Telling the client to dress after the session is over. Rude?

[LaSanta]

I'm a masseur and when doing outcalls, is it rude to tell the client to dress after the massage is done? I've noticed some clients like to walk around nude after the session is over and I just feel very uncomfortable about it. My time doing the sensual massage to them is over and I think that means we should go back to the normal interaction. Being nude is something too intimate and unless I get paid for it, I'm truly not interested in having someone next to me wearing no clothes if my work is already done. The scenario I paint often happens while I wait for my payment, or sometimes when I ask the client to let me use the restroom for a shower. Can anyone give me a trick or advise to make it less obvious? I truly don't want to make my clients feel bad for my requirement, and neither pretend to come off as an asshole. Thanks in advance. 

Edited 2 hours ago by LaSanta

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

16 minutes ago, LaSanta said:

When doing outcalls, is it rude to tell the client to dress after the massage is done? I've noticed some clients like to walk around nude after the session is over and I just feel very uncomfortable about it. My time doing the sensual massage to them is over and I think that means we should go back to the normal interaction. Being nude is something too intimate and unless I get paid for it, I'm truly not interested in having someone next to me wearing no clothes if my work is already done. The scenario I paint often happens while I wait for my payment, or sometimes when I ask the client to let me use the restroom for a shower. Can anyone give me a trick or advise to make it less obvious? I truly don't want to make my clients feel bad for my requirement, and neither pretend to come off as an asshole. Thanks in advance. 

I usually host for a massage.  I'm usually freshly showered and only dress if I need to travel to the hotel lobby to bring the masseur up in the elevator.  At the end of the massage, I usually don't plan on getting dressed and often want to go straight to bed when the masseur leaves.  Therefore, I would never bother putting on underwear or pants when I get up from the massage table or bed.  But, I'm also comfortable at nude beaches, nude resorts, and always go sans swimwear in friends' swimming pools. 

If a masseur who just finished massaging my naked body asked me to put on clothes while in my own house or hotel room, I wouldn't hire him again

[Spikeguy]

It shouldn’t take them more than two minutes to pay.

[S_G]

Once the massage is over you can maybe try saying "would you like me to get you some water while you get dressed?" and if they don't take that hint, you can say "thank you for coming, I don't mean to rush you but I need to prepare for my next client."

[+ purplekow]

If you are his place, deal with it.  The encounter is for his comfort not yours.

If you are at your place, you can say:  I am going to the rest room, so that you let you dress in private.  Urinate and return.  If he is not dressed, or nearly so, you need to be more direct.  

[Pd1_jap]

3 hours ago, LaSanta said:

When doing outcalls, is it rude to tell the client to dress after the massage is done? 

Yes. I could understand if it was an in call. I don't want anyone's ball sweat but mine on my furniture.  However, since this is in a place that they are either renting or own then they have the right to remain in whatever state of dress or undress they feel comfortable in. 

You could ask how the client feels so comfortable naked and relay that your don't feel comfortable with casual nudity but to insist that they clothe themselves is a bridge too far. 

I grew up in a religious household and casual nudity was verboten. Now that I'm older and have had many many clothing optional experiences I understand that nudity does not always equate sex. Being comfortable naked is one of life's great joys. 

Lastly, unless it's taking longer than 5 minutes over time to get paid then you need to charge for the extra time. You're running a business not a charity. You should be able to withstand the discomfort for 5 minutes.

[+ Jamie21]

I’ve never found that a problem. I see clients in their hotel and they’ll frequently stay naked after the session and whilst they pay me. It’s their space, their prerogative to dress how they like. That’s the benefit of an out call, they can truly relax after the massage. If it bothers you then perhaps just get paid quickly and leave asap. 

[acks0104]

5 hours ago, LaSanta said:

When doing outcalls, is it rude to tell the client to dress after the massage is done? I've noticed some clients like to walk around nude after the session is over and I just feel very uncomfortable about it. My time doing the sensual massage to them is over and I think that means we should go back to the normal interaction. Being nude is something too intimate and unless I get paid for it, I'm truly not interested in having someone next to me wearing no clothes if my work is already done. The scenario I paint often happens while I wait for my payment, or sometimes when I ask the client to let me use the restroom for a shower. Can anyone give me a trick or advise to make it less obvious? I truly don't want to make my clients feel bad for my requirement, and neither pretend to come off as an asshole. Thanks in advance. 

I'm sorry but you do sex work and find people being nude in their own space uncomfortable? I don't mean for this to sound rude but that very much sounds like a you issue.

[LaSanta]

2 hours ago, acks0104 said:

I'm sorry but you do sex work and find people being nude in their own space uncomfortable? I don't mean for this to sound rude but that very much sounds like a you issue.

I don't do sex work. Did I ever state I was an escort?

I'm a masseur and don't do anything sexual.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

9 hours ago, LaSanta said:

The scenario I paint often happens while I wait for my payment, or sometimes when I ask the client to let me use the restroom for a shower

You're asking the client to use his shower at his house?  That's rude, unless he offers it first; or, if you invite him to join you in the shower to continue the massage (still fully naked, of course).

 

Edited 13 minutes ago by Vegas_Millennial