Organizing a Group While Traveling

[BananaBagel]

On 8/26/2026 at 6:58 AM, Trvlman1 said:

How did it work out?

One of the guys was held up at work and running very late. So after a lot of planning and anticipation, it didn’t work well. 
 

Hope you had a much better night. 

[Trvlman1]

Last night was epic!

All 3 guys showed up roughly on time. That created a bit of a staggered start - which worked well. All 3 were very interactive with each other and me. We kept switching off partners and activities: sometimes watching, sometimes encouraging, and sometimes joining in. All 3 were VERY solid performers and all were definitely versatile. 
 

I think this worked well because we had great communication beforehand. Everyone knew what I wanted, and boy did they deliver! I went out and grabbed waters and Gatorade for the room (I figured we would be thirsty and need some electrolytes 😉). I had 2 kinds of lube, and also picked up some wipes in case of any messes. I was fortunate to have received an upgrade to a suite at the hotel, so that gave us kind of two play areas. In total it lasted about 4 hours - a pregame cocktail with one guy, then some preliminaries as guys 2 and 3 showed up, the main event, and then one guy stayed after the other two left for a 1:1 session.

Totally exhausted - but totally fulfilled. 🤗

[nomad]

10 minutes ago, Trvlman1 said:

 a pregame cocktail with one guy

The 🍷 type or 🍆type?  😁

[Trvlman1]

2 minutes ago, nomad said:

The 🍷 type or 🍆type?  😁

🍸and then 🍆

[nomad]

Just now, Trvlman1 said:

🍸and then 🍆

👏 👏👏

[Wings246]

6 hours ago, Trvlman1 said:

Last night was epic!

Totally exhausted - but totally fulfilled. 🤗

OMFG!!!  Your experience was totally inspirational, to say the least.  I’m seriously considering expanding my horizons into uncharted territories after reading your story.

[BuffaloKyle]

8 hours ago, Trvlman1 said:

Last night was epic!

All 3 guys showed up roughly on time. That created a bit of a staggered start - which worked well. All 3 were very interactive with each other and me. We kept switching off partners and activities: sometimes watching, sometimes encouraging, and sometimes joining in. All 3 were VERY solid performers and all were definitely versatile. 
 

I think this worked well because we had great communication beforehand. Everyone knew what I wanted, and boy did they deliver! I went out and grabbed waters and Gatorade for the room (I figured we would be thirsty and need some electrolytes 😉). I had 2 kinds of lube, and also picked up some wipes in case of any messes. I was fortunate to have received an upgrade to a suite at the hotel, so that gave us kind of two play areas. In total it lasted about 4 hours - a pregame cocktail with one guy, then some preliminaries as guys 2 and 3 showed up, the main event, and then one guy stayed after the other two left for a 1:1 session.

Totally exhausted - but totally fulfilled. 🤗

Pics and videos please!

Just kidding. 😅

Glad you had an amazing time.

[Trvlman1]

I’m a no video guy but there are a couple of scenes that keep replaying in my head that I would like to see “eteralized” on video so I could remember them clearly 20 years from now!!

[JayeMichigan]

You've helped me set goals for my next birthday 🎂 

[+ FLOutdoors]

And this is why I absolutely love this forum!!!!!😍

[Trvlman1]

13 hours ago, JayeMichigan said:

You've helped me set goals for my next birthday 🎂 

It was without a doubt one of the best experiences I have ever had. The moon and stars aligned (with a little pre-planning😉) and it was just fantastic. I couldn’t be more grateful for the three other participants and their willingness to be open to that experience as well.

I hope you are able to plan and participate in an experience like the one I had - a truly memorable night.

[Trvlman1]

13 hours ago, FLOutdoors said:

And this is why I absolutely love this forum!!!!!😍

So true! I have watched from the sidelines, gained great insights, and feel like I have given a bit back.

[moreofthat]

Just now, Trvlman1 said:

It was without a doubt one of the best experiences I have ever had. The moon and stars aligned (with a little pre-planning😉) and it was just fantastic. I couldn’t be more grateful for the three other participants and their willingness to be open to that experience as well.

I hope you are able to plan and participate in an experience like the one I had - a truly memorable night.

This is awesome, man. Would you be willing to share the profiles of the providers you met with? No worries if not, but it's always helpful to know which providers might be more accommodating than others!

[Trvlman1]

1 minute ago, moreofthat said:

This is awesome, man. Would you be willing to share the profiles of the providers you met with? No worries if not, but it's always helpful to know which providers might be more accommodating than others!

Hey man - appreciate the ask. Unfortunately, I don’t think think it’s my place to do that. Besides, my taste in men and my “wishlist” of activities may be wildly different from your desired experience. Happy to share how I planned it, how I reached out, and what I did to pull it together. The guys I met with are on this site either as having been reviewed here or they have posted. 
 

