Providers that won’t let you touch their nipples

[TxMaxx]

I’ve had a couple experiences with providers on Rentmasseur who won’t let me touch their nipples, which is a huge turnoff for me.

Anyone else has had a similar experience? Should you ask a provider in advance if he is “a nipple guy”? I wish these two providers had mentioned that in their profiles.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 hour ago, TxMaxx said:

I’ve had a couple experiences with providers on Rentmasseur who won’t let me touch their nipples, which is a huge turnoff for me.

Anyone else has had a similar experience? Should you ask a provider in advance if he is “a nipple guy”? I wish these two providers had mentioned that in their profiles.

When I hire masseurs, they usually are dressed and I'm usually on a table with my hands by my side, so I am not touching their nipples.

When I hire escorts, we are both naked and on the bed/sling/floor/balcony and none of them have had issues with my touching their nipples.

[DMonDude]

I've never run into that, but I'm also personally not into nipple play, so I've never reached for them. But as far as gauging it from the profiles. If it's not listed on the I Am Into's section (where there very much is a specific check box for nipple play), i assume it's something they aren't into or are at the very least neutral about and should be asked for to confirm they're cool with it. Maybe those guys you hired have hyper sensitive nipples to the point that nipple play is painful for them? Kind of like how some guys love when you keep sucking after they cum and other guys it becomes painfully sensitive and you have to stop. I don't know.

I actually have this problem from the client perspective, i have a lot of providers both masseur and escort assume i'm into nipple play and start playing with mine while working. It's fairly common and popular, so i get it, but it doesn't do anything for me and i find having to tell them not to bother messing with my nipples to be awkward and momentarily a vibe killer. So definitely better they just not go for it to begin with. So maybe that's how the providers you hired are feeling too?

Edited March 4 by DMonDude

[Nightowl]

Some guys don’t get any charge out of having their nipples touched.  Odd that they’d declare them off limits if their clients get off on touching them though.  

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 hour ago, Nightowl said:

 Odd that they’d declare them off limits if their clients get off on touching them though.  

But it would be very difficult for the masseur to continue his massage with the client's hands on his chest.  Some guys care about offering a great massage.

[+ PhileasFogg]

I have some plans next week in FLL with a house full of guys and I was advised that one of them has extremely painful nipples     I don’t think it’s completely unusual. 

[jockstrapdaddy]

Had a TX based provider for whom nipple touching was a complete non-starter. He also had a bad attitude for the whole meeting. His bad attitude maligned all no-nips men for me. 🤣 

I now ask up front before we meet. 

It’s not even a specifically strong kink for me. 😅

[+ Pensant]

Strangely enough, I used to love nipple clamp play, but over the past 5 years that fetish has faded. Many providers love me to gently bite on their nipples. I haven’t ever found nipple play to be an issue with them.

[DunwoodyGuy]

If it happened once, it was probably just bad chemistry. If it's happened a few times, maybe the problem is with the way you're approaching their nipples.

[d.anders]

15 hours ago, TxMaxx said:

Should you ask a provider in advance if he is “a nipple guy”?

Absolutely. Communication is everything when trying to negotiate pleasure. If the service provider isn't into what you are into, you need to know that. Mentioning don'ts in an ad can be a counter-productive marketing strategy. It is far better to ask these things in private conversation.

[dbar123]

I’ve had that experience with a few providers. I usually presume it’s the result of steroid use making them sensitive or painful 

[+ Alabastrine]

I love men's chests so it's hard not to want to flick that nipple with the end of your tongue or gently rake your nails across it... I think I need a cigarette now. So yea, anyone with a "no nips" policy I'd probably pass on. 

[liubit]

I have very sexually responsive nipples, totally wired to my dick, so I always ask my guys to softly play with them, lick them abundantly, suck them lovingly, gently tease them with their teeth. They always oblige, and they appreciate how turned on I get. 

Flipping the coin, I have met guys that love it when I take care of their nipples, guys that are ok with it, and guys that are totally indifferent and unresponsive, but I have yet to meet a guy who refuses to play with mine or who asks me to not touch his. 

Edited March 8 by liubit