I've Had (I'm Assuming) More Sex Partners Than My Brother

[+ Gar1eth]

Or my sister for that matter. It's such a strange concept to me when I think about the fact that i've only been having sex for 24 years.  
 

What prompted this?  This reel just popped up on Instagram. 
 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUjMA97kW_e/?igsh=MWQ2NjNsZHMxbmU2Yg==

[MaybeMaybeNot]

I come from a very conservative background. Most people don't even know I am gay. If they knew how many sexual partners I've had, they would be 🤯. I am pretty conservative compared to many gay guys (and probably compared to everyone here), but I would still surprise them.

Edited Monday at 05:50 AM by MaybeMaybeNot

[+ ApexNomad]

3 hours ago, MaybeMaybeNot said:

I come from a very conservative background. Most people don't even know I am gay. If they knew how many sexual partners I've had, they would be 🤯. I am pretty conservative compared to many gay guys (and probably compared to everyone here), but I would still surprise them.

I can’t tell from your comment whether you mean you’ve had a lot of partners or just a few, but either way, it doesn’t matter. Like most things in life, it’s just a number. I have gay (and straight) friends whose partner count fits on one hand, and others you’d need a spreadsheet. 

[Nightowl]

Until a few years ago, my scoresheet was pretty dismal.  Once I discovered the joys of my fellow men, my numbers have increased significantly.  If I knew then what I know now, I probably would have become a provider.

[+ Just Chuck]

On 4/20/2026 at 2:41 AM, ApexNomad said:

I can’t tell from your comment whether you mean you’ve had a lot of partners or just a few, but either way, it doesn’t matter. Like most things in life, it’s just a number. I have gay (and straight) friends whose partner count fits on one hand, and others you’d need a spreadsheet. 

I literally do have a spreadsheet!

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 4/19/2026 at 10:48 PM, MaybeMaybeNot said:

I come from a very conservative background.

Being a tight ass has its benefits! 😈 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

My brother and I are very close in age to one another. 

He's allegedly had zero sexual partners. 

I proudly admit I've had a few thousand.  I'm doing my part to boost the family average since his number is so low (We all make sacrifices to help our family 😉)

[+ ApexNomad]

3 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

My brother and I are very close in age to one another. 

He's allegedly had zero sexual partners. 

I proudly admit I've had a few thousand.  I'm doing my part to boost the family average since his number is so low (We all make sacrifices to help our family 😉)

Does your brother ever ask for advice? Is sex not of interest to him?

[mike carey]

2 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I'm doing my part to boost the family average since his number is so low (We all make sacrifices to help our family 😉)

Family helps family™!

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, ApexNomad said:

Does your brother ever ask for advice? Is sex not of interest to him?

My brother is a very closeted man. He claims he's asexual, and that gays are going to hell.  We haven't spoken in 13 years.

Recently, one of his co- workers and I hooked up at a gay men's camping trip.  After we hooked up, the co-worker then looked at my name tag and saw my last name, then asked "Are you related to [my brother's name]?". I replied, "Yes".  His co-worker's response was "When is that boy ever going to come out of the closet?!"