Cock ring for longer session

[TopTwinkyLower]

I never used cock ring , does it work for keeping myself doing for longer sessions. ? I cum tooo fast. 

[pubic_assistance]

50 minutes ago, Twinkslover said:

I never used cock ring , does it work for keeping myself doing for longer sessions. ? I cum tooo fast. 

Cock rings turn me on and for me..actually contribute to me cumming too fast. 

[+ Pensant]

I love wearing them. Keeps me hard for several hours. I’ve never needed V or other drugs. I like my providers to wear them too.

[TopTwinkyLower]

1 hour ago, Pensant said:

I love wearing them. Keeps me hard for several hours. I’ve never needed V or other drugs. I like my providers to wear them too.

Great, any good brand  recommendation and any place to  purchase online or from NYC area?

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

3 hours ago, Twinkslover said:

Great, any good brand  recommendation and any place to  purchase online or from NYC area?

Don't buy online.  Go to any sex shop and inspect what you're buying (thickness, diameter, material, quality).  If you're lucky, the sex shop attendant might help you try one on! 😈 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

7 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Cock rings turn me on and for me..actually contribute to me cumming too fast. 

This.  100%.

I like the feel of a heavy steel ring, but like you, it tends to make me cum very quickly when wearing it.

I need to get used to the feeling of it on a more regular basis to numb myself out to it a bit.  

Wear it to the gym, etc.  Not just for when I'm going to fuck.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

5 hours ago, Twinkslover said:

Great, any good brand  recommendation and any place to  purchase online or from NYC area?

If you can find a place that will custom make one for you, that's your best bet.

I had several made in Key West at Leathermasters.  They measure your junk, ask you questions on how snug you want it, etc. 

[pubic_assistance]

22 hours ago, Twinkslover said:

Great, any good brand  recommendation and any place to  purchase online or from NYC area?

The Leatherman on Christopher Street is always the best, most experienced place to buy a cock ring. They also do custom work if you can't find exactly what you want off-the-shelf.

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[TopTwinkyLower]

thanks

[+ Pensant]

I just buy cheap black rubber o rings at the hardware store. I buy the more exotic ones from Mr S Leathers on line or from Doghouse Leathers in Seattle.

[Whippoorwill]

A cock ring keeps me hard without me (or others) touching my cock…especially useful at the tubs, sex parties, sex clubs…when you want to display the goods but not necessarily going at it at the moment. As mother said, always try to look your best. 

[jeezifonly]

I like the stretchy ones that have a ball tugger built in. If I want the extra tug, I add an adjustable snap-on weighted leather band, which can get pinchy on its own. The stretchy material that makes for comfort and easy on/off is compatible only with water- based lube, tho. Using oil-based or silicone-based will break them down pretty quick. Very few over-the-counter rings are 100% platinum silicone which stand up to the full range. 

Steel and cheap firm latex rubber (like o-ring gaskets) hold up longest, easiest to clean. Rubber won't set off TSA scanner if one likes to fly accessorized. 

I love it when a provider wears one. 

[topunderachiever]

@BenjaminNicholas loved wearing them, especially at the bathhouses, where clearly he was THE guy in demand.  

Unfortunately, like many providers before him, he's abandoned these forums after way over a decade, having had quite enough of the bitter attacks from many a member.  

I hope he returns soon.  

 

Edited September 21 by topunderachiever

[Km411]

On 9/20/2025 at 1:28 PM, topunderachiever said:

I hope he returns soon.

Me, too; sorry to hear he left the forum.

[marylander1940]

On 6/7/2025 at 7:17 AM, TopTwinkyLower said:

I never used cock ring , does it work for keeping myself doing for longer sessions. ? I cum tooo fast. 

I wouldn't recommend wearing it for longer than 30 mins specially if you're doing Viagra. 

[marylander1940]

On 9/20/2025 at 12:28 PM, topunderachiever said:

@BenjaminNicholas loved wearing them, especially at the bathhouses, where clearly he was THE guy in demand.  

Unfortunately, like many providers before him, he's abandoned these forums after way over a decade, having had quite enough of the bitter attacks from many a member.  

I hope he returns soon.  

 

 

On 9/27/2025 at 6:11 AM, Km411 said:

Me, too; sorry to hear he left the forum.

Me too!

@BenjaminNicholas is an honest contributor! 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

58 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

I wouldn't recommend wearing it for longer than 30 mins specially if you're doing Viagra. 

The first cock ring I ever saw/felt was on my masseur at Massage Envy.  He wore it through my full 2 hour massage.  It was metal.

[marylander1940]

3 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

The first cock ring I ever saw/felt was on my masseur at Massage Envy.  He wore it through my full 2 hour massage.  It was metal.

Poor guy! 

Sounds painful especially when he was a masseur not an escort

[luvhusky]

On 6/7/2025 at 11:35 AM, TopTwinkyLower said:

Great, any good brand  recommendation and any place to  purchase online or from NYC area?

Go to the leather man on Christopher street 

[pubic_assistance]

5 hours ago, luvhusky said:

Go to the leather man on Christopher street 

I bought mine there many moons ago. I recall the salesperson was very professional and informative. Took me in a dressing room and suggested I pullout my (hard) cock so he could judge my anatomy and suggest the best variety for me. 

I used to attend a lot of sex parties when I was younger. Being that I am a "grow-er" not a show-er, the piece they custom made for me allowed me to spend the evening properly "fluffed'. Worked very well. I doubt after all these years, the staff is the same, but it was definitley THE place to go for all sorts of sex aids and leather accessories, back in the 90s and early 2000s.

[DenverDad]

I've had good luck with the PerfectFit Brand Xact-Fit cockrings (can buy on Amazon).  Different sizes are available and they are not as stretchy as alot of the cheaper silicone ones you find.  

[+ FrankR]

 Any suggestions on how to size yourself?  Most jewelers will hand out a free ring sizer - I need one of those!