How long have you been doing this?

[Wings246]

4 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

For many, hiring is cheaper than getting married.

Depending on where you live (e.g. in major cities where cost of living is higher than the sky), hiring may actually be cheaper than a casual, sexless date night.  Meal + transportation + entertainment for 2 can easily go above the average rate of a provider.  And the worst part is: satisfaction is NOT always guaranteed on a casual, sexless date night.

[PetetKsfo]

I did some gay porn filming in my 30s  (starting on VHS then DVD).

I did a body electric workshop in my 40s, which got me excited about bringing together massage and sex work.   I attended a certified massage school to learn massage tecnique, and then completed added training in erotic/sensual work though Body Electric and other similar groups.    I still enroll in erotic training programs whenever I can.

  I have been offering services now for the past 15 years.

I love the beautiful variation of men of all type, sizes, shapes, and backgrounds who come to see me.   I love that at its core, my job is to just pay attention to them and show them some affection - whatever that turns out to be.      

Edited February 25 by PetetKsfo
word fix and added a little more info.

[+ bashful]

I was very late to exploring male companionship, and only many years after my wife's death.  Began in 2015, and my last hire was 2018, then Covid hit.  In those 3 1/2 years, meet 8 companions (2 masseurs, rest escorts).  one, the local guy, I met 6 times.  The rest being visitors, one I met 4 times, two I met 2 times, and the other four, only met once.  Only a couple were duds.

Lately, have been thinking of going back to hiring, but some health problems are the priority at present.  Perhaps it's an activity with an ebb and flow.

[Rod Hagen]

A year before I started escorting and six months before I first kissed a man, out of back-pain desperation from a childhood snowmobiling incident (asshole  cousin jumped the ditch when I was on the back, and we landed HARD and flat, I still suffer from that (herniated and calcified T7/T8)) I hired  a University of Minnesota Health Facility Masseur.  Nobody yet used that stupid term Massage Therapist.  He was a masseur, it was 100% non-sexual, nevertheless it was a man touching my 24/25 year old body and instantly I knew, something was up. 

Technically, I didn't pay for it, my UMN health insurance did.

Edited Saturday at 05:23 PM by Rod Hagen

[+ Just Sayin]

5 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

A year before I started escorting and six months before I first kissed a man, out of back-pain desperation from a childhood snowmobiling incident (asshole  cousin jumped the ditch when I was on the back, and we landed HARD and flat, I still suffer from that (herniated and calcified T7/T8)) I hired  a University of Minnesota Health Facility Masseur.  Nobody yet used that stupid term Massage Therapist.  He was a masseur, it was 100% non-sexual, nevertheless it was a man touching my 24/25 year old body and instantly I knew, something was up. 

Technically, I didn't pay for it, my UMN health insurance did.

ra ra ra, Ski-U-Ma!  those golden Gophers! 

[SJ856]

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.

Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