*Provider couldnt get it up

[aiseeya]

12 hours ago, JB_Studio38 said:

What factual information and chart do you have, to back this statement up? Are you saying there aren’t homeless providers who don’t care for children, or that may not have cancer? 
 

Although I live a relatively comfortable life, finances are still an issue: namely due to the fact that if everyone who contacted me actually did what they’re supposed to do: I would be making more than average Joes. But since a large percentage of them don’t follow thru: I’m sometimes left with a lot less than projected. And just add up a missing $400 here, $300 there. Over the course of year. Even at one flake a week, that’s over $15,000 NOT GAINED. And it’s definitely more than one a week. 

Mate if all my fee quotes were accepted, I will earn 5/6 figures monthly. 

I earn quite signifiant amount and live a comfortable life, do I want more monies....heck yeah. That said, i am deff not disfrenchised in any manner whatsoever.

If me saying better to donate than to throw monies to non-performing provider hurts your ego, i suggest you to look deep inside.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

1 hour ago, aiseeya said:

If me saying better to donate than to throw monies to non-performing provider hurts your ego, i suggest you to look deep inside.

I think he took exception to you inferring that providers are disposable as opposed to human beings who have good days and bad days. I’ve had providers struggle to maintain and erection as have I. A good seasoned provider will offer options to get you off. Toys, fingers, rimming.

the only time a provider really annoyed me was when he pretended he wasn’t having an issue, by lying on his stomach the whole time. It was me and my husband looking over him at each other like 🤷🏼‍♂️. He’d been to a brunch and had some drinks - which are known to fuck with performance. So it just felt irresponsible. 

 

[JB_Studio38]

11 hours ago, aiseeya said:

Mate if all my fee quotes were accepted, I will earn 5/6 figures monthly. 

I earn quite signifiant amount and live a comfortable life, do I want more monies....heck yeah. That said, i am deff not disfrenchised in any manner whatsoever.

If me saying better to donate than to throw monies to non-performing provider hurts your ego, i suggest you to look deep inside.

If you want something deep inside, I’ve got something for that. And you don’t have to worry about how hard it is, it’ll be a replica 😹 

That said, you’re incorrect about me being hurt ego about donating. Nice try but, you conveniently ignored the part I actually quoted. You made a whole new paragraph that diverted from your initial point saying:

And no providers arent disfrenchised ppl, many of them make much more than your average joes. Even if they didnt, they still arent disfrenchised in any way

That’s when I asked provide factual data if you believe that’s true statement. I can easily provide one from another website where a provider is discussing their struggles:

“This month I took off bc I was sick for weeks after my birthday but prior to that, I actually lost money in November, bc I saw 1 client & it didn't even cover ad costs”

Just because you may not be disenfranchised, speaking from a position of privilege, doesn’t assume everyone is. All it takes is a car breakdown/accident, surprise medical emergency etc and a few missed bookings to end up in struggle mode.

I’ve gone to cities myself, and had medical issues while traveling, car trouble etc while there. Combine it with missing appointments due to that, flaky guys who think we don’t need the money, and just fucking off for the hell of it: it’s easy to end up disenfranchised even temporarily. You shouldn’t come making claims about folks that you don’t know their circumstances.
 

22 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

It’s normal. It doesn’t just happen to you @JB_Studio38. If all my enquiries came off I’d be richer too. If they all booked I wouldn’t be able to get hard for all of them anyway! 

That’s a good point you make but, you’re speaking anecdotally. I would think most non-substance using men can somewhat gauge how many times they can stay hard/get off. I don’t need someone to think, “Hmm should I call him, maybe he’s had 5 clients today already and can’t get hard”. 

It’s not about whether or not they all book, it’s more about can I at-least have the opportunity to CHOOSE. I have performed back to back many times, getting hard or cumming each time. Sometimes same person, other times different person. It’s not been an issue because at 38 years old, I kinda am more in tune with my body and my other parts.
 

I rather have the say in whether or not I can take on a booking, versus someone deciding he’s going to follow thru…and having to figure out a way to efficiently handle a hard on, when there’s no privacy at your residence to use a right hand man 😬

[mike carey]

Ladies and Gentlemen,

This thread is about a quite specific topic, how to deal with a situation where an escort cannot achieve an erection. It is not about any escort's business model, so discussion of that or anything else that is not relevant to the topic of the thread stops now. Thank you for your attention to this matter, and your cooperation from now on.

[+ Jamie21]

1 hour ago, JB_Studio38 said:

That’s a good point you make but, you’re speaking anecdotally. I would think most non-substance using men can somewhat gauge how many times they can stay hard/get off.

I was being light hearted with the ‘I couldn’t get hard for all of them’ comment. 

[Spikeguy]

Light hearted about light harded.