The best thing you can do is really know what you are looking for, what boundaries you have, what you’re willing to spend, and how far in advance you can plan. Once you know that - go for it! Not sure of the city you are planning to do this in, so that changes the dynamics as well.

[Petris Sage]

I'm happy for you. And thank you for sharing this experience with us. I'm sure you realize that you e inspired a lot of us to masturbate while reading up on your journey. So in a way, you've had sex with us.   For example, I'm imagining being the fifth guy in your group.  Thanks for this fantasy and your memories.

[Aamir]

On 8/31/2026 at 9:27 AM, moreofthat said:

This is awesome, man. Would you be willing to share the profiles of the providers you met with? No worries if not, but it's always helpful to know which providers might be more accommodating than others!

DM me if you want to set something like this up in SF. I know several guys who would happily do a 4 way with 3 escorts and 1 client.  Heck the guys i know might even be the same three as OP used... you never know... it's a small town...🤑😈

[BananaBagel]

Anyone into setting up something like this in NYC?

[Aamir]

9 hours ago, BananaBagel said:

Anyone into setting up something like this in NYC?

Not sure if this sounds weird,  but is anyone into setting up a scene with 4 escorts, 2 clients. Meaning 2 guys who aren't friends, but hire guys and who decide to take the plunge and hire 4 guys for a 6 person session together?

[Nikba]

Hiring for a weekend in Las Palmas, met on grindr, the guy was adorable, fun and open minded. An idea of swapping partner came in mind. I let him search and within two hours, he came up with three possibilities. I picked a versatile couple based on previous experiences. With a video call, it was easy to set up and all agreeed. A middle age Frenchmen with 23 years old handsome Greek guy. An excitement already started with video call and magnified when met. It was spontaneous oozing with sexual desire. We had so much fun and very comfortable with all stuffs we shared which led 3 couples the next day. 

[theplayerking]

2 hours ago, Nikba said:

Hiring for a weekend in Las Palmas, met on grindr, the guy was adorable, fun and open minded. An idea of swapping partner came in mind. I let him search and within two hours, he came up with three possibilities. I picked a versatile couple based on previous experiences. With a video call, it was easy to set up and all agreeed. A middle age Frenchmen with 23 years old handsome Greek guy. An excitement already started with video call and magnified when met. It was spontaneous oozing with sexual desire. We had so much fun and very comfortable with all stuffs we shared which led 3 couples the next day. 

Providers or civilians?

[Nikba]

2 hours ago, theplayerking said:

Providers or civilians?

One provider and the rest were fun people.

[schltguy]

@Trvlman1 Thank you for starting this topic and for sharing your experience.  I did a similar scenario a few years back with 4 providers (3 of which I elected; one was selected by my primary provider).   It was amazing.  I am currently planning one with 3 providers - all of which I've met previously.   I have just recently introduced (via text) all the providers to each other as I want to ensure all can work together.   It is a coordination effort to say the least - setting exceptions, schedules, etc.  But, still, it is much better to personally screen each man to ensure they are in synch with you.  Then, ensure they are comfortable with all other participants.   After all, it is for me.     I can gather much about the provider with the chat.  

[BuffaloKyle]

20 hours ago, Aamir said:

Not sure if this sounds weird,  but is anyone into setting up a scene with 4 escorts, 2 clients. Meaning 2 guys who aren't friends, but hire guys and who decide to take the plunge and hire 4 guys for a 6 person session together?

A long time ago I was hanging with a friend and we had a couple guys come over. We each had one on one fun in two different rooms with one of the guys and then swapped out for the other one. That was just on a regular hookup app but I'd like to do that again with a fellow client.

[Aamir]

2 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

A long time ago I was hanging with a friend and we had a couple guys come over. We each had one on one fun in two different rooms with one of the guys and then swapped out for the other one. That was just on a regular hookup app but I'd like to do that again with a fellow client.

Yes! This! So hot!

[+ WstVlgChris]

On 8/23/2026 at 11:45 PM, Brock O said:

Would love to hear how this works out!

 

Happy to share with you all how my birthday 4some (3 providers + me) worked out. I had to postpone it for 2 weeks due to a medical issue and rescheduled it for the Sunday of Labor Day weekend; as a result, lost 2 of the 3 guys because they were out of time. Provider #1 and I found 2 new providers, neither of whom I'd met before or he'd worked with.  So I was a bit nervous ahead of time, whether the mix would work.

Amazingly, it went super well. The 2 new providers were eager, enthusiastic, and hot. Not only were all 3 guys focused on giving me, the birthday boy, a grand time, but they all got into one another--so whenever I took a break, there was always some hot sex to watch a few feet away. 

Certainly the best sexual experience I've had all year! In discussing it afterward with my regular (he stayed overnight), we both marveled at how good my instincts were in picking the 2 new guys, since someone who was more performative (unlike these 2--you could tell they were really into it) would have dampened the whole vibe a bit. Instead, it was 1000% successful.