Threesome Protocol

[soloyo215]

On 11/24/2025 at 5:39 AM, PhileasFogg said:

I’ve arranged 4 threesome’s in recent months.  Most notable being recent experiences with cuteblondeboy/FTM_AngelGabe and last weekend with Roman_Speers/AshtenSky.

I once had a regular indicate he’d prefer not to participate in a threesome  His reason was that, whereas in an orgy he could tap out if he needed a break, in a threesome he felt he needed to stay engaged.  Silly me, I never considered that   

But, while in my 60’s, my catholic school upbringing has still left me somewhat naive in certain things.

So, I’m curious - should a threesome be a completely “go with the flow” exercise, or are there certain techniques/routines that keep everyone engaged and satisfied?

Please share your favorite examples if you have any.  

I've been involved in threesomes, never involving me paying for any of them, so I cannot comment on what to expect from one involving providers. Most of my threesomes have been different in terms of the vibe, the level of satisfaction, spontaneity of it, the people involved, the situation around them and the gender of the people on it. It has always been a "go with the flow" thing, but some have not been great, art least for me. In a situation when I am paying, I imagine I will have more of a saying on how things will go.

There aren't really any rules, which means that if one (or more) of you need a break, they can, I guess, if you're OK with it, within reason (I mean, for as long as the break is not 10 minutes after it started and for the rest of the session).

[BuffaloKyle]

On 2/22/2026 at 4:09 PM, Vegas_Millennial said:

Pay them each the same, using the rate of the guy with the higher rate.  The other guy will view the added amount as a tip.  Place in separate envelopes so they won't see what the other is getting, but keep it the same because they may talk afterwards.

I'd give each the same amount but I might wanna give a little more than the higher rate to them. I feel if they would talk the higher rate guy could possibly look at it as you gave a tip to the lower rate guy and none to him. You might put a little note in the envelope simply saying "Thanks for an amazing time today. I felt it's fairest that you both deserve an equal donation for your time spent with me. Thanks again."

[jeezifonly]

I'm not really into participating in groups - massage or play. But I can think of one specific erotic scenario where an extra cast member would enhance the show. If I did it, I would arrange it through one experienced hosting provider who's familiar with me and my tastes, and "knows this guy" who would be the right third...

It's not unfair that the host might get a slightly bigger fee, but I would not be haggling - rather, resigned to the reality that such an indulgence as a treat is more costly.

[+ Just Chuck]

A threesome where one of the people is the special guest star and is SUPPOSED to receive the giving attention of the other two partners can make for an amazing time for the lucky special person.

I hooked up with a couple a little over a year ago and got to be that lucky guy as one partner did a long deep french kissing makeout session while holding my hands and essentially gently pinning me to the bed while the other partner gave me a long sloppy blowjob with a no-quit-no-spit draining finish.  My brain was overwhelmed the whole time and it was amazing!