*Cuteblondeboy newbie in LA

[+ Gar1eth]

1 hour ago, PhileasFogg said:

appreciate you casting shade on my opinion 🙄 There are a couple of relevant facts, 

1) his blond hair is pressed against my face right now and not yours   

2) you’re relying on photographic assessment and not reality. 

And so if you say he’s lying, then you’re saying I am too based on your limited perspective.  And now you suggesting he’s not cute…you’re wrong and he’s angelic and adorable too 

You’ve made your opinion clear.  Thank you.  I disagree and suggest I’m in a better position to draw a conclusion than you.  So, can you let it go please?

 

edited to add.  As of this morning he had many more positive reviews than most RM guys.  I guess that refutes your lying assertion, right?

Could I interject to add that even though obscured, from what little I can see,  @PhileasFogg looks like a pretty dang handsome guy?

[MikeBiDude]

20 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

Are we refocusing this thread on hair color again??

2 hours ago, TJMS said:

Blonde Hair? LET IT GO!

 

 

Moderator caution: Let’s get this thread back on track, CuteBlondeBoy. The Lounge would be a proper place to start a thread on blond vs blonde vs color perception. NOT here.

Back to discussing the provider CuteBlondeBoy.

 

[+ goosh69]

He’s definitely in his early twenties. I’ve met him in person. People are weird. He’s NOT losing his hair either. People are REALLY weird. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

Thank you @MikeBiDude. All good — different opinions make the forum lively, and I’m perfectly fine with the discussion (and observing the rhetorical techniques that some use to deflect from weak arguments)

Just to re-center things: I’ve now spent two full weekends with this young man — one in Palm Springs and one in New Orleans — and my time with him has exceeded expectations each visit. We already had a third weekend planned for Palm Springs (in three months), even before this weekend’s awesome reunion   

He’s been on RM since MAY and (excluding my two) already has NINE 5-star reviews. For anyone assessing what actually matters, these firsthand experiences and consistent ratings speak for themselves.

[Peter Eater]

Dylan’s not blond either.

[TJMS]

I certainly wouldn't kick CuteBlondeBoy out of my bed. He looks yummy!!! And his reviews are stellar!

[+ PhileasFogg]

@CuteBlondeBoy and I are in St John for a week with a couple of other forum members and I just want to underscore - regardless of what you think his hair color is - that he’s adorable when he sleeps 🥱 😴 😉

[CuteBlondeBoy]

On 6/14/2025 at 9:56 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Call me confused.

How is this guy "blonde" ? 🤔

Hes got brown hair in every photo.

You are so right. His hair is basically JET BLACK. He should immediately rebrand to CuteBrownBoy. Also why is his name “boy”?? He’s clearly NOT underage. False advertising honestly 👎

But in all seriousness, my hair is dirty blonde 🙂‍↕️ I’d change it to DirtyBlondeBoy but I feel like people would get the wrong idea 😂🫶 Appreciate the feedback babe 😘

[+ PhileasFogg]

No surprise…his cute wit comes out

@CuteBlondeBoy

DirtyBlondeBoy

LightBrownBoy 

or

CuteBlackBoy…I don’t care…

my favorable comments stand 😉

[TJMS]

He's a beauty!!

[Peter Eater]

35 minutes ago, TJMS said:

He's a beauty!!

He is?

[TJMS]

He is. Go look at his RM ad which also links his twitter!

[+ PhileasFogg]

On 5/21/2026 at 11:37 AM, Peter Eater said:

He is?

Yes, he is!  I’ve been with him and 2 others for a week and he and I will part ways in Charlotte on Sunday.  There are a number of awesome guys, but this one also proves himself a great travel companion who plays well with others.  He’s educated, smart, refined, sweet and sexy as hell.  When he assumes the pose - and the other two unnamed companions agree - he IS Michaelangelo’s David (with smaller hands and bigger *ahem*)

[Pd1_jap]

He's a great guy. Meet him twice and he's a real sweetheart. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

On 5/21/2026 at 11:37 AM, Peter Eater said:

He is?

So let’s go over this again and I’ll talk as slow as you need 

THIS is an info post not an opinion post.  So let’s deal with some facts:

- many find him hot (including the other two guys joining us in St. John this week). You have not met him - you have no info to offer  

- he is 8 inches - actually the consensus among the three of us with him on this trip is that he’s larger - but there is no measuring tape in the villa I have rented     However, one among us just shot with Silas Brooks and believes CBB to be the largest among our well endowed group.  If you met him and believe him to be less than 8”, it was probably because size often requires arousal.  Try harder next time…

soooo, please reserve your unsolicited OPINION to a critique of me…but save your shade on my favorable assessment until you have direct experience to offer

Edited Saturday at 05:56 PM by PhileasFogg

[pubic_assistance]

On 5/23/2026 at 12:24 PM, PhileasFogg said:

THIS is an info post not an opinion post.  So let’s deal with some facts:

Umm...no.

