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[Peter Eater]

11 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I do not acknowledge any change of pronouns until specifically requested by the person I am addressing.  

I have had several enjoyable sexual encounters with FTM people

Well, it didn't take long to get to the "some of my best friends are Black" defense. Jeez.

[pubic_assistance]

12 hours ago, DavidNY said:

You clearly need education, but don’t want it.  

I know quite a few trans people.( I haven't had sex with all of them). I also have been a long time friend of Veronica Vera, who runs "Miss Veronica's School for Boys who want to be Girls." I have enough information to know that there is a spectrum of personalities in the trans community and how people wish to be addressed is a PERSONAL CHOICE. So until I know what that person CHOOSES to be addressed as, BIOLOGY is going to be MY guide.  Any FTM is a biological FEMALE, not a male. Transitioning does NOT change that. You will always be a masculine presenting FEMALE only with some choices of hormonal any/or surgical modifications to present as a male. IT DOESN'T ACTUALLY MAKE YOU A MALE. So referring to someone born female as a female is not incorrect. I am not ADDRESSING this person to their face, so there is no information on how they want to be addressed. It's always astounding how some of you gays love to act so knowledgeable about subjects, with very little actual experience on the subject. 

 

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, Peter Eater said:

Well, it didn't take long to get to the "some of my best friends are Black" defense. Jeez.

That's funny.

I simply meant, it's not like I am oblivious to trans people. I am quite sure I have FAR more experience than most people here, including having been with trans people intimately. I seriously doubt much of anyone here can say the same.

[RadioRob]

OK.  Enough.  Back on topic.  Any topics not directly related to the provider directly will be removed and timeouts issued.   This will be the only warning.  If you're not sure if the response is appropriate, it most likely is not and should be avoided.  

[DavidNY]

Fair enough.  If it helps, I did confirm directly with the provider that he uses he/him pronouns (he will also accept they/them, but never she/her as implied in multiple places in his profile, starting with referring to himself as a ‘guy’ in the first sentence, but also in his interview questions).  I also booked him as I was already planning a trip to Canada. Will let you know how it goes!

Hope that helps resolve any confusion or misgendering! (Sorry I couldn’t help more with the willful ignorance)

I love his tats too.  Not easy to make that much ink look so thoughtfully designed!

Edited 16 hours ago by DavidNY

[BaronArtz]

He has a fascinating IG profile on which he highlights his transition from fragile young woman, through breast removal, testosterone therapy and rigourous work outs to his presence in 2026.  It is amazing what effort goes into it, but it is actually possible.

And to boot, very personable in his communications.  I can see how he could be a mentor to people interested in making this transition.

Edited 9 hours ago by BaronArtz

[rudy]

On 5/3/2026 at 5:17 AM, Poppie said:

His vids are insanely HOT

 

didn’t realize he had videos, definitely going to try to book for Toronto

 

On 5/3/2026 at 6:25 PM, PhileasFogg said:

I’ve had great experience with a TransMan in New Orleans.   I’m not offering this to compete with the OP’s inquiry, but it’s important to find someone comfortable in their skin “as they are” in the transition.   https://rentmen.eu/ftm_angelgabe exudes confidence and is a very pleasant guy to talk to and, as a bisexual, offers me a unique blend of where I’ve been and where I am in my exploration of men in recent years. 

if only I were in the US, you all are spoiled for options…

 

[rudy]

4 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I know quite a few trans people.( I haven't had sex with all of them). I also have been a long time friend of Veronica Vera, who runs "Miss Veronica's School for Boys who want to be Girls." I have enough information to know that there is a spectrum of personalities in the trans community and how people wish to be addressed is a PERSONAL CHOICE. So until I know what that person CHOOSES to be addressed as, BIOLOGY is going to be MY guide.  Any FTM is a biological FEMALE, not a male. Transitioning does NOT change that. You will always be a masculine presenting FEMALE only with some choices of hormonal any/or surgical modifications to present as a male. IT DOESN'T ACTUALLY MAKE YOU A MALE. So referring to someone born female as a female is not incorrect. I am not ADDRESSING this person to their face, so there is no information on how they want to be addressed. It's always astounding how some of you gays love to act so knowledgeable about subjects, with very little actual experience on the subject. 

 

that is interesting, every MTF I’ve met uses she, usually they are very upset with being addressed differently. so although I don’t know many FTM I default to using he

if it was a matter of presentation and not identity they would just crossdress not transition.. and you cannot assume they will correct you because can be a matter of safety, just like I am not correcting every person who assumes I have a girlfriend when I say I have a partner

[Savage D]

8 hours ago, rudy said:

that is interesting, every MTF I’ve met uses she, usually they are very upset with being addressed differently. so although I don’t know many FTM I default to using he

if it was a matter of presentation and not identity they would just crossdress not transition.. and you cannot assume they will correct you because can be a matter of safety, just like I am not correcting every person who assumes I have a girlfriend when I say I have a partner

Yes.