hire. Now you know me im the romantic and the nights out Guy. I have the evening activity ... as in late nights covered thanks. So the question is...

 

Romantic dates in NY. I have my idea some of which I've done but I'd like some idea that are just new to both of us. It doesn't have to be NY specific. Any ideas would be appreciated.

 

Come on I need my old romantics help.

 

TC . . . Here are some ideas for you: http://www.mademan.com/mm/5-romantic-dinner-date-ideas-nyc.html, hope they help. Good luck and have fun, man!

[leigh.bess.toad]

TC --

 

Here's a couple of links that may give you a few ideas.

 

http://gonyc.about.com/od/bestofnewyorkcity/tp/romanticplaces.htm

 

http://www.sail-nyc.com/?gclid=CO-60PDOj6gCFQWD5QodAAh_1A

 

http://www.amazon.com/Most-Romantic-Dates-Around-York/dp/1580624626

 

The first link has lots of other links so poke around there. The last link is a book from amazon that has ideas so if you want that route, you'd better get it quickly.

 

But given who the BFE is with, although not romantic, I would think that a trip to ground zero may be meaningful as well. The aftermath of September 11 has helped lead him to be the truly remarkable man that he is.

 

I"ll keep digging and looking.

[Diverdan]

Hi Tom,

I tend to agree with some of the threads above. The trip to Ground Zero is very moving and allows for conversation and reflection to get to know someone a lot better... like a BF. I also love trips to a museum, zoo, art galleries, a trip to Elllis Island and/or the Statue of Liberty and depending on the time you have, a nice dinner, although that does not have to be expensive either to be fun, and I also love to go to a play, symphony or opera that we both might enjoy. The conversations that result often provide a deep insight into what makes that person tick. I also like a piano bar towards the end of an evening... enjoyable music, a nightcap, time for quiet conversation and gazing into your date's eyes, etc. A lot depends on how well you know the person ahead of this "date" and BFE experience, so if you have further questions or if I can be of any other help, send me a PM.

DD

[+ sf westcoaster]

For me it is a small, quite restaurant, maybe with some string music in he background. Later in the evening the view from the roof of one of the skyscrapers provides adequate reason for holding hands and placing arms around each other. If we are talking daytime then it is a walk through the park, sitting my the water quietly talking.

[Epigonos]

How about chocolate dipped strawberries and champagne in bed!!!!!

[+ purplekow]

If the weather permits, picnic lunch at the Cloisters Grounds are beautiful and there are many little nooks and crannies where one can sneak some outdoor fun. The museum itself is nice but in the spring, the grounds can be spectacular.

[Rick Munroe]

I have to disagree about Ground Zero (although Lee did say it would be more meaningful than romantic) and the other tourist sites. I think those are great if you have a distant relative visiting the city, but for me, one of the most romantic things to do in NYC is renting a rowboat in Central Park and then taking a stroll to a quiet spot...

[nate_sf]

When I've gone to NYC the things that have stuck in my mind as memorable have been things like having a meal in a neighborhood restaurant, or spending time in Central Park as Rick mentions. Being a big fan of cities, I also like just walking for blocks and blocks and taking it all in. The tourist sites might be of interest too, but these more everyday experiences are what I've always liked and strike me as BFE-type activities.

[NYTomcat]

Ok I love that we romantics are still out here. I think its right.

 

Definately Lee. And dd and ground zero while not a quintessentially romantic spot is because of our past. His and mine a remarkably moving idea that we have discussed. I think less romantic agreeably than intimate. It would certainly be something that leads to sharing deep emotional memories for both parties.

 

I love the idea of the park. The boats I had forgotten. God rick Derek must be the luckiest Guy. Oh but then again when was the last time you two went. My romantic heart hopes you say last week.

 

Nate I think your right. One of the magic and amazing things about NYc is that two men can stroll through the table covered streets of the city arm in arm hand in hand with comfort and without making a spectacle.

 

Pk I owe you a call. Lets say personal issues have made my life not my own. Ill be rectifying that shortly. You have never failed to answer my call to help. You are in so many ways my hero. The grounds of the cloisters is amazing and you are so right. What a great idea. Thank God I have more than one day.

 

SF that's the ticket. The right restaurant to continue the mood. Not big or metropolitan but small quiet quaint even neighborhoody. And Epigonos as always my Epicurean friend ill hit zabars for cheeses too

 

Overeasy im not sure I have time. But the cooking class. Omfg what a great idea.

 

Gcursor you are a God .. you can have me anyday. Melt. I hope you liked my surprise I came up with which I will share openly after. .... maybe

 

You guys never fail me. I needed this ... im usually quite inventive but life has been an emotional rollercoaster of late here and I Really need a few days to just loose myself in the romantic and let my batteries recharge. Thank you all so much

 

PS im also thinking that romantic little piano bar hold some appeal. At least to me.