Finding someone to be "hot" is ALWAYS a matter of OPINION.

THIS particular fellow is a grand example of that FACT. 

While YOU are head-over-heels in love with this guy, there are others in the crowd here completely mystified by the "he's hot" statement, including me. 

You couldn't PAY me to fuck this kid. Now THAT doesnt make him UNattractive...it just highlights the idea of physical attraction as being completely subjective OPINION and never "fact."

One man's "yum" is another man's "yuck".

 

[+ PhileasFogg]

On 6/13/2025 at 10:20 PM, Twinkluvr said:

Anyone met him?

Ok, this is the OP. @pubic_assistance, I’m beginning to wonder how many profiles you have here.   Notwithstanding that,  please tell me how your comments - and those of your potential alter ego - are responsive to the OP?

If the OP had asked “what do you think of this guy?” that, as a matter of FACT, would have been a solicitation of OPINION.   The fact that you - and your potential alter ego - can’t see the difference says a lot

Did you hear the one about the Buddhist Monk?

The monk bumps into a guy carrying a cup of coffee causing him to spill it.    The guy complains to the monk who asks, “why did you spill your coffee?”
The guy says "Because you bumped into me."
The monk explains, "No, you spilled the coffee because coffee was in your cup. If water had been in the cup, you would have spilled water."

So, what’s that have to do with you and your potential alter ego?? 

You - frequently - reveal that your cup(s) seem(s) to be filled with negative thoughts that are irrelevant to those having civil information exchange   Of course, I have no problem defending those to whom I’m loyal and taking on those who cast shade to try to compensate for their…well…whatever.  

So there…just like you wanted…we’ve hijacked this post and made it about you and what you think  - rather than a very fine and talented young man whom neither you, nor your potential alter ego, have ever met

 

 

Edited Monday at 05:32 PM by PhileasFogg

[mtaabq]

Jeez … this isn’t “Company of Men”, it’s “Coven of Mean Girls”. Good Lord. It’s like the “Dynasty” cat fights. It’s enough to make me wanna dig up Joan Collins and demand an explanation. What? She’s still alive? Well, whatever. 

[pubic_assistance]

53 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said:

I’m beginning to wonder how many profiles you have here

The fact that people agree with one another doesn't make them the same person.

I simply agree with @Peter Eater that the "beauty" comment was a bit laughable. Peter and I are not the same person. Just both amused by the enthusiasm over someone so "meh".

Edited Monday at 06:25 PM by pubic_assistance
grammer / meaning

[guru68]

May we all find our way to those who most interest us.

[pubic_assistance]

On 5/21/2026 at 12:17 PM, TJMS said:

He is. Go look at his RM ad which also links his twitter!

What am I missing ?  Pear shaped twunk with brown hair ( again ) . RED hair on his RM account. This whole subject has me scratching my head over the commentary by @TJMSand @PhileasFogg about what a "beauty" this (fake) blonde is. 🤔

He may be a VERY nice young man...but sorry. When I am PAYING for sex, I am paying for someone who beats the average in the looks department. Beauty is CLEARLY in the eye of the beholder on this one !

Edited Monday at 06:41 PM by pubic_assistance

[Charlington]

He’s not my type either. But, I can see his appeal to others who might be seeking a bottom or twink/twunk kind of look with boyish features.

[Pd1_jap]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

What am I missing ?  Pear shaped twunk with brown hair ( again ) . RED hair on his RM account. This whole subject has me scratching my head over the commentary by @TJMSand @PhileasFogg about what a "beauty" this (fake) blonde is. 🤔

He may be a VERY nice young man...but sorry. When I am PAYING for sex, I am paying for someone who beats the average in the looks department. Beauty is CLEARLY in the eye of the beholder on this one !

This photo is at an odd angle. I can attest that he is slim with visible musculature and is in no way pear-shaped IRL.

Y'all need to realize that most of the images you see of these "hot" guys are heavily altered and/or taken by professional photographers using well known angles and poses. 

 

 

@pubic_assistance please stop body shaming. Your behavior is bordering on harassment. Or, maybe you should post all the pics of yourself so we can critique your physique? 

Hugs and kisses, tchüss.

Edited Monday at 08:13 PM by Pd1_jap
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[Peter Eater]

17 minutes ago, Pd1_jap said:

 

 

Well, Ben, let’s start with the hair. Bangs? No.