*Cuteblondeboy newbie in LA

[+ PhileasFogg]

3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

The fact that people agree with one another doesn't make them the same person.

I simply agree with @Peter Eater that the "beauty" comment was a bit laughable. Peter and I are not the same person. Just both amused by the enthusiasm over someone so "meh".

interesting that you even felt a need to say that 🤔 especially since I didn’t name the potential alter ego who had some ripe words for me in PM

Hey @Pd1_jap, would you agree that he has a sweet and kind disposition as well??

 

Edited Monday at 09:49 PM by PhileasFogg

[MikeBiDude]

1 hour ago, PhileasFogg said:

interesting that you even felt a need to say that 🤔 especially since I didn’t name the potential alter ego who had some ripe words for me in PM

Hey @Pd1_jap, would you agree that he has a sweet and kind disposition as well??

 

I’ll chime in as a current client (not speaking as a moderator here) of @CuteBlondeBoy, that he does have a great disposition and attitude and is a kind and caring soul. Our first meet the conversation clicked with many mutual interests and a few funny coincidences….he’s very easygoing. I find him very attractive, his stats as he reports them are accurate. He’s honest.

What we are attracted to is so very objective. But no reason to throw in dissenting comments like hand grenades denigrating other’s opinion. 

Some on here might view a couple posts here that seem to want to inflame the conversation…as provocative. Some message boards would call those types of posts trolling.

[TJMS]

I have the greatest respect for Pubic Assistance and he has been very helpful to me on many occasions. I am a bit surprised by his comments here about CuteBlondeBoy.  I know I have sometimes made comments about a provider on the public forum of C of M I later came to regret. Objectively, if you look at the sum of CuteBlondeBoy's pictures and videos, he would be appealing to a wide audience, but not necessarily universally. I, for one, do not care for tattoos, piercings and highly muscular men. However, I have friends that find all, or some of those things very appealing. I respect their attractions. 

When I come to this forum, what I really want to hear from folks here is whether an escort is honest, delivers what he says he will, is interesting, and is someone I would want to spend time with. Other than that, de gustibus non disputandum est. 

[Jostar]

I know guys in here get offended by what other guys say about providers looks and age. But these providers don't really care what we think about their looks and character. We need to stop putting these providers in a pedestal. We seem to forget that this is there job. There are not are friends no matter how nice they are or caring, at the end of the day they are getting paying. Providers are not doing this because the kindness of their heart. Providers are the true winners, they are getting our money. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

8 hours ago, Jostar said:

But these providers don't really care what we think about their looks and character.

You may be surprised.

Actually, you would be surprised how often that assumption misses the mark.

I think the bigger question is - if you don’t have something on topic or nice to say, why say anything at all.  Right?

One of the first noted guidelines in the community guidelines is:

“publicly shaming, and attacking other members, groups of members, or people who are the topic of discussion is prohibited. Remember: you may criticize a person's opinion but don't attack the person.“

I can speculate on why someone might do these things - consistently - but, the question is whether we should allow that on the rationale that “the guys don’t care”  Hence, a guideline that says “don’t”

so, in the interest of harmony, I’ll let the debate rest, but I think you are wrong in this assertion.

[Jostar]

Actually not. Those providers are not loosing sleep of what why we think of them. You know why because they see random guys all the time, it their job. Sooner or later they'll quit, move on and never see you again. And that just fine, it part of life. As men we need to start not taking everything seriously and move on. I know there guys in here that talk bad about the providers i seeing but that ok. You know why it their own opinion. That why we have this forum so we can express ourself be either good or bad. In my opinion, I know you guys are gonna talk bad about my decision, cuteblondeboy out of 1 thru 10 hotness I say he a 4. He just not that attractive to me. But if he nice person than that good but remember guys he only doing this because it his job. If everyone in the world was nice in any job the world will been a better place. 

[mike carey]

Gentlemen, the conversation has drifted away, again, from the merits of the escort in question to the merits of each others' opinions. Please drift back. Sharply. Stick to the gentleman concerned.

[pubic_assistance]

The consensus seems to be that cuteblondboy does his best to provide entertaining companionship to his clients...and THAT is the most important quality for a provider of sexual services. 

You will never get anyone to agree on looks....so stop trying to insist. When I find someone attractive . .thats how I tend to phrase it. Its my PERSONAL observation / not a universal truth. 

I agree with @Jostar. He's maybe a 4 to me. But I'm not hiring him to suck MY dick... @PhileasFogg is paying to suck HIS own... And as long as we stick to the merit of this young fellow's personality and ability to suck a good dick, you have no argument from me. 

I remember in High School there were two fat, unattractive girls who were sisters. Nobody wanted to fuck them, but they both had great personalities and we always invited them to parties because they were a lot of fun. Today they are both married. so eventually they found someone who either likes fat women or just doesnt care and valued their personality over their looks. 

Edited 12 hours ago by pubic_assistance
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[Mark_fl]

36 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

He's maybe a 4 to me. But I'm not hiring him to suck MY dick... @PhileasFogg is. 

If PhileasFogg is hiring him to suck your dick, he's truly a good friend.

[Peter Eater]

1 hour ago, mike carey said:

Gentlemen, the conversation has drifted away, again, from the merits of the escort in question to the merits of each others' opinions. Please drift back. Sharply. Stick to the gentleman concerned.

I logged a single, two-word post — two words! — and it generated 22 posts of sheer, escalating insanity. People be crazy.

Pay attention to Mike Carey. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

1 hour ago, Peter Eater said:

I logged a single, two-word post — two words! — and it generated 22 posts of sheer, escalating insanity. People be crazy.

Pay attention to Mike Carey. 

While you’re counting words, some of us are weighing intent.  

And those two words revealed a lot that had nothing to do with the subject of the post.

As did the six words you directed at me in DM.  As I said, I’m glad my Irish mother taught me those words at a young age…of course, she was a bipolar alcoholic…I wonder what your excuse is. 

[pubic_assistance]

5 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said:

my Irish mother..... was a bipolar alcoholic…

What was HER opinion of Cuteblondeboy ? 

[rvwnsd]

Moderator's Note: We're done. Topic locked.