Question to clients.

[BrickBuilder]

6 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

Ok, for historians or inexperienced clients reading this, be reassured that this does not happen "a lot" (still can't believe that's not one word) and escorts likely won't embarrass you in public, or private.  It's happened, it sucks.  It does not happen a lot.  Or often, barely infrequently.

The only thing that happens "a lot" is a good, not great, not bad, meeting that you may or may not (but come one, who are we kidding?, you may) repeat.

 

After many years of contacting providers (via pager, email, voice mail, texting, and now any other DM), I am gonna sorta parse out things from my perspective.  Please understand that I know that what I provide below can be mirrored by a provider looking at client contacts and others may want different categories.

Consider 20 escort potentials (i.e. ads you like and reach out to):

1 will be a total disaster (embarrassing in public, make a scene, crucify you on Mr. Number etc.)

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3 will have promised the world, you hire them they and they did not follow thru in action or never showed

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3 will either never respond or at some point ghost you (hence you never meet)

3 will be out of your price range

3 you or they will decide after chatting it was not a match and you will not hire them

3 will be "meh" when you hire them and you will not hire them again

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3 will be good/really good experiences that will make you think about repeating

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1 will be so fucking amazing in some way that you will want to hire him again ASAP

[+ MakeMeCowboy]

On 5/15/2025 at 6:57 PM, Gilfson said:

What is something that providers do that really grinds your gears? 

Providers that don't 'wash-up' between appointments. 

[Gilfson]

5 hours ago, MakeMeCowboy said:

Providers that don't 'wash-up' between appointments. 

Eww gross

[Chien Andalou]

On 5/16/2025 at 12:19 PM, Constantine said:

Some Brazilians do

It’s not that they’re Brazilian. It’s that Brazilians and other Latins often plan to service multiple clients in a day, especially if they’re traveling; they can’t do that if they drop a load with all of them. If they cum with you, they expect to be out of commission for the rest of the day. They want compensation for that. I don’t have a problem with that. When they do cum, I know it’s because I got them off and not from obligation. 

[Constantine]

10 hours ago, Chien Andalou said:

It’s not that they’re Brazilian. It’s that Brazilians and other Latins often plan to service multiple clients in a day, especially if they’re traveling; they can’t do that if they drop a load with all of them. If they cum with you, they expect to be out of commission for the rest of the day. They want compensation for that. I don’t have a problem with that. When they do cum, I know it’s because I got them off and not from obligation. 

 

A highly desirable escort will be in demand and could see several clients per day regardless of their race. The Brazilians I meet are those that are domiciled in London for a few months, not on quick tour. Thankfully it's not all Brazilians who charge extra to cum but in my experience this is unique to Brazilians. I've met men from all over the world and the only nationality who do this are Brazilians.

[Ali Gator]

When they don't treat their service as a business profession the way I treat their service. 

When I reach out to them (always in a professional, polite manner), I always let them know I'm interested in an appointment with them, but need to know what their hourly rate is, and where are they staying in my city (there are some hotels in some areas I simply won't go to, for different reasons).  Once they answer those two questions (and I'm still interested), I then ask when they have availability for that day / evening / tomorrow ? I believe I'm treating them kindly and professionally with the above texts. 

Some providers will answer the first two questions to my liking, so we move on to availability - again, they respond with a date and timeframe which can work with both our schedules. I can tell off the bat that they are professional, they take this seriously, and we're going to get along great. (It never fails). I schedule right away and 90% of the time I become a 'repeat'. AND when I do see them, by the end of the appointment, I always complimnt them on their professionalism - from their very first text. These guys seem very appreciative of this compliment.

But then there are those who answer the first text (first two questions) with 'Hey' or 'Wassup?' I'll ask again about pricing and location, and they follow up with 'You wanna see me now ?" At that point, I know this guy is making money off a hobby, isn't taking this 'business' seriously,  and things will get worse from there, no matter how hot his photos / descriptions are. The few times I went ahead and met with them, I left very disappointed. So at that point, I thank him for his time and let him know I changed my mind - it's not worth it. 

[simongayx]

I have only ever booked on Rentmasseur, and I only do outcalls.   That means that the masseur has to give accurate and complete information about his address.  The better providers typically have a full description -- address, how to arrive by public transportation, parking availability, buzzer code if it is an apartment building etc.   But on several occasions recently, crucial parts of the address instructions have been missing.   There was one masseur who omitted to tell me that he was in the basement apartment around the back of a house.  I knocked on the front door, which was opened by a young mother holding a baby.   Then there was the occasion when I stood outside for ages in the Toronto cold because the buzzer for the apartment did not work.   I ended up texting him:  "oh yeh, I should have told you the buzzer was broken."   Then there was the time I was given the incorrect buzzer code  and I had to sneak into the building when somebody was exiting.   So flakiness bugs me.   It is surely not difficult to have a prepared text with all the relevant information.  When seeing someone new, there is a certain apprehension, and having a smooth journey without hassle always gets things off on the right note.  

[Looky_lou_boo]

Providers that can’t maintain an erection, or need to use a cock ring (which 9 times out 10 also doesn’t work out). 

[+ SirBillybob]

When they impute to me the same ridiculous expectations they have endured as applied by other punters with unrealistic demands, and I have to expend energy detoxifying the anticipatory aspects of our transaction to get to the natural and fun parts.