Women hiring via RentMen

[DMonDude]

Every now and then i come across a provider's profile on RentMen. Usually a "Straight" or bisexual labeled provider and some of them will say on their profile "open to straight couples" or "open to women as well". Are there actually any women hiring guys from RentMen? I kinda just assumed RentMen in particular was kinda male clients only and that whatever few women do hire, probably use a different site. Do you know any female friends who hire? Is this more prevalent than i thought it was?

[Gilfson]

There’s a female client in this forum so yeah they definitely exist. I’ve been hired by mf couples myself.

[+ Alabastrine]

Yes and I'd be one of them. 

I think you're still right-on that the majority of clients looking through rent.men are male, I was under the impression that most of the straight providers on RM were GFP and that there are a lot of male clients who enjoy both bi and straight providers. Similarly there are also some SFP gay male providers (some on this forum) but when I've asked gay providers on RM and MF if they take female clients, the answer I got was 'no' (though usually a very kind and respectful "no") 100% of the time, so I started filtering Bi providers and had better luck. Some of the Bi providers do get clients who are couples looking for a 3rd (or 4th, 5th and so on) but I'd guess it's not as often. 

[DMonDude]

1 hour ago, Alabastrine said:

Yes and I'd be one of them. 

I think you're still right-on that the majority of clients looking through rent.men are male, I was under the impression that most of the straight providers on RM were GFP and that there are a lot of male clients who enjoy both bi and straight providers. Similarly there are also some SFP gay male providers (some on this forum) but when I've asked gay providers on RM and MF if they take female clients, the answer I got was 'no' (though usually a very kind and respectful "no") 100% of the time, so I started filtering Bi providers and had better luck. Some of the Bi providers do get clients who are couples looking for a 3rd (or 4th, 5th and so on) but I'd guess it's not as often. 

Opening my eyes to a whole other side of this i didn't know was there 🙏

[+ Jamie21]

I’ve a M/F couple booked with me this weekend. I’m bi so that works fine 🤪.  I’ve had single female clients in the past too. It’s fairly unusual, especially for them to book alone but it does happen. 

Most of the time female clients come with their male partner (and when it’s booked by their male partner often the guy tells me he wants it as a surprise for her 😂. In those instances I insist he tells her and that she makes contact with me before the session…which of course she never does because it was simply his fantasy 🙄). 

[Peter Eater]

6 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

often the guy tells me he wants it as a surprise for her 😂

Is her surprise that her bf is getting f*cked by a man? 🙂

[Simon Suraci]

Alabastrine and Jamie21 are spot-on. Once in a while I get a M/F couple, and they are great, with the same caveats that Jamie already explained. Everyone needs to be aware and consenting. I get the female partner off too, if she is wanting me to do so.

I do not target women in my marketing, but I won’t turn away a legit female client. Women using RentMen to hire are rare, but they exist. Almost all of the “women” contacting me are scam bots. The scammers haven’t done their homework to realize they are barking up the wrong tree. It puts me on the defensive right away until I can confirm she is a real person, in the same way I would be cautious with a prospective male client exhibiting red flag behavior. Unfortunately, being a woman is a red flag until I can confirm she is real.

I hear a lot of women opine about how they wish their gay male friends would be into them. It’s a foregone conclusion in real life, but a nice fantasy. RM is an opportunity for these women to hire their fantasy with a professional who is either bi, or gay and can do what she needs him to do anyway ie straight for pay. It’s not that far removed from a gay provider being able to perform for a man he finds very unattractive, which we do all the time. By the way, he can find his female client attractive in a general way, yet still be gay, and still do what he needs to do. All of these can be true at the same time. Most people can’t mentally and physically do this, but that’s exactly why you hire a professional. I suppose it’s much easier for bi providers.

[DMonDude]

8 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I’ve a M/F couple booked with me this weekend. I’m bi so that works fine 🤪.  I’ve had single female clients in the past too. It’s fairly unusual, especially for them to book alone but it does happen. 

Most of the time female clients come with their male partner (and when it’s booked by their male partner often the guy tells me he wants it as a surprise for her 😂. In those instances I insist he tells her and that she makes contact with me before the session…which of course she never does because it was simply his fantasy 🙄). 

That's so "oblivious 90s sitcom husband" of those guys lol

[+ Jamie21]

5 hours ago, Peter Eater said:

Is her surprise that her bf is getting f*cked by a man? 🙂

Ha ha yes sometimes, although usually it’s the guy wanting to watch his wife get fucked.

Women love to watch two guys together, especially if one of them is their partner. I think generally women are much more open minded about sexuality than guys are (especially straight guys who seem to get very hung up about any activity they think is ‘gay’).

When I did a live sex show (me and another guy) most of the audience was female 😂. I was very surprised at the ratio vs single males. 

Edited Saturday at 07:29 PM by Jamie21

[moonlight]

I've wondered how much of this difference is biological and how much is cultural. Surely both are factors. I've heard that wealthy women in Japan have been known to hire male escorts, and that perhaps the service is focused more on providing intimacy than the act itself. But I don't know much about it. It's an interesting topic.

[big-n-tall]

1 hour ago, Jamie21 said:

Ha ha yes sometimes, although usually it’s the guy wanting to watch his wife get fucked.

Women love to watch two guys together, especially if one of them is their partner. I think generally women are much more open minded about sexuality than guys are (especially straight guys who seem to get very hung up about any activity they think is ‘gay’).

When I did a live sex show (me and another guy) most of the audience was female 😂. I was very surprised at the ratio vs single males. 

It's science!!!

Seriously though, I mentioned this on the forum before, when I took a sex ed course in college... one of the discussions came around to how many women enjoy porn. The surprising fact about it, was that a pretty fair amount of straight cis women enjoy watching gay porn. I don't remember the actual numbers in the survey but it was higher than expected to be. One of the prevailing things mentioned about their enjoyment of gay porn was the the romantic elements in it... the kissing the touching etc. that wasn't/isn't very prevalent in straight porn.

So yes, I believe there are number of women ok and very into watching their boyfriend or hubby being intimate with another guy.

[+ Jamie21]

11 minutes ago, big-n-tall said:

One of the prevailing things mentioned about their enjoyment of gay porn was the the romantic elements in it... the kissing the touching etc.

Yes! This exactly. That’s what my experience is. They like the intimacy of it, especially the kissing. It seems so normal to me but I guess they never really see men being vulnerable. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

17 hours ago, moonlight said:

I've wondered how much of this difference is biological and how much is cultural. Surely both are factors. I've heard that wealthy women in Japan have been known to hire male escorts, and that perhaps the service is focused more on providing intimacy than the act itself. But I don't know much about it. It's an interesting topic.

You're thinking of host clubs, but paid male companionship is a lot more common in Japan.

On the other hand, the "intimacy" between gay men is unrealistically depicted in yaoi manga, which is mainly read by straight women.