[Rick Munroe]

I love the idea of the park. The boats I had forgotten. God rick Derek must be the luckiest Guy. Oh but then again when was the last time you two went. My romantic heart hopes you say last week.

 

Well, as a matter of fact, when I was posting this, I asked for Derek's input and he suggested the boats! So I guess I'm the lucky one and he's married to an idea-poacher. As for the boat ride, we're waiting for someone to take us!

[Rick Munroe]

The tourist sites might be of interest too, but these more everyday experiences are what I've always liked and strike me as BFE-type activities.

 

I like the way you think, Nate.

[Cooper]

From an old Romantic...

 

Romantic dates in NY... Come on I need my old romantics help.

 

NYT, As you know, my bf is rather young, so, there is a difference in how we each view a romantic date. His idea is going to a hockey game, dinner, and a night out drinking... Mine is quite different.

 

I really enjoy Broadway shows, I see about 1 or 2 a week. If you'd like to get your romantic date off to a good start, I'd suggest getting tickets to see a play. There are many good ones to choose from but I'd strongly recommend "War Horse" at Lincoln Center. It a very loving and caring play with an emotional ending. The Saturday matinee might be a good choice and will get you out before 5pm.

 

From there you can walk to Central Park to do some of the things already mentioned but if you don't mind heading downtown, how about a scenic walk along the "High Line". http://www.thehighline.org/ . As you walk holding hands and the occasional kiss, you can take in views of the Hudson R., and perhaps catch a cruise ship pulling out. It's quiet and romantic with breathtaking sunsets.

 

There are so many excellent restaurants in NYC but, for romantic dinner choice, you want a small, out of the way, and quiet restaurant. Perhaps one with a back patio and the walls covered with vines. Stay away for the tourist ones. If you're interested I can email you a few.

 

After dinner, a night club with dancing could be a good way to end the night before heading back to your room.

 

Enjoy your romantic night out.

 

Coop

[playwrestler]

If you're looking for a small incredibly wonderful dining experience that is truly one of a kind in this great city, try Torrisi's Italian at 250 Mulberry St (at Prince)... You must get there by 5 or 5:30pm to be in line for that night's reservations. Someone will come out and take your name around 6pm and ask you what sitting you'd like (I think there are three starting at 6:30pm) and then you can go and entertain yourself in the village etc. The food is not to be believed. The intimate feeling of the restaurant is straight out of a movie... Trust me you'll love this place!

[ChiTown]

TC - I looks like you've gotten a lot of good recommendations. I'm sorry that I couldn't offer anything other that the link I gave you. Not a lot of first hand experience here, NYC or otherwise, damn it! lol . . . I hope that you indeed have a fun and romantic time on your date.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Tomcat - I too love going to piano bars. What is your favorite in NYC?

[doitb4ugo]

Not a very original idea, but maybe you guys would love visiting various area of the city and having a mock photo-shoot...you taking pics of him and Him you...I can imagine this being very fun and a great way to share a bit about yourselves as part of the process....

[Bosguy]

TC.

 

Us New Englanders do have a romantic side. Try to get to a beach in spring or fall to be able to walk and converse with just the sound of the ocean in the background. Dress warm and comfortable!! Take a picnic basket (we all know how you love baskets) containing fresh breads, assorted cheeses, fruit, and wine (although this particular experience might warrant gin and tonic). Stop, have a wonderful feast, and then head back for a remarkable evening.

 

Bill K.

[Rick Munroe]

you taking pics of him and Him you...I can imagine this being very fun and a great way to share a bit about yourselves as part of the process....

 

Until you find out what divas you both are.

 

Tomcat: No, no, only shoot from my left side, like Barbra insists on!

Escort: Shut up and fluff me.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Until you find out what divas you both are.

 

Tomcat: No, no, only shoot from my left side, like Barbra insists on!

Escort: Shut up and fluff me.

 

Well, you're about half right rick.

 

TC? Possibly.

 

Escort -- I don't think he knows what fluff means. There's not a thing fluff-y about him.

 

Ooh-Rah!

[Rick Munroe]

Escort -- I don't think he knows what fluff means.

 

Are you calling him stupid?

[leigh.bess.toad]

Are you calling him stupid?

 

tell it to the marines.

[NYTomcat]

Thank you all for the wonderful ideas. I have incorporated many as my romantic forays begin. With a few surprises as well. Im sure the reviews will tell alot though ill post how it all works out here.

 

SF. The next time your in town. Ill take you. But monster and Marie's crisis.