HELP newbie here needs answers

[NYTomcat]

nycman: I am right there with you on the mini-crush. NYTomcat sounds sweet, considerate and a total class act.

 

Now you guys are really going to make me blush, keep it up LOL

 

I really appreciate all the guidance and help for my first time. You guys were amazing and a few even beyond. Its been a week which I needed to get my head screwed back on straight. Its taken that long to recover. At one point, one poster said that after their first experience the gates of heaven were thrown open. I agree but am having difficulty with those damn closet doors. Lots of emotions all bouncing around and playing ping pong with my brains.

 

Anyway, You guys have been terrific and I expect to be here posting for some time to come.

 

Just submitted that review I promised. Only one thing I am certain of BOY did I pick the right escort for the experience I wanted.

 

Thanks to those previous reviewers for pointing me to him, Thank you Purplekow for assuring me before hand and helping me stand up afterward.

 

Thank You Romann for the ride of my life and your friendship thereafter .

[Guest greatness]

I like guys with a healthy appetite

 

I love cooking or taking out my guy to dinners so he needs to have a happy appetite.. No models who only eat like a bird..

 

But if you went to dinner, I hope you brought your wallet because that man Romann can eat almost as voraciously as he can fuck.

[marxbro]

haha, i love this thread. i'm in the anticipation phase of my first escort. it's also in a couple weeks. it's been on my mind so much.. now i get horny even when i go to the bathroom, remembering what he promised to do to my ass.

[Romann]

Thank you Purplekow for assuring me before hand and helping me stand up afterward. Thank You Romann for the ride of my life and your friendship thereafter .

 

You are certainly in great hands with Purplekow at your side now and in the future. Also, thank you for the kind words. I'm always just a phone, call, text or email away.

 

It was my pleasure!

[Guest greatness]

oh

 

I like your new avatar...

 

 

You are certainly in great hands with Purplekow at your side now and in the future. Also, thank you for the kind words. I'm always just a phone, call, text or email away.

 

It was my pleasure!

[NYTomcat]

I know, right greatness, Romann's new avatar is hot. but still doesn't do the man justice. Lets face it Im a fan. then again I guess we all have our favorites. too bad mines the best LOL

[Guest greatness]

Fair enough

 

I agree..

 

too bad mines the best LOL

[NYTomcat]

I agree..

 

Just wanted to say thanks to all those who pm'ed me from this thread but more importantly to the 3 or 4 guys who have recently contacted me to thank me for starting this. I think there are a lot of lurkers out there afraid to post but who found the advice, like i did, just immeasurable. To those still on the fence. Don't be afraid to ask. Although the forum can get a bit nasty between posters (that is half the fun after all), Everyone here is supportive and helpful in trying to get newbies to have a great first time experience.

 

So read whats here and ask your questions and make a thread so the future newcomers can review and have a great place to start.

 

OK PS can't pass without a comment on the even newer Romann avatar WOW Ive seen that look in person and live, thanks to all of you keeping me sane in the weeks leading up to it. Now you know why I can't thank you enough for keeping me on track. Look at what I would have missed.

[+ azdr0710]

thanks for all your posts and comments, too, NYTomcat...

 

I've tried/right-clicked/left-clicked/swore, but I can't get any of the avatars to "enlarge"...is it possible to see these avatars in a full image view?....thanks

[AdamSmith]

Although the forum can get a bit nasty between posters (that is half the fun after all), Everyone here is supportive and helpful in trying to get newbies to have a great first time experience.

 

That is a great insight about this place. Some newbies -- a few old-timers too -- express intimidation about the occasional intensity, shall we say, of the dialog here. But we are all in common cause, and you have discerned what it is. Welcome.

[doitb4ugo]

My Thanks to NYTomcat as well

 

I just wanted to add my grateful thanks to NYTomcat for the help and support he is currently providing as I prepare for my first time experience. He has been kind and generous with his advice and help. We are all lucky to have him in this forum.

[NYTomcat]

I just wanted to add my grateful thanks to NYTomcat for the help and support he is currently providing as I prepare for my first time experience. He has been kind and generous with his advice and help. We are all lucky to have him in this forum.

 

I can't thank you enough Doitb4, really it has been my pleasure. and with any luck it will soon be yours. But most honestly I have to thank the guys of hooville who posted on this thread and gave me the help to get where I can help you.

 

I spent this evening at Club 20 with a crowd of Hoovillians who I have had the great pleasure to get to know over the past few months and now meet in person. I can only say they are even better live. Thank you all for the help and the friendship.

 

Lucky Thanks for inviting me and that quick wit. and please tell your special someone whata pleasure it was. we seem to have the same taste in men. LOL

 

Glutes, You are just too much and I loved it. Not sure how comfortable I would've been especially without you monopolizing surfer dude who was just not my type. but a hottie nonetheless.

 

Cooper, My neighbor, thanks for all the recommendations and directions. needless to say your guidance was.... fruitful. Im just sorry you didn't get to hang and hear the war stories But I'll email them. Moreover thanks for introducing me to everyone. I cant wait to add to the posts on this night. whew!!!! but im letting those with seniority on hooville start that thread

 

Foxy: You are just the best, thanks for sharing so much and for that special dancer of yours. Make lots of money you've got a great marketing platform to sell off of.

