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[chubird]

Beware!!

I was a few minutes late letting him in to my place. Session was fine, used one of the “machine guns” on me.

While I stepped into the bathroom, he took my VCA on the desk. Only noticed after and when I messaged him to confront, no response. Avoid at all costs.

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[maninsoma]

1. What's a VCA?

2. Depending on one's perspective, your post is likely to be ignored by many here since you signed up only a few hours ago just to post this.  Because you have no posting history here, we don't know if you have a history of hiring guys and are offering a fair report of something that happened or you are simply someone who wants to interfere with this guy's business.

[vasudev]

Have hired Vincenzo a few times including recently in Boston, and this seems rather uncharacteristic based on my experiences with him. 
Also same question, what is vca?

[+ sync]

4 hours ago, maninsoma said:

1. What's a VCA?

2. Depending on one's perspective, your post is likely to be ignored by many here since you signed up only a few hours ago just to post this.  Because you have no posting history here, we don't know if you have a history of hiring guys and are offering a fair report of something that happened or you are simply someone who wants to interfere with this guy's business.

 

4 hours ago, vasudev said:

Have hired Vincenzo a few times including recently in Boston, and this seems rather uncharacteristic based on my experiences with him. 
Also same question, what is vca?

I was also curious about a VCA.  The following is a definition I Googled that might fit:

A "VCA item" refers to a piece of jewelry from the luxury brand Van Cleef & Arpels, often known by the abbreviation "VCA". These are high-end items like necklaces, bracelets, and earrings, famous for iconic designs such as the Alhambra collection, and are known for their intricate craftsmanship and use of precious materials like 18k gold. 

[EastbayMike]

I'm not blaming the victim but wouldn't it be prudent to lock away valuables when entertaining strangers? I always do a quick sweep when hosting masseurs or escorts at my place or hotel room. 

[chubird]

21 hours ago, maninsoma said:

1. What's a VCA?

2. Depending on one's perspective, your post is likely to be ignored by many here since you signed up only a few hours ago just to post this.  Because you have no posting history here, we don't know if you have a history of hiring guys and are offering a fair report of something that happened or you are simply someone who wants to interfere with this guy's business.

To clarify, the item in question was a Van Cleef & Arpels Alhambra bracelet. I’ve never had a reason to post on this site before, so I signed up solely to share what happened and hopefully prevent someone else from having the same experience.

I’m not trying to interfere with this guy’s business. I can see he has plenty of good reviews, and this may well be a one-off situation. But it did happen, and I’ll admit part of it was my mistake for leaving something valuable out. The positive feedback here probably made me let my guard down a bit, which is why I thought it was worth mentioning. 

[DunwoodyGuy]

Hmmm...

Why did you leave a "VCA" on your desk?

Why did you expect us to know what a "VCA" is?

And why be disingenuous and say "I'm not trying to interfere with this guy's business" when your initial post says "Avoid at all costs"? That certainly seems to fit the definition of interfering with the guy's business, doesn't it?

[CuriousGuy714]

Well you did leave a shiny, expensive bracelet in plain sight so that was on you. However, stealing is a crime so why don’t you get the authorities involved? “Petty” theft doesn’t seem to be high of their priority list these days but at least give it a shot. Or at least tell the masseur you’re filing a police report and see if he responds then.

[Vincenzo]

I only became aware of this accusation today, when a loyal client of mine brought it to my attention. I want to address it clearly and directly.

I was raised in a household with strong values, where honesty and respect were non-negotiable. Stealing from anyone is completely against my nature and the way I live my life.

On a practical level, I am fortunate and resourceful enough that I have no need to take anything from anyone, least of all a bracelet. I work hard, I respect my clients, and I respect their homes.

If you are a client who was unhappy with any aspect of your session with me, I genuinely invite you to reach out to me directly, as a man, and tell me how I could have served you better, instead of creating drama online.

If you are a fellow masseur who is using this to try to damage my reputation, I sincerely encourage you to focus that energy on your own growth, both as a person and as a professional. There is space for everyone to succeed without resorting to this type of behavior.

Anyone who truly knows me understands that this accusation is completely false and does not reflect who I am.

[mgtj74]

Totally unbelievable — this doesn’t match who Vincenzo is at all. I’ve known him for over five years, both personally and in his line of work, and he has always been nothing but honest, respectful, and completely professional.

He’s been to my place many times over the years, and I’ve never had a single issue with him — no concerns about my belongings, no attitude, nothing. He treats people and their homes with real respect. That’s the person I know.

And honestly, anyone who actually knows him can tell you he’s not the type of guy who needs to take anybody’s things. He works hard, he carries himself well, and he’s definitely not someone chasing “shiny objects.” That idea just doesn’t make sense.

This accusation doesn’t line up with the man I’ve known for years. Before hurting someone’s reputation, it’s important to look at the whole picture — and the truth is, Vincenzo has always shown integrity and professionalism.

[+ KurtinMaryland]

Absolutely absurd. Period.  
Sir, you either misplaced your bracelet elsewhere or you are a “competitor” attempting to discredit Vincenzo. I have known this man over five years. NEVER any reason whatsoever not to trust him. In fact, I have come to know him quite well and feel blessed to enjoy a closeness and camaraderie with him unlike any other friendship I’ve ever had. He’s been to my place several times, even overnight, never had an inkling of a problem or reason not to trust him. While he’s not a “materialistic”person, he has enough of his own nice, new shiny things and certainly would not need yours by any means.  
I hope you find your misplaced bracelet Sir, because there is no way in Hell that Vincenzo has it. 

[MikeBiDude]

Welcome to our forum, @Vincenzo @mgtj74 @KurtinMaryland

[Vincenzo]

On 11/12/2025 at 11:10 PM, CuriousGuy714 said:

Well you did leave a shiny, expensive bracelet in plain sight so that was on you. However, stealing is a crime so why don’t you get the authorities involved? “Petty” theft doesn’t seem to be high of their priority list these days but at least give it a shot. Or at least tell the masseur you’re filing a police report and see if he responds then.

Now ask the victim the date the incident occurred lol let’s see what he is going to say. I just returned to the U.S. from a one month Asia trips