Red flags to lookout for

[marylander1940]

"Serious inquiries only"

In all activities there are time wasters, it's part of dealing with people!

[DMonDude]

42 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

"Serious inquiries only"

In all activities there are time wasters, it's part of dealing with people!

Isn't this just a mild annoyance rather than an actual red flag? I feel like half the stuff in this thread are mild annoyances at best and not actual signs of a scammer or bad bedroom experience.

[marylander1940]

11 hours ago, DMonDude said:

Isn't this just a mild annoyance rather than an actual red flag? I feel like half the stuff in this thread are mild annoyances at best and not actual signs of a scammer or bad bedroom experience.

 

To me at least that kind of wording sounds a bit prima donna and is usually surrounded by similar style attitude towards others. 

Hopefully those providers won't spend 2 years in Seeking Arrangement Success wasting time. 

Some folks have so much time to go after escorts with a velvet line, are they accustomed to rejection. Maybe?

 

Edited October 1 by marylander1940

[DMonDude]

10 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

 

To me at least that kind of wording sounds a bit prima donna and is usually surrounded by similar style attitude towards others.

 

I feel like it's fairly valid considering so many of the messages they get don't go anywhere or are just people wanting to see their pics or sext basically. I'd be more with you on the "prima donna" vibe thing when it's like them saying how VIP/High Class/Expensive/Premium/etc they are like another comment up thread said. Even then though, prima donna vibe is an annoyance, i don't feel it's a real direct indicator they're bad at what they do or are "avoid at all costs". To me "serious inquiries only" is just them listing their own red flags they have for us clients (usually from experience). They're simply requesting efficiency and follow through in the booking process.

A real red flag for this would be like mentioned up thread like the provider taking hours/days to respond to texts or constantly shifting an agreed upon meet around when trying to schedule or negotiate with them. That indicates poor time management skill on their part which also would imply to me they might be late or even miss a scheduled meet if they're constantly moving meets around or over booking themself. Which then would also imply maybe you're not getting them at full energy/capability if they did show up. It's an actual performance/product quality indicator.

[marylander1940]

15 minutes ago, DMonDude said:

I feel like it's fairly valid considering so many of the messages they get don't go anywhere or are just people wanting to see their pics or sext basically. I'd be more with you on the "prima donna" vibe thing when it's like them saying how VIP/High Class/Expensive/Premium/etc they are like another comment up thread said. Even then though, prima donna vibe is an annoyance, i don't feel it's a real direct indicator they're bad at what they do or are "avoid at all costs". To me "serious inquiries only" is just them listing their own red flags they have for us clients (usually from experience). They're simply requesting efficiency and follow through in the booking process.

A real red flag for this would be like mentioned up thread like the provider taking hours/days to respond to texts or constantly shifting an agreed upon meet around when trying to schedule or negotiate with them. That indicates poor time management skill on their part which also would imply to me they might be late or even miss a scheduled meet if they're constantly moving meets around or over booking themself. Which then would also imply maybe you're not getting them at full energy/capability if they did show up. It's an actual performance/product quality indicator.

Or this one for example.

 

On 7/21/2025 at 4:33 PM, marylander1940 said:

PNP and attitude!

Bad work ethic, laziness, etc

You've made your point, no need to keep dragging this exchange on. You can have the last word and now you're welcome to contribute about the red flags you consider legitimate. 

you might consider also posting on here.