 

To Tazmania, BaronArtz, and all the others whom I am forgetting, sorry its late. I had a ball. mostly cause of the dancers, well dancer, but hell you guys are fun too. No all joking aside thanks for making me a part of it all.

 

NO LONGER THE NEWBIE - SIR KNIGHT TOMCAT

[Guest greatness]

Congrats

 

Sir Knight Tomcat~~ Glad you guys had fun. When was it last time I went to a bar. So long ago~~

[NYTomcat]

Thanks for all the advice

 

I know the forum is for discussion and not reviews but given all the help you guys gave me I had to just post to tell you how thankful I am for all the sagely advice (sagely in the nature of worldly or experienced not aged). The anticipation was incredible but the experience was even better. I will write a review as promised once the encounter has completed. (OK it was so good I extended)

 

On your recommendations, The evening started slowly to gain comfort which was almost immediate, your previous reviews could not have been more correct. No expectations and just letting the evening unfold was perfect. Music is my thing and since this isn't the place for a review let me just set the stage with the proper mood music. Lets just say the theme of the evening started like this:

 

 

the middle proceeded to this:

 

 

waking in the morning left me feeling:

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sHtet0DYr9w

 

So now I have a second overnight, I'm expanding my horizons and shooting for:

 

 

an eclectic collection of music I admit, but it was all just Romanntic

 

 

God it's been alot of years since this started. I had to come back on just to remember it all. I miss you guys and Romann. I'm the proud out gay dad of two and newly married to my husband. Amazing how so much can change.

 

This was an amazing and difficult time for me but all has worked out for the best. I just wish I hadn't lost touch with so many along the way. But alas that's life.

[NYTomcat]

God it seems forever

[+ azdr0710]

Wow. Great to hear from you. Thanks for checking back in.

[+ g56whiz]

Ah the memories!!

[Becket]

Ditto. I remember the excitement and tingling anticipation of my first few hires. Joy, nervousness, lust, impatience, wonder, and fear all balled up and busting out. Afterwards," Damn that was cool!" Enjoy the ride.

[nate_sf]

Great to see you back here @NYTomcat ! All the best to you, hubby and kids. Don't be a stranger!

[+ ArVaGuy]

Welcome Back!!!

 

It's a pleasant surprise to see your post @NYTomcat. I've missed you at the D.C. MAL Weekends these past several years. Oh what fond memories.

[BasketBaller]

Wow, I had never seen this thread although I browsing the site at the time. It was being written almost the same time I had my first experience with a man by hiring a well-reviewed escort! I sure would have appreciated all the wisdom here.

[+ purplekow]

Wow, I had never seen this thread although I browsing the site at the time. It was being written almost the same time I had my first experience with a man by hiring a well-reviewed escort! I sure would have appreciated all the wisdom here.

It seems you wised up without this wisdom though walking through the wilderness of sexual recognition is a bit easier with a guide.

[+ nycman]

od it's been alot of years since this started. I had to come back on just to remember it all. I miss you guys and Romann. I'm the proud out gay dad of two and newly married to my husband. Amazing how so much can change

 

When I strarted reading this thread again from the start...my first

thought was...." I wonder what ever happened to NYTomcat". All I

could really remember was that I had an internet crush on you.

 

And half way through this thread I confessed just that...lmao!

 

Thanks for checking back in and updating us.

 

Congratualtions on the husband and the kids.

 

Make sure the hubby knows there's man in NYC who's

happy to provide competition....if he starts getting lazy...grin

[BasketBaller]

It seems you wised up without this wisdom though walking through the wilderness of sexual recognition is a bit easier with a guide.

That first escort, John from Atlanta aka Smalltown John, knew it was my first time and sent me advice about cleaning out, which is a good thing since that hadn't occurred to me. He was easy-going and patient and read my responses to make sure I was having a good time. I would have loved to have had guidance from all the men here too, but he was there for me. As I've said before, I hired to satisfy my curiosity and get it out of my system. I left his hotel room knowing it was anything but out of my system.

 

My second hire was a local guy who has long since retired. He was amused by my inexperience and sympathetic, and he looked on me as a project-- I hired him several times and he would let me try things and give me pointers. I learned from him that I really am a bottom, what my favorite positions are, etc. He was 9 years younger than me, and retired from escorting when he finished grad school, but we kept in touch and met for coffee once in a while. He's now married to a guy he loves and they're talking about adopting. I've offered to give parenting tips to even the score!

[+ glennnn]

That first escort, John from Atlanta aka Smalltown John, knew it was my first time and sent me advice about cleaning out, which is a good thing since that hadn't occurred to me. He was easy-going and patient and read my responses to make sure I was having a good time. I would have loved to have had guidance from all the men here too, but he was there for me. As I've said before, I hired to satisfy my curiosity and get it out of my system. I left his hotel room knowing it was anything but out of my system.

 

My second hire was a local guy who has long since retired. He was amused by my inexperience and sympathetic, and he looked on me as a project-- I hired him several times and he would let me try things and give me pointers. I learned from him that I really am a bottom, what my favorite positions are, etc. He was 9 years younger than me, and retired from escorting when he finished grad school, but we kept in touch and met for coffee once in a while. He's now married to a guy he loves and they're talking about adopting. I've offered to give parenting tips to even the score!

 

 

God! I like you @BasketBaller