*So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...

[AtlantaDude]

22 hours ago, longislandjohn said:

Along the same line, I always wonder if men are aware that they can basically receive head at any given moment at any time.  There will always be someone somewhere who would get down on their knees for him with no questions asked.  I was in a public place, looked around, and said that very thing to myself.

Saw an extremely handsome man, about age 35, tall dark and handsome, wearing shorts, hairy legs yesterday in the grocery store.   Very straight, no doubt.   I immediately thought of how much money he could make if he wanted to in the service business.   

[Decatur Guy]

11 hours ago, 3rdChapter said:

I often wonder how escorts manage to top clients whom they don’t find attractive.  I can understand bottoming for them, but how do they get an erection and perform as a top for a guy they don’t like? 

I've wondered the same thing myself. I think it takes a special kind of guy, which is one reason why there are so few escorts. 

[Decatur Guy]

5 hours ago, sniper said:

Very good looking guys USUALLY do reasonably well for themselves without escorting in part because goodlooking people get treated well in general...more likely to get the job, make friends/contacts, etc. And having sex work on your resume kind of puts the other stuff at risk 

That's a very good insight. 

[Decatur Guy]

3 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

My Origin Story again, briefly: I honestly did not know escorting was an option until on a flight b/w LA and NYC I read "Hustlers, Pornstars, and Escorts", where the author put it in very simple language making me think, "Holy shit, this is an option I'd never considered, and it sounds fun!"  I didn't grab the book from the WeHo bookstore A Different Light because I was curious about escorting (or porn), it was one of many I grabbed for the trip, along with a couple Edmund Whites, it just happened to have an enticing cover.  It lead to 20+ years of escorting.

I suspect most men don't think of it.

Before reading that book, I had absolutely no idea escorting was an option.  When friends and I chuckled at the ads in the back of Frontiers and Unzipped,  it seemed entirely too risky and scary to even think about.   

Come to think about it, without the ads in the back of magazines, which don't exist, how would you even know about the world if you weren't looking for it?  Crazy, I never thought of that till now, the loss of the magazines and the scary/sexy ads in the back and what that means.

Thanks for sharing your insights from the provider end of things. 

[Decatur Guy]

2 hours ago, AtlantaDude said:

Saw an extremely handsome man, about age 35, tall dark and handsome, wearing shorts, hairy legs yesterday in the grocery store.   Very straight, no doubt.   I immediately thought of how much money he could make if he wanted to in the service business.   

I think that almost every time I walk down Peachtree Street or go to Piedmont Park! LOL 

[Decatur Guy]

I appreciate all the thoughts and insights on this. I've also wondered at times: If I had been more attractive in my youth, is this something I would have done? I just wasn't good-looking or buff enough to even make it a viable option. But would have overcome the other barriers? I have no idea! 

Maybe it's a good thing that only a relative few guys were cut out for this. I might be broke otherwise. 

Edited 46 minutes ago by Decatur Guy

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

4 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Most of the anti-sex work laws that have been passed has broad liberal support because they were presented as "anti-trafficking." The don't really address trafficking so much as drive sex work further underground, which makes people trapped in it less likely to access help. And it criminalizes those who genuinely want to do it. 

Yes 💯 

An old but true saying:

The 9 most dangerous words are "I'm from the government, and I'm here to help".

On 8/16/2026 at 1:04 PM, Decatur Guy said:

I wonder if these men – straight, gay or in between – ever realize the $$$ they could be making by just unzipping their pants and letting someone go to town on them!

If only escorts were invited to present at school Career Day 🏫 🎒